My name is Lacey, I'm 22. 4th yr in college. I like to give advice. I try to be a good person.I'm a very outspoken and honest person.I honestly been through alot throughout my years of dating and taking peoples stuff.I play softball and use to play volleyball.I've been playing softball since I was about 5.And I played volleyball since 7th grade til sophomore year in HS.But that's really it.If you want to know more about me or have any questions.Go for it and ask away.Either message me or IM me sometime.BYEEE!
E-mail: lacey.simmons8@yahoo.com
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I am 25 yrs old and I came from Mexico 10years ago on a visa. My visa expired and I was aware that I could be removed from the country anytime. I met this guy at school and we fell in love right away. everything happen so fast, he stayed at my apmnt once and never left. He loved that I was very independent and a hard worker. He had trouble with the law and he was trying to finish his 4 year probation. Sooner than later I realized he had an anger problem, but I still loved him so much. We fought multiple times were he would loose control and break everything he could. He knew about my situation with immigration and begged me to marry him so I was not on deportation risk anymore. I married him without anyone knowing about it. couple months later I was pregnant. It was shocking to me bec I am in this country alone. Even though his family liked me, they did not like what was happening. Everything started getting bad after that, our fights started getting physical and he hurted me many times being pregnant, he threatened to deport me many times as well. after one big fight he left and never came back. I was so afraid that he would take my baby and try to deport me.He said he was just not ready to be a father. I had an abortion a week after he left and he was not even there for me for that. I asked for help and everyone told me that the best thing to do was to file for a protection order so he could not deport me, and I did. His family hated me bec they said I knew he could get in big trouble after his past. We stayed away from each other for months. I was so hurt, bec after time I still loved him. I saw him again at school and he cried and begged me to forgive him. I started to fix my paperwork through domestic violence, if I removed that protection order they would not longer help me out and I would have to leave the country. I explained that to him and he agreed to see me anyway. His family went nuts when the heard we were together again, especially with him being so close to finish probation and having a protection order. we didn't care and still seeing each other. I was still very angry that he left me, we were fighting all the time, there was nothing good about that relationship besides knowing that we passionate loved each other. couple days ago we got into a fight at school, he started yelling at me in the middle of the parking lot and someone called police. Having a protection order they arrested him and took him to jail and there was nothing I could do about it. His family hates me even more now. His mother called me to tell me the piece of trash I was. I paid a lot of money for him to get out of jail. They are begging me to remove the protection order and blame all on me so he doesn't go to prison. If I do so, my papers won't go through and I might be deported. We knew we were fighting all the time, but nobody understand how much we love each other. I know we are toxic and we hurt each other when we are together but we are miserable when we don't have each other. He is devastated that he might go to prison for violation of probation, and I could not go to bed if I knew that I sent the man that I love the most to jail. I know he was physical when we lived together, but I forgave him and all I want is this nightmare to be over. Everyone says to forget about him and find someone else, that nothing would ever work out, especially with him being so close to his family. What should I do? (link)
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You have a complicated situation but I think you pretty much answered your own question. Why fight for something that isn't meant to be? When you know all yall do is fight and he abuses you? If he walks out on you once, what makes you think he wouldn't do it again? I think you should let go. Some things need to come to an end and it may be hard but over time, things will get better. You WILL find someone who will fight for you and be with you through hard times. I think you know what is good for you even if you think you love this guy. Be happy.
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I'm 24/F and my boyfriend of almost 3 years recently broke up with me. It was a very tumultuous relationship, but we had some amazing times & I truly loved him. I'm trying to move on, even though it's only been a couple months. My heart is still broken, and I'm finding it difficult to not think about him constantly. I've just never had this kind of heartbreak before, so I'm stuck in denial a bit, mixed with a lot of anger towards my ex. I feel like he just gave up on us, and I was willing to work things out. To add more to my misery, all my friends are settling down - moving in together with bfs, getting engaged, etc. I thought I was next for that, but obviously not anymore. It's hard talking to them about it because they can't relate. I feel immense pressure and in a way, have that "I'll never be with anyone again!" mentality. Also, readjusting to single life is horrible! What are some ways to move on & get out there again? I'm sick of my pity party. Are there any suggestions others have used to get over someone that worked? (link)
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I've been there done that. Me and my ex ended our relationship after almost 4 & a half years. It was tough.. I forgot how to be single again. It felt weird and unfamiliar. But my suggestion is to lose communication with him altogether. Delete him from facebook, take his number out of your phone, don't creep on his facebook. Go out. Do not feel guilty for having a good time. Meet new people. Find some hobbies you are interested in. Don't be afraid to meet a new guy and go on dates. It is okay to move on, trust me! I am not going to lie though, it's going to hurt for awhile. It sucks.. period. But eventually it WILL get easier. Give it time. Try to think of the negative aspects of yalls relationship.. it kind of makes it easier to get over him. Hope I helped! If you have any other questions or anything, don't be afraid to send me a message! :)
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Hi, I am going to highschool in a couple of days and I am so scared and I don't know what to do.I tell mt friend and they just laugh and say " I can do it I am awesome". They just don't know how I feel. I thalk toe my mom an dad they say is gonna by fine.I don't know why I am scared maby because I think I am not gonna make any new friends and I am not going to fit in I just don't know what to do I am so scared!!!!!!
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Although I may be a bit late, sorry by the way! I think you are overthinking a bit. At first, highschool can seem a bit intimidating. Everything is new including school,friends,classes..etc. It's going to be a little different but once you open up a bit and start talking to people you'll be fine. How you are feeling is normal. If you have anymore questions, shoot me a msg! :)
- Lacey
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So I'm still a virgin and it's kind of a big deal.
So, out of curiosity I was wondering when did you lose your virginity (what age you were) and how did it happen?
Give details please, not on the actual sex but on how it happened. For example, don't just say 'with my first boyfriend' or 'at a house party', say exactly how it happened.
And if you're still a virgin, would you please say so too and say your age and how you feel about losing your virginity? For example, do you think you're ready to? Do you want to? Why do you want to or why do you want to wait? Do you feel pressured?
Thanks, x (link)
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I'm 19 and 18 when I lost it. I had been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and I was waiting for the right time. I wanted to make sure he genuinely cared about me and wasn't going to expect it from then on. We were having a hotel party for my best friend and after they all left it was just me and him and I felt of all times was a good time to do it. I don't regret it and I'm still with him. We've been dating a little over 2 years & a half. Make sure you're completely ready and do it with someone you genuinely care about. Do NOT let anyone pressure you into doing anything your not comfortable doing. Use protection and enjoy! :]
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My whole life, so far anyways, has been one, big, miserable hell. I'm going to be 19 in September and I don't feel like I can trust anybody. I've been told I'm pretty even beautiful, but I am not popular. Everybody makes fun of me, all throughout school they've made fun of me. My friends make fun of me, my family makes fun of me, and they do it in front of people who just met me which gives them a bad impression of me. I feel like everyone hates me because of some of the stuff they say. Everyone talks down to me when I say how I feel and I just hate it! Everyone seems to want to know how you feel and then when you tell them, they yell at you! I hate my life, and I hate being alive. No one would miss me if I was dead, so why does God keep me alive? (link)
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Look, I know how you feel. It's not easy to let things like that go, but you need to. I'm your age and sometimes stuff like happens to me. You can't let things get to you like that. Don't take it personal okay? Don't talk down on yourself, your underestimating yourself. Your a strong young women who's growing up. I wouldn't take anyone serious when their teasing you. You gotta be strong and let it slid of you. If not, your going to be taken down each time, and it's going to be hard to get back up. Trust me, you have friends who love as well as family. Don't let yourself think you have no purpose because you do. Right now you may not know what it is, but in the end you'll find out. You'll find someone as well. Dig deep, and breathe. God is there for you, whether or not you believe or see it, he's there. Everything happens for a reason, you got to be patient, even take action if you need to. Take control and say it's NOT okay, that wasn't funny or STOP. You have to pick yourself up, don't depend on someone else because in the end, your the only one you CAN truely trust. Hope I helped and if you have anymore questions or need someone to talk to , msg me. Good luck and take care :]
-Lacey
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how can you tell if a boy likes you (link)
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They show interest when they talk to you as well as eye contact
They tend to want to touch you in some what, not necessarily sexual
They ask to hang out and what your doing
They'll pick you over their friends to hang out
They'll laugh at your jokes or you in general
Also they'll tease you a bit
Flirt some, and maybe even hint they like you..
There's more but I can't think of any right now. I'll edit if I can come up with me
Good luck :]
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Firts things first, I would like to emphasize the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.. You can love your best friend, no matter the gender, but you can be in love with someone of the opposite gender.
In this case, for me it's the same person. I won't go as far as saying I am in love with him, but I do love him and I have non-platonic feelings for him aka I like him as more than a friend.
I am left with the ever so popular dilhema of deciding whether or not to act upon my feelings and impulses, and telling him or showing him that I like him more than he thinks. I currently have no idea how he feels towards me, we have only ben friends for little under a year now, yet a friendship that grew over time.
I am not expecting you to tell me what to do because you know neither of us, I just need advice on where to start, and perhaps how as well. Think of a hypothetical situation, and give it your best. Thanks in advance =] (link)
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Well if your certain of your feelings toward him, then why not express them to him. He may already sense it, idk, but if you don't say anything.. you might regret it. Although I understand trying to save a friendship in the end. Just see how he feels and how you feel about him and see what happens, why not? Hope it works out for you and if you have any other questions let me know :]
- Lacey
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Its been awhile since me and troy my best friend have seen each other, and we made plans to hang out. We have know each other for 5 years and we have been unseperable since then; until I moved 5 moths ago to attend UC San Diego. He lives in La and he wanted to pay me a visit yesterday. He arrived early in the morning, luckily, we are getting ready for finals so we didn't have class and my room mates were gone for the weekend. When he arrived, it was weird, but it felt like it always did, i had butterflies in my stomach and when he hugged me i felt like the world had disappeared, and it was just me and him in this universe. He laughed and wanted to go inside. I showed him the apartment, went grocery shopping to make some breakfast and we hold hands, it was weird because he had a girlfriend, I tried not to think about it and I just enjoyed his company. When we arrived back we cooked, he made waffles and eggs and i made hash browns and bacon. It was the cutest thing ever. I have never felt that comfortable with him. We talked for hours and hours, and when silences would occur we would just laugh and start new conversation. Once it got late, I sighed. I didn't want him to leave, it had been a while since were together, He noticed and gave me one of his bear like hugs. I was his perfect size, my head fit perfectly under his chin, I wrapped my arms around him and he gently put his chin on the top of my head. After couple of minutes, I looked up and stared into his deep brown eyes, His eyes were full of sincerity and love, he pulled a little forward and his lips were inches away from mine. I couldn't resist and reached for his lips and gave him a tiny peck. I broke away from his arms even though I never wanted to leave his embrace. He pulled me to him once again and kissed me. he tasted so sweet, I let him search my mouth with his lips. His kiss grew passionate and before you know it we were both grasping for air. he led me to my room and we continued to make love. That morning, i woke up in his arms, I smiled at him and he reached for me. he told me he wasn't going to let go.... he left a couple of minutes ago, I miss him terribly. i don't know what to do... I need advice do you think he will leave his girlfriend to be with me? umm.. His girlfriend is my friend. I know it will hurt her a lot. But I'm hurting... am i being selfish? (link)
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Although you two sincerely love each other and what not, you should respect that he has a girlfriend and know what's right and wrong and so should he. I know you can't help what you feel and what not. If your friend finds out what you do, I seriously doubt she'll be okay with the fact of you two. You need to talk to both the guy and your friend about what just happened because what happened between you two will change everything. Do what you think is right, but know what you did was wrong. But if something good comes out of it, don't regret it. Hope everything turns out okay. If you need advice, don't hesitate to ask.
- Lacey
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is loving someone enough to make a relationship work? idk im so lost it seems like its never gonna work but i love him and he loves me... bad bad circumstances tho we fight all the time and he makes me sad alot and i never get to see him but when ever i try to end it i cant. I love him and i dont know what to do (link)
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Loving not enough to complete the relationship. It's about devotion to your companion, it's about making your boyfriend/girlfriend happy. Doing what it takes to make the relationship work. Two people make a relationship. One person can't make the effort and the other try when it's convenient for them. If you both are devoted to your relationship then i'd say you have some hope, but if your boyfriend has NO intentions in making an effort to make it work then there's no point in trying to make the relationship work. It's not worth it. You need to either talk to him about it to see where he is and what are his intentions then go from there. Hope things work out for you
- Lacey
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i'd really appreciate any books you can put down here that are a similar style to the twilight saga. no harry potter please, a little to over the edge for me lol. any ideas? i'm dying to read something new. love stories preferably (link)
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I'd really recommend "The Kite Runner" It's actually a really good book. It's very edgey and thrilling. Look it up, it's amazing!
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I'm a 16 year old male, who is currently in a relationship. My current "girlfriend" is going to a different school than me, and we haven't spoken even over the phone for almost two weeks. I'm getting fed up with this. As I feel like I'm being brushed off when I do make the effort to call, either she's busy or her brother says she isn't there... but it's her cell phone so I don't really get that. Well I'm just wondering if I should break it off and move on to whatever else life has in store or if I should just stick it out for a bit to see what happens with us. We've only been going out for two weeks prior to the lack of communication. (link)
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Well I see no point in staying in a relationship where you have almost no communication at all. It's about TWO people making the effort in trying to keep the relationship solid. You can't have ONE person trying to make things work. Your wasting your time if you think that things are going to last with no connection. Your 16, you have alot ahead of you. You don't need to wait around and HOPE she comes to her senses and realizes your right in front of her. If she doesn't want to keep in touch with you and try and see/talk to you, then just leave it at that and move on. Sorry if I'm being negative. It's just how I see it. Although it's only been 2 weeks or whatever, you COULD try and talk it out with her and she what her priorities are because obviously it seems she's been a bit distant from you. It's all up to you though, if you think it's worth it, go for it. Good luck my friend. Hope things work out for the best. :]]
- Lacey
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thats what all my friends say. but im still not sure what im trying to tell myself ! i would date him if i had the chance but on my birthday he wished me a happy birthday at midnight then when he woke up and then a minute before it hit 12. but i have talked to him i said i liked him for awhile when he was drunk. and this one time he was drunk again and i wasnt completley in it either we sopposedly flirted A LOT!!!!! and i really dont remember but he says he remembers everything and he had a lot of fun!!! so what does this all mean? and after i told him that i liked him he just sat there on his bike. so what should i do? (link)
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Somehow you need to figure out what's going on between you guys. Not just tell him when he's not sober. Best bet he does feel the same, but doesn't want to pursue the relationship, kind of just mess around, but I'm not sure. He genuinely cares about you and you know that. I don't know what else to say though because you have to figure out what's going on in his head. I can't talk for him and neither can you. Just find out how he's feeling and it he wants to move forward in yalls relationship. Hope things work out for you. Let me know if you need any more advice.
- Lacey
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over the summer i met this guy and i like him for awhile but he didnt feel that way about me so i slowly moved on. but we flirted like crazy when he had a girlfriend and when he didnt have one. we hungout a lot and he talked to me more then his girlfriend so we became close friends and when i say stories about the summer his name is always in there because i was always with him. his ex girlfriend when they were going out called me and said i think u and him have something going on together and i cant be your friend if thats what is happening. then my bestfriend says that he is jealous of me when i talk to other guys and everyone says were in love but i have some feeling s for him but not a lot. and he gives the act of being jealous when i had a boyfriend he got mad and asked how it happendd and then metioned that i liked him first. so idk does he like me or is it just a friend basis thing?sorry its so long anddd thankkksss a bunch i need the help (link)
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Alright, so I think you already answered it yourself, but I guess you need reassurance possibly? Well seems like he's attached to you and wether or not you recognize it or not, he is. Basically he's jealous because we all know what's really going on. You guys just won't realize it. He's in denial I'm assuming. You guys need to talk about what's going on between you. I take it that if you got the chance, you'd date him. The reason why he never tried to get with you was because how good of a friend you are and doesn't want to change things between you guys. There's probably numerous amount of reasons why yall aren't together but you need to talk to him. Well good luck with everything. Hope I helped! :]
- Lacey
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what are some things that i can expect in high school? (link)
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Well first of all, expect drama. Lots of it. Even if you try to avoid it. Expect being teased or talked about. Also, there will be bad influences around you. It doesn't mean follow what their doing. There will be a time when you are really stressed out and I understand. Breathe, and take it easy. Don't take life too seriously. Do what you can in highschool, like join clubs, try extra-curricular activities, make sure you enjoy your life. That's pretty much all I can come up with right now, But good luckk and hope you have an awesome highschool experience! First impression is IMPORTANT! :]
- Lacey
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So me and my ex boyfriend went out for over a year. I broke up with him 6 months ago because feelings faded. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do. For his benefir we didnt talk for a few months he clearly wasnt over me. Hes been dating a girl for 2 months and he thinks he loves her. I was legitimately happy for him. We started talking again.
She left him a week ago and hes come to me for support. As he describes his lost relationship, it makes me feel miserable, jealous, remembering what we had. I just dont know how to comfort him without rekindling old wounds.
What should I do? (link)
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I know you think it's your job to be there for him and what not, but if you don't feel comfortable in talking to him about his relationships and it makes you remember you guys, you shouldn't put yourself in that sort of situation. It's not smart to do something you know you'll regret doing. I know you feel bad but you can only do so much you know? I don't want you to end up as a rebound you know? Just say a few inspiring words, but let him have time. Time heals all wounds. Good luck.
- Lacey
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me and my boyfriend live in different states
and he got kicked out of his aunts house. again..
he called me like the day after cause his work scedual is really lame so we barely talk anymore
and when he didnt have work on sunday. he decided to go hangout wiht his friends and not talk to me. i understand. but he always see's them and talks to them. and me and him go like a couple days without talking. which is his fault. but he still chose them over me.
he called me yesteday morning and told me and stuff bout what happened so he said he rented himself out an apartment. but i think hes lieing cuase he called me from the same number he called from last time he was kicked out. which is his friends? so idk. but i really dont care about that
but then he got off of work at like 1 at night so then he called me after we talked for like 10 mintues and then he said hes gonna go get something to eat and then he call me back. which of course never happened. and that made me really mad/sad. he alwaysss says he will and then never does. what i dont get is what is more important to do at like 2 in the morning? and im pretty sure he just had to go call another girl.. but whatever. this whole relationship thing is making me soo stressed out and its to the point where i dont even care anymore. and i never say that cause i always care. i care way too much. im the only one putting effort into this. and hes not. but then we do talk hes always like oh i dont think you like me blahblahblah but when really. its him who doesnt show how much he wants to be with me casue hes losing me. i really need help. i dont know what to do.
oh and ps. sorry this was long anddd. dont say try calling him cause his cell phone isnt working so he has to call me from one of his friends phone or something.. (link)
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I'm pretty sure you answered your own question. This guy your with shows he doesn't care about this relationship. If he did, he would choose YOU and call you every chance he had, also knowing you guys don't see each other it's hard to maintain a healthy relationship. Things are falling apart and your the only one putting an effort into making it work. It's time to let him go and find a better man. Honestly.. he seems like he has more "important" priorities. Find a guy who you can actually see and have a decent, healthy relationship, instead of waiting out for a guy who doesn't put an effort. Well hope I helped, good luck!
- lacey
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Hi, I'm not sure if you remember but I asked you a question before about getting invisalign. So now I have had invisalign for about a year now, I am on my last tray for my bottom teeth and it looks like of the buttons on my bottom front teeth isnt latching onto the invisalign. This tooth has been really sensitive and is not straight like the other teeth. I have a week left with this tray and i told my dentist but he has that its the last tray anyways so just leave it in and he will fix it if it is still bothering me in four weeks. Point of the question is I KNOW he will have to fix it but how is he going to do that. Remove the new one and put another one but use the same last tray. I'm so confused. If you had any confusion with your experience please let me know. Thank You (link)
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Well i didn't have this problem and I'm actually on my 2nd to last tray before i'm completely finished. Maybe try and push down harder on it so you'll know for sure it's not just you.I'm not sure how he will fix it, it could be easy or possibly more complicated but i'm sure they'll do their best to fix it. I'm thinking maybe their going to shave the button off and do it again and use the same tray but that's me just guessing. But hope it turns out great and let me know what happens. Good luck.
- Lacey
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My best friend is always saying how she makes out her female friends all the time, but ive never kissed her before, for some reason i really want to, and like i dont know how i can get her to kiss me without asking and getting rejected, i really want to try making out girls, like wed jokingly just pecked eachother on the mouth to tease someone but like when that happens i get an urge to makeout with her. What should I do!? (link)
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If your really that curious then either ask about it or kind of go for it. You may find out she wants it too. It won't hurt unless she's offended by it, but it seems like she wouldn't because she already makes out with her other female friends. Maybe she doesn't seem to think you'd do it. But who knows. Don't worry about it though, just let it happen.
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Hi. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been together for a year and 4 months now. When we first got together, I remember him telling me about how his neighbor would beat his wife all the time, and he said this with admiration in his voice. I asked him if he thought it was okay to hit a woman, and he said yeah.
He does have anger problems, and the least little thing would set him off.
He used to tell me not to come to his house unless his cousin was with me, and one time I did go without his cousin and he huffed and puffed and balled up his fists, and turned sharply and walked away...later on he told me that he was going to knock me across the yard...he would always tell me how badly he wished he could put his hands on me and put me in my place. One time I was standing outside his car, and he hurt me by pulling my arm halfway through the window and pushing down on it from inside. But he never hit me.
But now he's taking medicine to control his temper and things are much better, and it's like he's a different person. But not long ago, I went to a friend's house, Don, to do his hair, and my boyfriend followed me there and hit the gas and kept speeding past the house, back and forth like a maniac. Then he called everyone he knows and got them to call me to tell me how much he was sorry, etc.
Another thing is that one night he took my cell phone from me and went through it and started calling numbers he didnt know, accusing me of cheating. When I tried to get the phone back, he almost hit me. Then he cornered me, grabbed my face tight, and told me that I had better not be cheating on him.
I'm afraid of him, so when he does things like that, I just lower my head. Then, when we're on the phone the next day, he laughs about how scared of him I was. Now he's told me that he doesnt want me to talk to Don at all anymore, even though I've told him constantly that we're just friends. And to top it off, he's trying to get me pregnant. I've told him I don't want kids right now, but he keeps 'forgetting' condoms or takes them off when I'm not looking. He has actually told me that he wants me to have his baby so that I can't leave him.
He's really a sweet person, and compared to what I went through when we first started dating, our relationship is peaceful now. But now that we're supposed to be living together soon, I'm worried that he might change and go back to his old ways. Call me crazy, but we have a great relationship when he's not angry, and I don't want to leave...I've tried leaving him in the past, but he cries and begs for me to come back. Since he's been taking his medicine the only time he gets really mad is when he thinks I'm cheating or something.
How high is the chance that he's going to become physically abusive in the future? Would this already be considering abuse or controlling behavior? Any thoughts/advice is appreciated. Thanks! (link)
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You need to get out of this relationship wether or not you want to or not. Your putting yourself in a BAD situation and alot of the times, people who are with someone for a long time and have been taken advantage of, DON'T get out of the relationship. I think you might be getting into something you can't handle to be honest. You know what's he's capable, why put yourself in such a big hole where you can't get out by living with him? This act of violence and abusiveness will not stop. He might go off on you and end up hitting you or harming you some how. I don't see any reason to stay with him. Obviously he doesn't trust you and you guys don't have any communication between you guys. All these things you've said are negative except when he's on meds, but even on meds, he freaks out on you, thinking your cheating. What good is that? I don't see him ever changing the way he is. That's how he was raised and what he believes in. He thinks it OKAY to hit a girl. If he already believes that then he won't doubt hitting you when he really gets ticked off. My advice is to get out of that relationship quick.. before he takes advantage of you and you won't be able to get out. I really hope things work out for you and if you ever need any other advice, let me know!
- Lacey
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Hi im the girl that asked about Lee, and beer and Soccer.. okay so hopefully you remember me. I did go to talk 2 dayes ago. And we ended up getting in this huge fight and I told him to grow a backbone and stop fallowing Ralph and Ben and be a man- and he thought being a man was hitting me. He smacked me so hard... and i now have a bruise a little below my right eye.. and Ihavent seen my Father because God knows he'll get out of the hostpital and wind up in jail for killing Lee. I told Lee tho, that I came to tell him that I was gunna tell the Principal I lied.. and that he would get you guys back on the team... because the whole school sorta kinda hates me because there fucked now, theres no way we can beat the Cheifs and there like RAWR! so whatever tho. I dont know if I should tell the principal i lied when I know I didnt or let Lee hate me. (link)
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Lee is not a good friend if he EVER hit you. I don't care if he's mad, or you hit him first. He did it and your a girl. End of story. You need to say something, noone will step on you for something you were trying to help. Obviously he doesn't appreciate your favor so back off. I don't know if telling the Principal would be smart since, your "friend" hit you without any consideration and what not. He doesn't realize your consideration or worriedness. I don't know what to say though because that was suppose to be one of your really good friends. I don't see how he didn't even apologized for hitting you right after, after realizing what he did was wrong, but if you asked anyone.. not just guys that it's WRONG to hit a girl. And seriously... he could be charged for that. But do what you feel is best, don't worry about what other people think, because they are not what matters okay? Well good luckkk! Don't hesistate to ask anymore advice by the wayy!
- Lacey -
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