14/f im going on a movie date tonight, our first one acctual and I need tips :) whats cute, whats attractive. What would be an appropiate movie for us to see tonight. We've hung out alot so a kiss wouldnt be out of the question so all tips and advice would be great!!
venom_97 answered Friday June 27 2008, 2:40 pm: AW... I remember my first date - that's cute in itself! "smile"
just be yourself girl.. Don't wear anything revealing, so that you don't send the wrong message. OK? you feel me? A nice pair of jeans with a cute baby tee is cute, with a pair of sandals with a bit of a heel on them (if you wear those) try not to over do your make up.. Natural looks are really cute and attractive - it doesn't take from who you are or add to what you are either. Keep it real!
Go on line together, check out what movies are playing and then you both decide on what you want to watch,don't you make the decision and don't let him make it either, make it together..when you get there, just be who you are, enjoy the movie and have fun. Don't be scared to talk! talking is good, it allows openess to learn one another. "smile" Don't rush anything, take it slow so that you two establish a friendship in your dating and respect too..
VeNzUeLa answered Friday June 27 2008, 2:17 pm: I feel being open and totally calm yet excited is the ideal mood you have to be in! ;) With clothing, don't go for something TOO much, because it would seem like you have been waiting forever for this date, showing desperateness! So go for a pair of jeans and a cute, sweet top. Nothing too much or too crazy, jewellery?! Go simple! Basically, dress as simple as possible!
An appropriate movie would be WHATEVER you and your date are interested in, like ANYTHING!!
If you want to kiss him, wait for a calm, quiet moment where the movie is sort of stalling, for example, when the characters are talking and it seems kind of LONG and boring, just lean in.... Half way, go half way because if he doesn't want to, he won't lean it too. But if he does, he'll lean in, making it more like a kiss you BOTH wanted! Good luck!
ElbowPuppet answered Friday June 27 2008, 2:05 pm: An appropriate movie for a first date is often something either funny or scary. It depends what kind of night you would rather have. When you see a funny movie, its a movie that you can both laugh and have a good time at. If you want to see a scary movie, it's a great excuse to grab onto his shoulder and let him play 'the man' during scary scenes. Obviously, if he doesn't like scary movies, then go see a funny movie. If you want to see a funny movie, the only ones out right now contain sexual humor. If you think that would be awkward, (because the Love Guru is hilarious, but almost 100% sexual jokes), then pick something else. As for what to do when the movie actually begins, guys find it cute when you hold their hand or play with their fingers (gently, don't go breaking his bones..). If you have something to say to him, whisper it in his ear. Please though, don't whisper in his ear every 10 seconds, because he would probably find that aggravating. If you want, you could try putting your hand on his knee or something 'sexy' like that.If he moves in for the kiss, relax yourself. Don't try to watch the movie at the same time, because trust me, a kiss is probably way more interesting anyways. Goodluck, and enjoy! [ ElbowPuppet's advice column | Ask ElbowPuppet A Question ]
Ashleymarie91206 answered Friday June 27 2008, 2:04 pm: First of all, don't go all out on make up, where your normal amount. One time I went out on a date, and put on all the make up in my house, trying to look pretty. I looked in the mirror and realized how much of a freak I looked like. Ha. So keep the make up to a minimum. Don't wear anything slutty. It's just gonna put thoughts into his head. He might just think your a piece of ass ((yess even though your only 14)) Don't change yourself in anyway, because he will regret asking you out, and avoid future dates. Don't be afraid to move in first. Everyone thinks the guy should be the one to make the first move, but if your feelin froggy then leap. Ha, don't get too sexual on your first date, let alone at your age. I'm pretty sure you'll be getting a kiss. If your really interested by the time the kiss takes place, then add a little more to it, just to show him your interested.
surferchick16 answered Friday June 27 2008, 2:01 pm: Congratualtions on your movie date!
First of all, I would say to dress as you normally would. If you don't wear skirts then don't wear it tonight. The idea is that you want to be yourself. If you don't wear make up, but want to, be subtle. Less is more so don't chunk it on, its not attractive, I'm always being told I wear too much. So trust me, I know.
Anyways, second of all, just relax, a kiss is a very private very personal thing, especially your first. So don't rush into it or anything. Take your time, if its meant to happen it will. And this may sound stupid but when you go to kiss, don't open your mouth too much. Go for his bottom lip. okay?
Good luck with everything tonight! I hope its fun and memorable for you!
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