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Teen Relationship issues
I'm a 16 year old male, who is currently in a relationship. My current "girlfriend" is going to a different school than me, and we haven't spoken even over the phone for almost two weeks. I'm getting fed up with this. As I feel like I'm being brushed off when I do make the effort to call, either she's busy or her brother says she isn't there... but it's her cell phone so I don't really get that. Well I'm just wondering if I should break it off and move on to whatever else life has in store or if I should just stick it out for a bit to see what happens with us. We've only been going out for two weeks prior to the lack of communication.
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What is there to stick out? You aren't in a relationship at this point anyways.
She might not be communicating it very nicely, but the message is pretty clear, she doesn't consider you a boyfriend. Or, she isn't interested in treating you that way anyways.
Just end it in a nice simple way. Tell her you feel like it's just not working out and you are uncomfortable with where it's going. That's the truth. You don't need to be mean or accuss her of brushing you off. Just confidently tell her you aren't interested anymore.
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Well I see no point in staying in a relationship where you have almost no communication at all. It's about TWO people making the effort in trying to keep the relationship solid. You can't have ONE person trying to make things work. Your wasting your time if you think that things are going to last with no connection. Your 16, you have alot ahead of you. You don't need to wait around and HOPE she comes to her senses and realizes your right in front of her. If she doesn't want to keep in touch with you and try and see/talk to you, then just leave it at that and move on. Sorry if I'm being negative. It's just how I see it. Although it's only been 2 weeks or whatever, you COULD try and talk it out with her and she what her priorities are because obviously it seems she's been a bit distant from you. It's all up to you though, if you think it's worth it, go for it. Good luck my friend. Hope things work out for the best. :]]
- Lacey
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