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my best friend and I made love.
Its been awhile since me and troy my best friend have seen each other, and we made plans to hang out. We have know each other for 5 years and we have been unseperable since then; until I moved 5 moths ago to attend UC San Diego. He lives in La and he wanted to pay me a visit yesterday. He arrived early in the morning, luckily, we are getting ready for finals so we didn't have class and my room mates were gone for the weekend. When he arrived, it was weird, but it felt like it always did, i had butterflies in my stomach and when he hugged me i felt like the world had disappeared, and it was just me and him in this universe. He laughed and wanted to go inside. I showed him the apartment, went grocery shopping to make some breakfast and we hold hands, it was weird because he had a girlfriend, I tried not to think about it and I just enjoyed his company. When we arrived back we cooked, he made waffles and eggs and i made hash browns and bacon. It was the cutest thing ever. I have never felt that comfortable with him. We talked for hours and hours, and when silences would occur we would just laugh and start new conversation. Once it got late, I sighed. I didn't want him to leave, it had been a while since were together, He noticed and gave me one of his bear like hugs. I was his perfect size, my head fit perfectly under his chin, I wrapped my arms around him and he gently put his chin on the top of my head. After couple of minutes, I looked up and stared into his deep brown eyes, His eyes were full of sincerity and love, he pulled a little forward and his lips were inches away from mine. I couldn't resist and reached for his lips and gave him a tiny peck. I broke away from his arms even though I never wanted to leave his embrace. He pulled me to him once again and kissed me. he tasted so sweet, I let him search my mouth with his lips. His kiss grew passionate and before you know it we were both grasping for air. he led me to my room and we continued to make love. That morning, i woke up in his arms, I smiled at him and he reached for me. he told me he wasn't going to let go.... he left a couple of minutes ago, I miss him terribly. i don't know what to do... I need advice do you think he will leave his girlfriend to be with me? umm.. His girlfriend is my friend. I know it will hurt her a lot. But I'm hurting... am i being selfish?
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OHHHH MYYYYYYYY!! this is so cute :)
isn't that feeling great, knowing you have someone like that there for you? the same thing pretty much happened to me too. i loved my best friend, and he also had a girlfriend. Everytime i'm with him, i can't resist him. We ended up hooking up while him and his girlfriend were on a break, and well i hoped that he would eventually break things off with his girlfriend and come to realize that it was me who he really wanted. The sad part, two and a half years later and they're still together. I really really hope that the outcome is different for you. I know what you're going through, it's like people don't understand, at all. Many people would think that your best friend is a bad guy for cheating on his girlfriend like that but i'm sure he is not at all. My best friend, god i know he is the sweetest guy ever and treats his girlfriend like a princess and deep down, he is a great guy. He is still my best friend. I can't tell you if he will leave his girlfriend but you need to communicate with him. Ask him what his intentions are, ask him if what happened meant as much to him as it did to you. Ask him whats going on with him and his current girlfriend. Please talk to him, i do NOT want you to get hurt like i got hurt. I'm still dealing with everything, and even though at the time it was the best feeling in the world, i am now miserable. I don't want to scare you at all, but you just need to communicate otherwise you will never know. Good luck hun, i really hope things work out for the best. If you feel like you need to talk about it more, feel free to e-mail me ♥ LU
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Although you two sincerely love each other and what not, you should respect that he has a girlfriend and know what's right and wrong and so should he. I know you can't help what you feel and what not. If your friend finds out what you do, I seriously doubt she'll be okay with the fact of you two. You need to talk to both the guy and your friend about what just happened because what happened between you two will change everything. Do what you think is right, but know what you did was wrong. But if something good comes out of it, don't regret it. Hope everything turns out okay. If you need advice, don't hesitate to ask.
- Lacey
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even though you and troy have amazing chemistry, you have to keep in mind what he did was wrong.
It's not selfish to want him, you can't help it. But you have to be careful how you act around his girlfriend if they do break up n you and troy get together,
Needless to say you should talk to him about his girlfriend even though thats going to be hard
hope it works out, he sounds amazing
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