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ok about the shy boy.He is 16 years old. I am 15. I have asked some people in his grade about him, this is what i've found out. BTW this is gonna be long! He is shy,and has been picked-on in the past i guess because he doesn't meet societies standards of masculiity.He applies himself in school and gets extremly good grades. He cries a lot i guess due to low frustration tolerence. He also cried when people pushed books out of his hands(rude i know). He has never had a girlfriend which is good and bad for me. Good because compared to nobody i'm pretty good plus i'm giving him the time of day. Bad because if he did like me he may not have the courage to ask me out. Two boys in his grade(junior) said he was gay, which I highly doubt. He is on the swim team and plays golf. His family is fairly well off(he has a mustang convertible). He looks at me an awaful lot and during a convocation moved in the same row as me like four people away and looked at me like 7 times, but never spoke. He sits alone sometimes at lunch. When he does sit with others he sits on the end. Which I think means he doesn't like to feel closed in. After he is done eating he goes and sits with the populars but is not necessarily included in the dicussion if you know what i mean. 2 other juniors said to go for it because if I would just talk to him I have like a 90% chance with him. Arrgh, I am just soo shy though. I honestly don't know if i'll ever get the courage to talk to him. I know I am just building him up as something perfect in my head which is why it is so hard. I mean he's only human. So my question is really 2 parts. 1-What do you think I should do as in like conversation..ect. and 2- Do you think I have a chance in hell. Please be honest. And I AM SOO SORRY THIS IS SO FREAKIN' LONG!! SORRY (link)
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From The Sounds Of It This Boy Is Definitly Worth It..He May B Extremley Shy And You Mabey B Too But Don't You Think It Would Also B Worth It To Just Talk To Him, Get To Know Him And Who Knows Something Good Will Come Out Of It, You Might Have To B Paitent With Him, Let Him Know That You Are There For Him, Frienship Wise at First...It Would B Better For You To Continue To Find Out More About Him..:)..Hope this Helps...:)
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Well me and this guy had a 3 month relationship that ended in may. We still like eachother so we want to try to date again. We talked really good for a long while. Then all of a sudden he is acting different and not talking to me as much. I don't get it. He says he wants to date really bad and he really really likes me. But why won't he text me as much? Now he says he's just busy all the time. Well apperently he wasn't that busy before. Help? (link)
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I Have Had This Deliemma Before...It's Not Really Easy To Deal With But He May Be Not Talking or txting As Much Because He's Prolly Confused (But Dont Quote Me On That) ...He May Still Rele Want To Date You And He May Rele Rele Like You But There Also Could B Something That Hes Not Telling You Whatever It May B You Should find Out ASAP...
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My best friend jazmine dated this guy named tyson and she fell in love with him, he broke up with her and got together with a girl named kayla. Jazmine so isnt over it and is constantly trying to make him jealous and is even losing weight to try and get him back. She's goig to extremes and i dont know what to say to her to make her stop! She wont listen to me and the guy is a total jerk! She's not moving on how can i help her? (link)
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First off let her know that your there for her and secondly id have to tell her to stop beating herself up over it because this dude is sooo not worth it no guy is really!!! ask her why she thinks she needs to lose weight ask her how this will make anything better..does it make her feel good will it make the guy come back?? if this is the way it's ment to be then there is nothing anybody can do i say forget the guy and move on it's not going to be easy but right now she needs a true and loyal friend that friend is you
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Well i wanted to take guitar lessons, and i was wondering what type of guitar would be the easiest to learn?
Or which kind wouldn't be so hard on my fingers, because ive heard that they can make your fingers sore. (link)
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I play guitar so this one's easy the first time i have ever learned to play guitar was with an acoustic they are hard on your fingers (all guitars are when your first learning how)but they are the easiest to learn with!!
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Okkk
So I have a kinda big problemmm
I have been going out with a guy for about 3 months and I love him so muchhh
But...
I am REALLY attracted to a guy that I just met, we just clicked, almost like "love at first sight"
The guy I love is amazing but we have about 2 things in common, literally....I love horses he is dead scared of themmm, he is amazing at sports and I don't really do many of themmm, etc.
But the guy I am attracted to, and like a lot, we have almost everything in common! We have the same disposition and everythinggg! He is amazinggg and we would make a really great coupleee
The worst part is, he admited that he liked me a few days agooo, and I want to make a move, but I love another guyyy
And it is love, but the begining stages, not like "I would die without you" love....
If you know what I mean...
What should I do, be with the guy I love, or the guy that I have so much fun with and am REALLY attracted to...
By the wayyy, I am way more attracted to the guy I am NOT going out with...
If that helps anyyyyy
Thanks (link)
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ok so the guy your with right now i can say that oppisites do attract but if you are extremley attracted to this other dude that you have tons in common with then i would go with the person you can actually talk to and i would also go with my gut feeling....
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this might sound really stupid but how do you know when your in love? i really really really like my boyfriend but i wouldn't wanna say i love you if i didnt mean it...thing is, we've only been dating for like 3 weeks, for anyone in a relationship how long did it take before you said 'i love you' please dont tell me "you'll know when your in love" cause that doesnt really help...tell me anything about your relationships...thankss. (link)
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This is pretty simple to awnser i've dated my bf for at least a year when i finally told him i loved him he was so happy! i felt sparks the first time i ever talked to him but before that i never thought anything of him i never even noticed him but after i got to know him i came to find that this guy is what ive wanted in a bf i could'nt stop thinking of him when he was gone i had had this stupid feeling in my tummy that i wanted gone so much because i knew that he was a special person and i had strong feelings for him but anyway we dated for at least a year and i told him i loved him he was thrilled bc he was afraid to tell me first...hope this helps ;)
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14/f i was just wondering if kissing comes naturally because i havent kissed a guy b4 and im pretty nervous about it...also if you have any kissing tips that would be great thanks =) muddymidfielder (link)
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Kissing someone happens you just have to wait until it does so mabey yeah kissing does come naturally it kinda depens though on what you dream your first kiss will be like it has to feel right and you have to be comfortable doing it if it dosen't feel right or you feel any bit uncomfortable then it's not ment to happen just yet. your only 14 you've got plenty of time!!
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there is this really pretty girl in my grade and i am so jelous of her.
i dont know why though. and she really pisses me off. i dont know how to get her off my mind.
not in a lesbian way just im really jelaous and its not healthy (link)
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I know what you mean because there are tons of pretty girls at my school (there all popualr too!) iam also jello with this one girl who is extremley georgous she has great skin athletec and has the perfect body she is bestfriends with the guy i really like. she is really nice and i don't hate her because she is that nice! i dont know is this helps at all but why should you waste your time foucousing on how pretty she is when you can concentarte on all you are or how great you are at what you do.;)
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what are some things that i can expect in high school? (link)
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Iam in 12th grade so i can tell you that highschool isnt easy but it can be fun if you want it to be. i myself have never had to deal with highschool drama (fights,catty girls, etc..) that's because i never started any drama nor did i want to partake in any drama. if you want to avoid drama at school i strongly suggest that keep your buisness to yourself i'm not saying you should comepletley shut people out just be causious of who you meet surround yourself with friends you think are trustworthy and im sure youll be fine
** hope this helps a little**
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I work out everyday 50-60 minutes.[treadmille]
by the way im 13,and i eat like 3-4 times a day,small portions.
and im always ALWAYS dizzy
and whenever i stand up from sitting down
EVERYTHING turns black and i feel like im bout to faint. what does this mean? (link)
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This means that your body isint getting enough food and if your working out 50 - 60 min then you need to be eating larger protions so that you can burn off the calories by working out it's good that your working out but try eating bigger portions next time** hope this helps!!
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Ok, im 17 years old and a female and this one boy thats in my first period class is like the cutest guy that i have ever seen. We haven't ever talked to each other but i have a mojor crush on him for like that longest time. I really want to know how i can tell if he likes me. We're both seniors and i want to go out with him this year and real soon. i feel like im in love with him and im not quite sure but i think i saw him looking at me today and when i looked at him he moved his eyes away fast but im not sure it that means he likes me. we live by each other for about 3-4 years now. please help me real soon so that i know what to do and i dont wanna go up to him and talk to him because im like really shy especially around guys that i like, like him. thanks (link)
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This is a tough situation and i can honestly say that honesty is the best policy what would happen if you kept this a secret and never even asked him to hang out you wouldnt get the chance to actually know him and you might even miss out on what he might think what if he liked you back..you'll never really know until you put your shyness aside for now and ask him to hang out...
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[dont know what cagegory this goes in]
im so self concious about myself and iv lost all my confidents. i dont know why b'cos i used to be so comfortable with myself. but now im so quiet and i dont have many friends. i just want to feel comfortable and feel good about myself again like the old me...
whats wrong with me and what should i do? i feel like im a loser and i hate myself. =[ (link)
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I can say this..nothing is wrong with you!! i myself have 3 friends one means alot to me and the other 2 are close to me and in the begining i felt i was a loser for not having tons of friends but the friends u do have (the ones who mean practically everything to you)hold on to them and donot let them go for anyhting bc in the end you are going to regret it...be happy that you have a family be happy that even though you might not have tons of friends you still do have friends..be grateful everyday that your here!!! i know iam!!! another thing is about being comfortabe with yourself why aren't you comfortable with yourself? do you have a good reason not to be? i don't care what other people (ppl i hardly or dont know)think about me..just know that your you!! hope that helps someway...
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Well, i like this guy a lot in my class. One of my friends said that he liked me but she didn't tell me until today. She said that she found out a week ago. He is a big flirt and he hugs a lot of girls (including me) and has a lot of girls that are his friends. That dosen't bother me but i'm not sure if he flirts with me. Actually, i don't know if he does or not. If he does, it's not like he overly does it, i mean he sits by me in class and hugs me. I can't tell if he likes me but all my friends say they can tell big time. I don't know what to do. I can't tell. I text him but we don't talk on the phone. Do you think he might of changed his mind? It's been a week and i can't tell. He usually hugs me everyday but sometimes he dosen't. What should i do? Or expect? (link)
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Iam in that type of situation as well so i know first hand at what can be done... i too have had a crush on this guy since 10th gr (iam now in 12th) and he has alot of girlfriends and is a big flirt it was hard to tell if he liked me because he would flirt with me alot and then not flirt with me at all i was confused for a long time until i found out that he isint big on relationships he flat out told me that all he is is just a flirt and that he isnt ready to commit to just one person. my advice to you would be that if he dosen't see you as his only girlfriend and he continues to flirt with tons of other girls than he isint worth it at all he obviously isint mature enough to handle a relationship...right??
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this is soooo long sorry haha....ok so this guy and me have been best friends for like a yearish. we seriously like besties for reals he is the only person who knows EVERYTHING about me and same with me about him. he broke up with his girlfriend at the begining of the summer and the first time we hung out while he was single this summer(i was grounded for a long time) we were out at like 3 and ended up getting pulled over and i got in trouble for breaking city curfew but he is 18 so he was good to go. we hung out a couple weeks later, my mom had kicked me out of the house and he rescued me and we went the movies twice that day haha and made out like hard core. im not allowed to see him anymore cuz my parents found out that he's been in trouble with the cops a bit. and i cant text him. but i like him sooo much i have no idea what to do. we are going to date if we could actually see each other but until then i have no idea what to do? i know if were together we will be together for a long long time. ahh i just dont what to do. i cant get in anymore trouble but i want so bad to see him! (link)
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My advice to you is pretty simple i know that you can't get into anymore trouble but do what you think is right if seeing him is what your heart tells you to do than my advice would be to do it take a chance with this guy if your positive that the two of you will be together for a long, long time and your also positive that he is a good guy to you than see him (it's okay to rebelle against your parents sometimes right?? i know i have!****) haha!!! good luck**
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