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things to expect hgh school
what are some things that i can expect in high school?
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Ahhh the joys of entering high school. I think I can help you, and I'll even share a few stories! ;]
I don't know why everybody is so scared, because it really isn't that scary!
Here are my tips;
1. Be yourself.
- Cheesy and cliche, I know, but it's true. You have to be yourself in order to make new friends. You want people to like you for YOU, and not a certain way you're acting or talking.
2. Wear what you want.
- This goes with the above. Don't dress a certain way to impress people, it isn't worth it. Just wear what you want, and you'll be fine. DON'T DRESS SLUTTY. It will only make people assume that you are, in fact, a slutty girl, and people usually don't like that. I'm also sure YOU wouldn't like having mean things said about you, right?
3. Talk to people, and let them talk to you.
- Making new friends is so not hard! Funny [and true!] story: I met my current best friend freshman year. We were put together as partners in our AP tech [just a fancy class with a lot of technology stations] class. The station we were assigned to had a wind tunnel, and of course being the klutz I am, I broke it. Well, I really didn't know my best friend too well yet, but he still stepped in to save me. The moral of the story: Don't be afraid to talk to new people, or let them help you when you need it. You might even end up being best friends with them like me and my friend!
4. Give people a chance, and don't judge them.
- Don't think that just because a guy is on the football team he is unapproachable and you have no shot at being friends. You never know until you try! This also goes the other way, too. Just because somebody is really smart and in band doesn't mean they aren't a totally awesome person. Also, just because you don't like somebody at first, does NOT mean you won't end up being friends later. Another true story: Sophomore year, I met another one of my good friends. We had health class together and always competed for the highest grade in the class. Well, long story short, it kind of made me mad and then one girl got a higher grade then both of us. But, the boy I competed with and I are now really good friends, and I laugh at the fact I didn't like him at first.
5. Don't make friends with the wrong people.
- If you start talking to somebody, but they DO end up being a total loser [pothead, gossip, etc.] then don't be afraid to stop hanging out with them. Do what's right for you, not what's "cool" or anything else. You are your own person.
6. Go to school functions.
- Football games, dances, and pep rallies are not only a ton of fun, but a great place to hang out with friends or make some new ones. So get out your school colors and go have fun! ;]
7. Do your work, don't be a slacker.
- Look at it this way, if you do good in high school, you will get into a good college. If you get into a good college, you will get a good job. If you get a good job, you will have a better chance at being happy. Isn't it worth doing your work for 4 years to achieve a lifetime of success and happiness? I think so!
8. ENJOY your experience!
- This is probably most important. ENJOY YOUR TIME IN HIGH SCHOOL. People call the high school years the "best years of your life", why not make that saying true? Get good grades, make new friends, and enjoy the ride B]
Good Luck, and don't worry, you'll be fine!
-Laura (16-f-Junior)
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Iam in 12th grade so i can tell you that highschool isnt easy but it can be fun if you want it to be. i myself have never had to deal with highschool drama (fights,catty girls, etc..) that's because i never started any drama nor did i want to partake in any drama. if you want to avoid drama at school i strongly suggest that keep your buisness to yourself i'm not saying you should comepletley shut people out just be causious of who you meet surround yourself with friends you think are trustworthy and im sure youll be fine
** hope this helps a little**
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High school is a lot different than middle school. Expect people to talk about sex frequently and openly. I never thought I'd be in a situation where people do drugs and drink. This year I was, and I learned that it's easy to fall into those types of things. Expect people to be friendly at first. You'll be able o sort out the fakes easily. You'll hear a lot more gossip, just try not to engage in it. Personally, I thought it was a lot easier to stay out of things in high school. More frequent parties. Expect to grow apart from some of your friends. Expect more homework, stricter teacher, less fooling around, and more stress.
Basically, these were minor things. They sound sort of big on paper, but you learn to deal with it. I think high school is about rolling with the punches, but staying strong in what you want to do and what you don't. High school freshman year is a big growing year.
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Here are some tips from my personal experience.
Don't talk to upperclassmen. Ignore them for at least two weeks. Most of the time, all they want to do is mess with you.
Join clubs. You'll meet new people.
Know that there are a lot of people who are into bad stuff, but that doesn't mean you have to fall into that. Find good friends and stick with them. Don't let peer pressure get to you.
The teachers don't cut you very much slack. If you have a syllabus for a class, make sure you look at it before every class period to make sure you know when the quizzes and tests are. Familiarize yourself with the grading policy, like if you can turn in late work.
None of that sounds like much fun, but high school is a lot better than middle school and junior high. You have a lot more freedom and you get to meet really diverse people.
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Well first of all, expect drama. Lots of it. Even if you try to avoid it. Expect being teased or talked about. Also, there will be bad influences around you. It doesn't mean follow what their doing. There will be a time when you are really stressed out and I understand. Breathe, and take it easy. Don't take life too seriously. Do what you can in highschool, like join clubs, try extra-curricular activities, make sure you enjoy your life. That's pretty much all I can come up with right now, But good luckk and hope you have an awesome highschool experience! First impression is IMPORTANT! :]
- Lacey
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(1) increase in stress & homework, without a doubt.
(2) increase in responsibilities. teachers will no longer push you for work -- you have to be responsible for yourself.
(3) increase in pressure to do drugs, drink, or have sex.
(4) increase in freedom
(5) you'll end up having more fun overall.
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High school is so much fun. There is a lot of pressure and drama, but its totally worth it. I'm going into my sophomore year and I can't wait. My freshman year is filled with tons of memories. No matter what you do, don't be nervous. Theres nothing to be afraid of. It takes a little while to get used to, but you'll love it. Trust me, its nothing like you see on tv. At least not in my school. Jocks and cheerleaders don't "rule" the school. And everyone isn't afraid to just be themselves. High school is amazing, so enjoy every moment of it!
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Hello.
I was a freshman two years ago- and I have to say.. it was one of the most scary things I've EVER experienced! I was thrown in the trash can on the first day and it was horrible. Some kid even had to go to the emergency room! It was the WORST first day of school of my entire life! I almost didn't go back!
Haha- so hopefully you didn't take that seriously- because it really wasn't like that at all. I always play that trick on people who ask this question. C'mon- I gotta have a little fun! High school is NOT scary. It actually is a lot more fun. You have more freedoms than middle school and you can take REALLY awesome classes. If you have to chance to take a Speech class- DO IT! You think it will be the dumbest class ever and you'll be really bored- but you get the chance to get really good at speeches- and you'll learn really awesome things! When you get to be a Junior/Senior- take AP and Honors classes- these will impress colleges and they will want you to go to their college if you do well enough on them.
People may tell you that Freshmen year doesn't count for anything- so slacking off won't matter until you're an upperclassmen. This is wrong. Colleges will look at your cumulative GPA- and that includes your freshmen year. Don't slack off; you'll regret it later.
Just to debunk the rumor- There is NOT a "Freshmen Friday". Sure, this used to exist back in the 60s and 70s, but it doesn't anymore. Any school that actually still does it will probably end up getting sued by a bunch of parents. So most don't do it. Chances are, your high school won't do it.
Here is my list of DOs and DON'Ts:
Do:
-Do all of your homework.
-Make new friends [some old ones will naturally just fade away] and do this by just starting up simple conversations with people- and it will eventually lead to a great friendship. Ask someone you may want to get to know for a pencil in class.. that's a classic. Sit with new people at lunch.
-Ask the teacher for help if you need it.
Don't:
-Don't talk to seniors.. they most likely DON'T like you. The won't give you any respect.
-Don't wear revealing clothing- seniors will automatically hate you.
All in all- if you just be yourself- you'll be fine. If you have upperclassmen in any classes- you'll get to know them over the course of the year- and you may end up meeting some really great people. I know that some of my best friends I met at school freshmen year- and most of them were 10th grade or older. Not all seniors hate you- some will be welcoming- but just assume the worst in them, at first. After awhile- you'll know who to avoid and who to warm up to. You'll be fine. Don't worry.
--Jack
(16/m/Junior)
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