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I really liked this kid, a whole lot. We both liked each other, but no move was made to do take our relationship further than just "friends". So he moved on, and I'm still upset over what could have been. I know he doesn't care, because he likes someone else who likes them. Its extremely awkward because I see him every time I go to my friends house, and we both get that weird feeling of old-like. I'm positive he doesn't like me anymore though. So, I want to move on really bad. How do i get rid of him in my head? How did you move on from someone ? Every been in this situation? What did you do? Please, I find it hard to like anyone else now, Thanks everyone :(.
16/f
-Unrequited. (link)
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Hey ,
I know its heartbreaking , ive had that feeling
before and I hate it, to me it seems like
a good memory that couldve happend that went to waste.
But , listen I know obviously you've
tried to possibly forget about him in every single way you possibly could and also avoid him.
Whenever you go to your friends house make sure
he wont be there so you can avoid bumping into him unexpectedly, always be alert.
One thing guys always like is a Strong Independent
Woman. If you know he doesnt like you then why sweat it, right? Its hard ... it takes timee
but the time depends on you.
Always know that theres more fellas out there,
some willing to kill to be in a relationship...So think about that. but its always best to have him as a friend then nothing more ;]
Oh by the way, a trick i learned though is that YOUR BRAIN is what sends signals to the rest of your body sooo you just got to let your brain know wassup.
For example , tell yourself hes just a friend ..
a meere boy that used to like you and missed out
on what he couldve had but lost it, life goes on
maybe someday in the future something can happen but til then Im going to Stay strong and move on.
- Msunbelievable
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How good is The Art Institutes. I'm reconsidering my college choice and the whole college life and I was considering their online program although I've always looked down on online college degrees. I just want to make sure that they have a really good program, specifically for interior design. (link)
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Hey ,
well im a junior in my highschool
but Ive had somebody come in from AIU
and talk about the different types of
programs they have and im not really into the
whole design or cooking or any thing
related to art as a matter of fact.
Ive always wanted to be a Criminal Investigator
but once the lady came in and talked about
that university and showed us a virtual
insider of everything I was pretty interested
im even goin to visit the university by the end
of the month.
So I think its pretty good if you ask me .
GO FOR IT ;)
- Msunbelievable
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Do people with braces on their teeth normally kiss? If so, is there any difference from those who don't have braces? Especially French kissing.
My ex girl and I are likely to make up in a few days from now. She recently got braces, and I wonder if it will be normal for us to be kissing, now that she has braces :-) (link)
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hmmmmmm, well it might be hard
for her to qet used to them and all
but you can be the one to help her with that.
It wont be long til she gets used to them
really. Ive never had braces , I dont need them
but from others I've heard when you get them
it hurts sooo... If i were you id probably
stick to just popping for a little while
until her mouth feels better but
make sure you ask her if shes down to makeout
before you do it.
MSunbelievable
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so i'm barely 16 (girl), and really old guys try to hit on me all the time, its really creepy. i don't need any warnings about "stay away," blah blah blah, because that's obvious, and the oldest guy i'd date or even think about hooking up with is 18, maybe 19. but like so many guys give you that "i want you in bed" stare (hahaha;) & theyre like 30s or even in their 40s! its disgusting. like im short so im obviously no older than 17, i mean some days i could pass for legal but probably not. like i know when a guy is interested in you, he turns his torso to face you. i know this could be coincidental at times but i had a teacher last year that always sat on desks and (not to be gross) spread his legs to slump down with his elbows on his knees, and i know that when a guy points his you-know-what at you, hes interested in you. (its a natural mating instinct, don't believe me if you dont want to.) this teacher was like 30 and he always faced me. like i made a point to move to avoid him and move to different seats across the entire room and he still always faced me, every single day. like i know its just one incident but so many old guys give me creepy stares. i just want other peoples experiences to make sure im not the only one hahaha and maybe some advice to keep the creepers away ;)
thankss (link)
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haha well im 16/F so i know what your
going through but im pretty tall about 5'7 and
I surely pass off as if im 18 or older for the
way i act ,people I hang with, the way I talk , etc.
I hate those old farts that stare at me,
I recommend you to not even look , completely
ignore them as hard as it is cause its sort of
funny yet disturbing and gross but thats
what helps them know theyre wayyyyyyyyy
out of your league.
even make an ugly face if you have to
a face that says " What the F ! are you looking at !? "
if they go upto u by any chance asking for your age or name ; give them a rude answer or dont even bother wasting youre time.
if they blow kisses or wink at you or sumthing
just laugh and walk away .
to tell you the truth it might be nasty and
all but only in their dreams will they ever get
with someone around our age , so at times take their compliments say thank you in a rudeish kinda nice way though
hope this helps
-MSunbelievable
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I met this guy last semester and I developed a crush on him, but I thought he saw me as just a friend. We accidentally ran into eachother a few weeks ago, and got to talking and we both admitted to liking eachother the whole semester. We started "dating" and I found out he's looking for something serious and has become overly eager and wants to call/text all the time. I don't want a serious relationship but I like him and want to hang out. I told him that and he seemed to accept it but continues to act like I'm his girlfriend. How can I draw the line and get him to realize that he needs to backoff and relax? I admitted I'm a sort of a commitmentphobe, but he thinks he's seriously going to change my mind! (21/F) (link)
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wow , i can see hes on you
I suggest you tell him straight up,
maybe theres some things you do that lead him
into thinking hes got a chance , so avoid that.
try ignoring him alittle but not much ,
its a small world and you never know, if you know
what I mean .
try being less of yourself around him maybe that
will help him get over you.
what always works for me is " small talk "
if he texts or calls saying hey babe how are you
you simply reply using the one word technique
such as " ok " or " str8 "
hope it helps
- MSunbelievable
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Is it possible for a person to bring back deleted files. I have no idea what happened to all the saved files on my memory card. Its like they all disappered. (link)
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well i have a PS2 myself
and i dont really think thats possible really
unless you go to a place where they can
do that ; perhaps it got to full and deleted
by itself who knows ???
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im ALWAYS comparing myself to my boyfriends ex girlfriends.. its bugs me so much cause one of the girls has huge boobs and she lets em all hang out and i have like none.. why do i do this? how do i stop helpp =[ (link)
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listen , be proud of who you are and
what you look like envy is a major no-no
confident is what makes a woman or girl sexy
and beautiful , not HUGE boobs.
if hes with you its because he doesnt care if you
have big boobs or maybe a big butt, etc.
and maybe that was the reason why he went out with
her because of what she had.
believe me ,its better to be liked because of who you are than for what you do or have.
one thing you should know and remember
" boys want sex, MEN want relationships "
think about it wisely.
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Hey. Okay so me and my best friend are fifteen, and her mom died this past friday of a blood clot of some form. For the funeral, they have posterboards of random pictures of her and her family. My friend wants to find two quotes that can go at the tops of the boards. Does anybody know any good ones that are good for her mom, or any good sites to look at?
The quotes shouldn't be about like teenage love or anything. They should be moving and promote thought, but also not be dark and gloomy. We (my friend and I) want the quotes to be perfect.
Somone PLEEASE help!? (link)
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" heaven maybe far away , but youll always be in my heart "
" be happy , for not sad , she is in a better place , free from pain , happy at last "
" through joy , tears , fears , and fights
I will never forget the days you stood by "
- written by me.
HOPE YOU LIKE THEM..
- MSunbelievable
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any time i like a guy at all, the closer we start getting to each other i automatically become unattracted to him for no reason at all. even if he is my type and there's nothing wrong with him and he's really sweet to me and he likes me a lot, i become unattracted to him the closer we get.
why does this happen and how to i stop being like this?!?!?! (link)
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I understand you , and must agree
that its you not him.
I relate with you in this topic alot.
sometimes you believe the guy is just too good
for you and you just dont know why and you seem to let go of it because youre confused and start
questioning yourself thus making him unatractive
because maybe your not looking for somebody so perfect, because it doesnt exist
" PERFECTION IS FLAW "
or maybe your smarter than you think and
you know theres something about "that guy"
that turns you off
well ....... somehow i know this might sound
all confusing but think about it.
- MSunbelievable
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well the last time i had sex was about two months ago and im pretty sure the guy used a condom. But now i have two bumps down there one on the top part of my vagina and the other towards the bottom. these bumps arent big they dont itch or hurt and they're small. they look clear or a fleshy color,also i tryed to pop one and it bled. is this a disease? does anyone know what this is? please help. (link)
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im not a doctor or anything ,
corrent me if im wrong but i have a feeling its just a few pimples which is normal by the way.
I highly recommend you see your doctor
about it though and pray its nothing bad.
BEST OF WISHES.
- MSunbelievable
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16/f
Well me and this guy had a 3 month relationship that ended in may. We still like eachother so we want to try to date again. We talked really good for a long while. Then all of a sudden he is acting different and not talking to me as much. I don't get it. He says he wants to date really bad and he really really likes me. But why won't he text me as much? Now he says he's just busy all the time. Well apperently he wasn't that busy before. Help? (link)
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I understand him because I sortof tend
to be exactly like that, guys hate it as well as girls do.
its either 3 of the following hes confused
because hes probably afraid he might get hurt
or in some way hurt you.
hes actually not as "ready" as he said he was
to date you and is having second doubts.
or the sad truth behind it may be he is talking
to somebody else.
But if hes the honest kind , he might actually be busy trying to keep himself busy with life.
you should probably confront him ,
ask him if he really wants to start dating again
and if he admits he doesnt or admits hes not ready
yet, dont be a bad sport and stick around as a friend or a best friend cause one way or another
hes going to realize hes always going to have u
to talk to and be there.
;) most times this eventually always helps for future make-ups.
- MSunbelievable
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16/f. I am about 5'4", 150 lbs... My doctor told me I should be about 138. I would like to lose some weight on my arms and in my stomach and thighs..Are there any particular exercises that can help me with this? I have no access to a gym or weight lifting equipment. Please be kind of descriptive! Thanks! (link)
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you dont need to excercise to lose
weight first of all, it helps alot though
and shows faster improvement and keeps muscles strong and blood pumping.
i suggest dancing , its fun and you can dance
at your own pace , whatever song you like.
if you have your own room , lock yourself in there
atleast an hour a day , and just shake it
try some dance moves , sweat girl sweat! :)
stretch a little before. Drink plenty water
and breathe correctly while excersizing also DONT FORGET ! if tired or feeling bad STOP! take a break.
CUT OUT THE JUNK FOOD !
[ this also means soda ]
other tips:
1. run around the block with a friend
[be careful though]
2. swim in the pool for a while
3. situps or crunches
4. drink a glass of water before eating , & a glass of water after eating this helps the digestive system
5. get atleast 8 hours of sleep
6. play some sports with family or friends
7. STAY AWAY FROM DRUGS !, not cause their bad
but cause if your on a diet it DOESNT help at all.
8. make sure you tell your friends
your on a diet and tell them to help you eat healthy.
- MSunbelievable
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(18/f) One of my really good friends confided in me and told me that they are thinking of committing suicide, and he made me promise i wouldnt tell anyone. I'm really scared for him and im not sure what i should do. i tried talking him out of it as much as i could but i am still scared he might do something. (link)
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not all promises are meant to be kept, sadly but true.
you cannot keep this to yourself , AT ALL!
i believe this person needs you more now than ever
to show the good parts of life , and theres no point in ending it so soon.
theres always a solution to a problem , and if there isnt then its not a problem.
make sure you keep in touch with them at all times
through text , talking on the phone
hanging out , make sure they know theres someone that cares. DO NOT FEEL SORRY FOR THEM !
everybody has problems , and many believe noones
there to help or provide answers but theyre wrong.
whatever you do try to stay positive around them , take them to places they like , do exciting things to keep them busy & help them forget about suicide. dont bring it up in a conversation either
hope this helps.
- MSunbelievable
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hi im from canada and i struggle with helping my mom get over her addiction, im 14 and i have a chance of moving in with my aunt who is much more better for me and has more time, money and strengh too keep up with me. so do i stay with my mom for grade 8 and be stressed with the bills and her self or do i leave and start fresh with my aunt and hurt my mom for myself? (link)
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hmmm, sounds like a tough situation
in my opinion id stick with my mother
if your mother was the kind that was always there foryou although she has an addiction , theres always a solution
id suggest you hang around your mother , let her know how you feel , try helping as well
your age has absolutely nothing to do with the actions you can take.
as you noticed kids arent the only ones
that make mistakes, adults do as well.
hopefully whatever her addiction maybe you
learn from it.
SO STICK AROUND , && HELP
get your aunt to help also , the more the merrier
hope all works , qood luck.
- MSunbelievable
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I'm 16/f. Ok, so last year, I lost 30 pounds. But during winter I always gained weight. And last year i became a basketball manager, so I never had anymore time to exersize. Well I gained most of it back, and I'm really starting to hate my body again. When I lost weight I was so happy all of the time, I felt like I was on top of the world. Well now I usually feel depressed, because my body is back to its usual self. So what can I do to get back in the habit of loosing weight? I've tried to start working out again, but it's just not working. Some tips please? I can't figure out if it's just because I'm not motivated or what, but some ideas would really help. Thanks! (link)
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Well , ive been through
the same thing you have i lost weight
as well and seem to gain it back when i slack off.
its like an up and down sort of thing.
I seriously hate it but anyways ,
some tips ive learned are the following
1. eat well ( fruits ,vegies, meat , etc.)
2. get enough sleep atleast 8 hours
3. dont be a couch potatoe get out more often
4. drink PLENTY water , it helps clean your
system .
5. eat 3-5 times a day [no junk food]
6. pick a day of the week to "pig out"
but dont pass the limit, for example,
i usually eat ice creams on saturdays or pizza
when i go out with the family or friends
DO NOT STARVE YOURSELF !! thats a major no-no
dont even think about the other unsafe things.
since your the manager, why not practice with your
team get in the game as well.
- MSunbelievable
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