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How to move on
I really liked this kid, a whole lot. We both liked each other, but no move was made to do take our relationship further than just "friends". So he moved on, and I'm still upset over what could have been. I know he doesn't care, because he likes someone else who likes them. Its extremely awkward because I see him every time I go to my friends house, and we both get that weird feeling of old-like. I'm positive he doesn't like me anymore though. So, I want to move on really bad. How do i get rid of him in my head? How did you move on from someone ? Every been in this situation? What did you do? Please, I find it hard to like anyone else now, Thanks everyone :(.
16/f
-Unrequited.
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I know your feeling all to well. And the hardest part of breaking up is moving on. But moving on is a must. And it's starts with demolishing all contact, don't talk to him, and try your best not to be around him. If you know he's around that friends house, DON'T GO THERE. Because seeing him is going to oly hurt you so try to spare yourself the pain. lso find hings you like that intrest you, hang out with friends. Watch movies you like, read, join in activities, redecorate your room,help your parents, babysit, go shopping, get a make over, pick up book pertaining to moving on... It's so many ways and it's starts to day... And trust me time would past when you want even remember his name... That's life theres alot of imposters but you'll go threw enough untill you find your prince charming and with that comes wisdom... One day you'll be giving a young lady like yourself advice... The best of luck to you
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Hey ,
I know its heartbreaking , ive had that feeling
before and I hate it, to me it seems like
a good memory that couldve happend that went to waste.
But , listen I know obviously you've
tried to possibly forget about him in every single way you possibly could and also avoid him.
Whenever you go to your friends house make sure
he wont be there so you can avoid bumping into him unexpectedly, always be alert.
One thing guys always like is a Strong Independent
Woman. If you know he doesnt like you then why sweat it, right? Its hard ... it takes timee
but the time depends on you.
Always know that theres more fellas out there,
some willing to kill to be in a relationship...So think about that. but its always best to have him as a friend then nothing more ;]
Oh by the way, a trick i learned though is that YOUR BRAIN is what sends signals to the rest of your body sooo you just got to let your brain know wassup.
For example , tell yourself hes just a friend ..
a meere boy that used to like you and missed out
on what he couldve had but lost it, life goes on
maybe someday in the future something can happen but til then Im going to Stay strong and move on.
- Msunbelievable
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Maybe you should aviod him for a while. Get some fresh air. I'm not saying not be friends just aviod him for a while. Get to now new people. I have been in this situtation. After a month i got over him because i stayed away for awhile and met new people. After that month i started talking to him again. I didnt feel like i liked him at all anymore.
Jay
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