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Weird
16/f
Well me and this guy had a 3 month relationship that ended in may. We still like eachother so we want to try to date again. We talked really good for a long while. Then all of a sudden he is acting different and not talking to me as much. I don't get it. He says he wants to date really bad and he really really likes me. But why won't he text me as much? Now he says he's just busy all the time. Well apperently he wasn't that busy before. Help?
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I understand him because I sortof tend
to be exactly like that, guys hate it as well as girls do.
its either 3 of the following hes confused
because hes probably afraid he might get hurt
or in some way hurt you.
hes actually not as "ready" as he said he was
to date you and is having second doubts.
or the sad truth behind it may be he is talking
to somebody else.
But if hes the honest kind , he might actually be busy trying to keep himself busy with life.
you should probably confront him ,
ask him if he really wants to start dating again
and if he admits he doesnt or admits hes not ready
yet, dont be a bad sport and stick around as a friend or a best friend cause one way or another
hes going to realize hes always going to have u
to talk to and be there.
;) most times this eventually always helps for future make-ups.
- MSunbelievable
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I Have Had This Deliemma Before...It's Not Really Easy To Deal With But He May Be Not Talking or txting As Much Because He's Prolly Confused (But Dont Quote Me On That) ...He May Still Rele Want To Date You And He May Rele Rele Like You But There Also Could B Something That Hes Not Telling You Whatever It May B You Should find Out ASAP...
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Hmm, well .. have you talked to him about this ? Maybe he's scared to start dating you again because of the previous relationship you both had. Or maybe he doesn't want anohter relationship right now and realized this after you and him talked about it. OR he might have found another girl and is exploring his options but if his othe "options" don't work out, you might be the backup plan.
But then again, these are just my guesses, I could be totally wrong or totally right. I think you should talk to him about this asap, so you can get it figured out. Just be straight up with him and ask why he's being so weird. Maybe he REALLY is busy, he may not be lying. But boys are pretty complicated and can give off mixed signals. They also can lose intrest if they think something "better" is coming their way. Stupid boys ;] justkidding. but realy, the only way to solving this is talking to him.
good luck ! and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. oh, and don't worry, I'm sure he has a good explanation for the way he's been acting. xxo.
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