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COMPARING MYSELF.. im ALWAYS comparing myself to my boyfriends ex girlfriends.. its bugs me so much cause one of the girls has huge boobs and she lets em all hang out and i have like none.. why do i do this? how do i stop helpp =[
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You can just remind yourself ...
A) Jealousy is a key of ruining a relationship
B) He isn't with them anymore and happy so that means he doesn't want more of them, and by you trying to be them means you don't have a personality. So be yourself and that's exactly what will make you special to him..
C) He's dating you not any of them. So that means he choice you over that girl with HUGE BOOBS.
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listen , be proud of who you are and
what you look like envy is a major no-no
confident is what makes a woman or girl sexy
and beautiful , not HUGE boobs.
if hes with you its because he doesnt care if you
have big boobs or maybe a big butt, etc.
and maybe that was the reason why he went out with
her because of what she had.
believe me ,its better to be liked because of who you are than for what you do or have.
one thing you should know and remember
" boys want sex, MEN want relationships "
think about it wisely. ]
You are special in your own special way, NO ONE can compare to you EXACTLY the same way. Think about that when you start comparing yourself to you boyfriends ex girlfriends. ]
Sometimes it's hard not to compare yourself to what you instinctivly want to consider competition. What you have to remember is that you don't have to compete with her.
For one thing, having big boobs is nothing special. Many guys aren't interested in big breasts, and if your boyfriend is, who cares? Obviously it's not that important to him. Letting her breasts hang out isn't cool either. It's sort of trashy. You don't want to be trashy do you?
Just remember that he is with you, not her. So obviously there is something about you that he considers special, and it's something she didn't have. :) ]
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