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kissing girls
My best friend is always saying how she makes out her female friends all the time, but ive never kissed her before, for some reason i really want to, and like i dont know how i can get her to kiss me without asking and getting rejected, i really want to try making out girls, like wed jokingly just pecked eachother on the mouth to tease someone but like when that happens i get an urge to makeout with her. What should I do!?
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Sorry, I don't know when you posted this, but I've been on holiday for a week..so sorry for the late response.
Well I think you should approach the situation slowly. You may get the urge to kiss her, but I don't suggest doing that if you don't like her in that way, and you want to maintain your relationship.
I don't know how close you two are, if you're close, she might not mind, but if you're not that close, then that could make things very awkward.
Be careful with this, it can't ruin a friendship.
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Next time when she makes a comment about how she makes out with her female friends, just joke with her about why she has never tried kissing you. This will show her that you have an interest, but if it backfires, you can treat the situation like a joke. This way, there's no true way to get rejected. Or you could try something else in that similar joking fashion. The best way to show your feelings without a risk is to start with a joke. Good luck [:
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If your really that curious then either ask about it or kind of go for it. You may find out she wants it too. It won't hurt unless she's offended by it, but it seems like she wouldn't because she already makes out with her other female friends. Maybe she doesn't seem to think you'd do it. But who knows. Don't worry about it though, just let it happen.
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If she says she makes out with her friends all the time, then she shouldn't have a problem kissing you. She might though, because you two are best friends, and it might make things a little bit awkward. But just tell her you're curious, and you want to know what it feels like. Then, if she's cool with it, just act like she's a guy. Haha honestly, it's the same, except girls are a bit more sensitive, and they'll usually know what other girls like in a kiss, because they've been there. (Speaking from experience, yes. haha)
But if she's not comfortable kissing you, ask one of her friends that she's made out with if they mind it. It's okay to experiment honey.
Good luck, and tell me how everything goes :)
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