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My best friend is always saying how she makes out her female friends all the time, but ive never kissed her before, for some reason i really want to, and like i dont know how i can get her to kiss me without asking and getting rejected, i really want to try making out girls, like wed jokingly just pecked eachother on the mouth to tease someone but like when that happens i get an urge to makeout with her. What should I do!? (link)
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Next time when she makes a comment about how she makes out with her female friends, just joke with her about why she has never tried kissing you. This will show her that you have an interest, but if it backfires, you can treat the situation like a joke. This way, there's no true way to get rejected. Or you could try something else in that similar joking fashion. The best way to show your feelings without a risk is to start with a joke. Good luck [:
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I've heard that many vegetarians become sick after not eating meat for a long period of time.
What sicknesses do they get and what are the symptoms.?
Thankyou. (link)
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I used to be vegetarian, and I never got seriously ill, I just found that I didn't have much energy and I required more sleep. I was basically useless while playing sports (and sports are a huge part of my life). So, I eventually quit because I just couldn't function that way any longer.
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i have a serious boyfriend. hes 28 but hes like a big kid sometimes. i like to make him stuff. i have drawn things for him, made boxes that i had decorated with kisses and weird fancy stuff and sends him hand made cards in the mail and made him magnets of pictures of us and speical videos and stuff.. but were getting a little bit more serious.. but i still want to do little things like that for him sometimes.. but sadly im running out of ideas. SO PLEASE ANYTHING I COULD MAKE!!! i love to make stuff.. what else can i do??
he likes to read fiction books. play video games. very geeky and into science. loves outdoors. lots animals. and is REALLY skinny... so maybe that helps a little bit for ideas?? anything would be great thanks ahead of time (link)
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I suggest fun little things. Such as cookies shaped as letters that spell out his name. Or maybe a collection of silly things one at a time. Such as, send him little planet models of the solar system. For each planet, attach a little poem that you create. Send him each planet over the course of a month or maybe a year even, just to keep him guessing [: Other little silly gifts are those silly animal toys you can get that growl and make funky noises. My Aunt Devi sends me a plethora of odd things, and there's nothing I enjoy more than guessing what gift I'm going to get next. The overall point is that you're thinking about your boyfriend, and that you care about him. So, you sent him a nerdy little gift. hahaha, good luck. [:
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so i asked this question to people on another site and i just wanted to see what other people thought..
I like this this guy who's 16 and he likes me, and everyone says we would be the cutest couple and he's so nice and sweet and i like everything about him, except one major thing.. he's a drug addict i don't think theres any drug he hasn't tried he doesn't do a lot of the drugs he use to because he went to rehab, as of now i know he does, heroine, acid, opium, and pot.. everyone judges him and its not fair they think he's some horrible guy because he does this but .. he really isn't and i know he cares a lot about me and i guess nobody would understand it, i just like everything about him besides the drugs he does and hes just ah i can't explain it i just wish people knew him like i do.. and the sad thing is his parents supply him with most of these drugs.. and i wouldn't have a problem if he wasn't doing heroine because the whole 'aids' thing .. and i don't know if i should sleep with him but i really like him a lot..and ive known him for several years and he's 16 and so am i.. what do other people think? what would you do if you where in my position? (link)
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Personally, I believe that it's a bad idea to get involved with someone who does drugs. Eventually, an addiction will get in the way of a relationship anyhow. For now he may seem okay, but the effects of drugs obviously aren't showing up just yet. Although seems alright now, you never know what to expect in the long run. So, you may be a cute couple now, but in a few years.. who knows. And my advice is, DON'T sleep with a guy that you know has aids. Get him something for it.. whatever happens, just don't give yourself aids. It's really not worth it. Honestly, I don't believe that you should date him. I think he sounds like a nice guy, but drug addicts just don't make good boyfriends. Keep him as a friend unless he can lay off of the drugs a little bit.
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Okay, so I'm not a caffeine JUNKY, but lately I've been drinking around two cups of coffee per day, mainly to keep alert while studying. I don't want to depend on coffee to keep me awake...but of course, I don't want to be worn out by mid-afternoon. I am planning to start a basic workout routine, like doing yoga or going swimming, and I am sure it'll help keep me energized...for now, once I sit down at a desk, I feel kind of tired after a couple hours or so.
But anyway, I have a couple of questions:
>>A) How can I give up coffee/caffeine without feeling lethargic and tired?
B)Any ideas on other things (only natural) I can eat/drink that will keep me energized? I have heard that green tea is good- any ideas on that?
Thank you!
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Gradually cut back on the amount of caffiene that you drink per day. During this period of time, try to eat foods that are high in protien such as red meats that will supply you with energy. Get as much sleep as you can until your body has adjusted to functioning without caffiene. Good luck [:
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Do guys have a specific sized nipple that they like? Like is big or small better. How do you make your nipples appear smaller? (link)
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All men like different things. Obviously. Just like only some girls think that sideburns are hot, only some men think boobs are hot. For all you know, whatever man you want may like butts better anyhow! Anyways, you can't actually make your nipples appear smaller. That's like trying to make your ears smaller... it doesn't work (although I wish it did, my ears are kinda big..) However, if you're truly concerned, you could try consulting a doctor to see if he has any suggestions. Good luck! [:
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In school im really shy and now that im starting high school i want to make some new friends but the problem is that i hate going up to people and talking to them, i feel awkward and out of place. It's like "hi" and then this long awkward silence, i get all intimidated and i don't know what to say or talk about. Can someone give me some starters on how to approach people and what to say. (link)
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Ha, I'm starting highschool too. And trust me, I'm pretty intimidated as well. I used to be extremely shy, and I never knew what to say to people whenever I was around them. What I ended up having to do was thinking of 5 general things that I would want to know about a person before I decided whether or not they were friendly. These five general topics were:
name,
interests,
sports,
pets,
and teachers.
As shy and dorky as I was, I would actually write the letters, "N,I,S,P, and T" on each of the fingers on my left hand. (These letters: N-name, S-sports, I-interests, P-pets, and T-teachers)And when I was talking to people, I used the letters as a reminder of what to talk about. I'm not suggesting that, because in retrospect I wonder if anyone ever thought that it was strange that I occasionally looked at mysterious letters on my fingers during conversations, but all and all, it was beneficial. Haha.
Regardless, whenever I held a conversation with someone, I would start it by asking their name. There is a casual way to insert each of these 5 topics into a brief conversation. Such as,
Name: "Hey, I'm Erin, what's your name?"
Interests: "Today's going to be a long day.. I have chello lessons after school. What's going on for you?" Just talk about something that you do for a second, then just insert a related question.
Sports: "Do you play any sports?
(^^that one was pure genius... jk..)
Pets: First say something about a pet you have. Then just ask if they have one..
Teachers: Make a comment about some test or about your opinion of one teacher. I often realize that the biggest thing I have in common with most people is a like or dislike of certain teachers. And complaining about teachers is a great conversation starter.. "What'd you think of that test today?" etc.. haha.
The key is to remain calm and don't be intimidated. I found that much easier if I already knew what I wanted to talk about. My advice would be, set up a few things that you would want to know about someone, and then be prepared to work that into a conversation. Good luck, and enjoy being a freshie!!! [:
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15/f
okay well my bf birthday is coming up. i dont know what to get him.we have been together for a more than a month going on two. he is a very chill guy like rock music. Any ideas? (link)
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I would suggest buying him something music related such as a cd. Or maybe a tshirt with his favorite band on it. Or possibly a poster accompanied by an iTunes card or whatnot. However, don't just give him an iTunes card. That's a little impersonal. Haha. I would stick with a CD or a band tshirt (or both?) Good luck [:
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well so i met this guy and i just moved to a new place and im going to a new high school and everything. im gonna be a sophmore. i used to live here so i still have some friends from when i was younger. anyway my friend introduced me to this guy and a few of us went to the movies and he kissed me. now since we barely knew each other we are getting to kno each other and stuff. the problem is i dont think i actually like HIM i just like the guy attention. a few months ago my bf and i broke up and now ive moved on but now that im single i really want guy attention. the guy acts like he likes me and we do flirt but i dont think i actually like him. i really dont think i like him i think i just like the attention. he says hes been thinking about me a lot and has even brought up us dating in the future but i dont kno what to do. if he only had a casual relationship would it be ok that i dont like him a lot? cause lots of people date people casually that they arent in serious like with. but i also dont think its a good idea to date someone before i even go to the school because i dont want people already making assumptions of me. the guy seems nice and genuine but im still not sure if he is. i have a hard time trusting guys. anyway thanks for your input!! :) (link)
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Chances are, there will be plenty more guys to choose from once you get to school. You don't want to lead this boy on. Wait until you get to school and have more options [:
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I've been writing since I was little, and was always told I have an over active imagination.
I really enjoy writing, and I seem to just live in the story [which can or cannot be a good thing]]. While in the 7th grade we had a lot of writing projects, and everytime I got high praise. Even in music Mr. Lounsberry told my parents they should really let me pursue it because I have a very Uneek writing style.
Writing is something I couldn't live without, and I get my ideas anywhere, and a lot of my friends that read my stories started writing some of there own. A lot of them say they really like them too but I don't know if there just saying that to not hurt my feelings or not.
So I was wondering if there was any website you can submit storys to be read that wont be copied
-I put my heart into my writing and I dont want some random persons name on it.
It would also have to be free.
And then maybe if someone on here has like a Myspace, or something that wouldn't mind reading my storys. There really long... I just want an opinion on my writing from someone who doesn't know me. I just want to be carefull because I dont want anyone stealing...
Thankss (link)
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www.teenink.com
they can publish your works for you too. They get published into a magazine for young writers. good luck [:
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14/f im going on a movie date tonight, our first one acctual and I need tips :) whats cute, whats attractive. What would be an appropiate movie for us to see tonight. We've hung out alot so a kiss wouldnt be out of the question so all tips and advice would be great!! (link)
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An appropriate movie for a first date is often something either funny or scary. It depends what kind of night you would rather have. When you see a funny movie, its a movie that you can both laugh and have a good time at. If you want to see a scary movie, it's a great excuse to grab onto his shoulder and let him play 'the man' during scary scenes. Obviously, if he doesn't like scary movies, then go see a funny movie. If you want to see a funny movie, the only ones out right now contain sexual humor. If you think that would be awkward, (because the Love Guru is hilarious, but almost 100% sexual jokes), then pick something else. As for what to do when the movie actually begins, guys find it cute when you hold their hand or play with their fingers (gently, don't go breaking his bones..). If you have something to say to him, whisper it in his ear. Please though, don't whisper in his ear every 10 seconds, because he would probably find that aggravating. If you want, you could try putting your hand on his knee or something 'sexy' like that.If he moves in for the kiss, relax yourself. Don't try to watch the movie at the same time, because trust me, a kiss is probably way more interesting anyways. Goodluck, and enjoy!
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me and my boyfriend has been together for a year now. he has changed alot. when he is out with his friends and i call him, he tells me that he is busy and can't talk. but that really doesn't make since to me because he turns around a text me. i feel like if you are busy then how can u take out the time to text me but you are busy. it's takes more time to text then to actually talk to him. so should i suspect that he is cheating. he also acts very differnt towards me too. (link)
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Well, you can't know for sure, but it really does make sense. Talking on the phone would make him antisocial around his friends, because you can't talk on the phone and talk to your friends at the same time without frustrating everybody. So, by texting you, he can still hold a conversation with his friends while keeping in touch with you (even if not the way that you planned..)
So, it is possible that he's cheating on you, but I'd consider cutting him some slack. Relax. Eric says hi..
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16/m
ok so i broke up with my girlfriend two nights ago
so i've been going out with this girl for a year and 3 months or so. i loved her very much. very, very much, and i still care very much about her, but i just wasn't happy anymore. i wasn't having fun anymore with her. all our conversations were becoming nothing other than "i love you's" and talking about sex and stuff (we never had it. . . got kind of close a couple times). we fought a lot recently, particularly about how much we saw each other (at least once a week) and that i was putting my music (i'm in a band) before her (which shouldn't happen apparently), and it was starting to stress me out way too much. i got little sleep and worried about it a lot. . .
and then i couldn't do it anymore.
i still really care a lot about her, and in the back of my mind i feel like i made a really big mistake. . . but the rest of me thinks it's for the better.
could anyone help me out here?
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The fact that you feel thankful proves that this relationship wasn't the right thing for you right now. You needed to take a break, and that is just what you did. So far, you've done everything right. When girls get pushy and demanding, you have to let them cool down. If she cares about you enough to start over, then maybe it's worth it. If you were ever to get back into the relationship, you would have to first talk to her about your priorities and what role she would play in your life. But for now, enjoy being single, focus on your band, and kick ass.
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In the past week, ive made myself throw up twice.
Does this make me bulimic?
Because since ive done it, after most meals i feel the need to, but so far ive resisted.
Until a few hours ago.
Help.
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It isn't medically classified as bulimia unless you do it twice a week every week. So, if you were to do this next week too, then yes, you'd be bulimic. My honest answer is, don't do it. If I could go back and redo it, I wouldn't. Because, bulimia is addicting. and scary. I can't stop, and whenever I throw up, it bleeds, and I've basically almost ruptured my esophagus. Just, don't. You aren't bulimic yet, and I greatly advise that you don't become bulimic. If you need additional help, just message me.
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15/f
ok well my boyfriend just kissed me for the 1st time. It was my first kiss but he didnt know that. it was our 1st kiss together. i went in for a simple kiss and he like ate my face. i didnt even know what he he was trying to do. OMG!
he was like i was to do that again but i told him i had to go to the bathroom. i avoided it for the rest of the nite. we were outside of his house and he tried over again. i just hugged him for a long time and then said goodbye.
what do i tell him cause i kind of laughed after
it was my first kiss and it was totally horrible =( (link)
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The key is to NOT let this ruin your relationship, unless of course you really can't seem to like him anymore after that. The only way to get better at kissing is really to try again. Nothing beats experience. However, if you're concerned about another complicated kiss when all you really want is a sweet peck on the cheek, or a kiss on the lips, just say so. If he's understanding, then he'll get the message. To make him feel a bit better, let him know that when it IS time for you to makeout, you're going to need to practice a lot. Guys don't seem to mind practicing.. Just remember, take it one step at a time. Good luck.
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Okay well..my friendship that I was talking about. It has turned into way more than a friendship. I am stressed out, and not getting any sleep. I really think I like him. Like I said before, just in case you hadn't seen my other question. My family is racist, and he is African American. Now its getting to the point that I don't care. I just want to be with him..even if I would be "betraying" my family.
I don't think I should have to go by their beliefs. I should get to live my own life right?
What should I do? :( (link)
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You have currently done nothing wrong on your part. You should go on liking him. If your family has a problem with your new relationship, sit them down and talk to them about it. During this conversation bring up points about:
-although they are racist, due to basic skills you learned during school, you've found that you don't share that view.
-you deserve the right to pick, and you ask for their acceptance of your decision.
-and that to avoid conflict like this in the future, you want them to try to take a more flexible position in the argument. Explain that you don't expect them to change their ways, you just ask them to respect your choice.
It's important that you do NOT tell them to change, because this causes frustration. You can both have your different views, i.e compromise is key.
Good luck.
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What do I do???
A few years back I had the same situation happen with another one of my friends..See the thing is though I didn't like him more than a friend...Ever since he told me he loved me that friendship has never been the same...Well now its happening again...Another friend of mine just told me he liked me more than a friend...Thing is I don't like him more than a friend plus I have a boyfriend...I don't want to mess up the friendship but What can I do???
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I have the same thing. Understand that it probably will be awkward. Your friend decided to make it awkward when he admitted his feelings for you despite the fact that you already have a boyfriend. My best advice is to explain to him in the kindest way you're capable of that you already have a boyfriend and you aren't considering a new relationship. To lighten the rejection, you could toss in that you don't plan on a new relationship at least until your current one is over, this way he feels he has a glimmer of hope. As for how to act around him, try and act like things are mostly the same. Do NOT give him any sort of special treatment or puppy act just to make him feel better about you rejecting him. Act as if nothing happened in hopes that things with go back to how they used to be. Treating him differently will just bring light to how you see him differently now that he has told you how he feels. Best of luck.
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i am looking for a cereal i use to eat about eight years ago, and it suddenly stopped being sold in ohio, which is where i live. i am curious if it's still being shipped to other states. i heard talk of california?
it's called 'french toast crunch cereal'.
clearly i don't mean cinnamon toast either,there is a difference. the french toast is literally shaped in pieces of bread, like french toast. (link)
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No, they no longer sell this cereal. But I sure wish they did. there was talk of making a petition to get it back, that is, if you really care a whole lot...
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Heya!
This isn't just for a personal reason, but for one of my classes at school I need some popular songs of the 80s in one of the projects.
So a list of popular songs of the 80s would be good :) Websites will do, it doesn't have to come from the top of your head. (link)
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Try some Bangles, Beach Boys, Chicago, Phil Collins, Evil Costello, Culture Club, Neil Diamond, Billy Joel, Elton John, Kenny Loggins, and Tina Turner. Search works by them for some excellent 80's. Actually, here's a website too. http://members.tripod.com/john_larocque/80.html.
Enjoy!
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i really want a summer love. i've never had one. any love actually. but i know im ready and i really want someone to cuddle with and stuff. so my question is where is the best place to meet guys who are friendly and perferably single for a 16 year old girl to meet? thanks. (link)
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My best suggestion is always a beach, or a community pool. There are always other social events such as parties as well. Other popular places to meet boys your age are skateboard parks, amusement parks, water parks, malls, movie theatres, honestly, wherever the "hot spots" around your town are. For more specific responses, it would depend on what kind of guys you're into and such.
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