I'm 15. Been in a relationship so far with an amazing guy for two years. I absolutely love helping other people, although I might not always be of any help, I try my best! I'm not a judgemental person, nor do I ever intent to be.
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Location: Pennsylvania
Age: 15
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Member Since: June 23, 2008
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probably not in the right category but do guys find it sexy when a girl has muscle definition?
for example i have muscular quads and calves. and i have a slight outline of a sixpack but im not like ripped or anything. and you dont have to tell me that i should find someone who likes me the way i am because i've already done that and he likes every bit of me but i was just wondering in general do guys think its sexy if girls are muscular. (link)
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Hope you dont mind, but i asked my boyfriend his opinion. He said he wouldn't find it attractive if a girl has huge arm muscles and like an eight pack. But he said he feels it's deffinatley a turn on when a girl has a tight stomach and legs, and maybe a little bit of an arm muscle, nothin too bulchy though. After he told me that, I got a membership at the gym, ha. I hoped this helped!
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17/f. On my cheer team, i am one of the oldest girls. There are some girls 2 years younger than me. I am pretty mature and even at there age I was pretty mature. Pretty much every single girl is extremely immature. They all talk about baby shows and make fun of people in childish ways, and mess with people who are minding there own business. I dont want to like talk to them about it so dont tell me that, but like when we all hang out its hard to really talk to them because they talk about things that i was into 5 years ago. like there still in the boys have cooties kind of stage only not as bad. how do i like deal with this, and not seem all shy when they all talk about stuff i find very annoying?! I'm really starting to get sick of all of them. Thanks =]
ps. im not all mature, serious, boring and stuff, so dont take it that way. im just more into the high school/college stuff, while there still in the middle school stage =D (link)
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Wow I get you! I'm only 15 but I've always been the one hangin out with the older crowd. So when I go to school, an I hang out with people my age, it's so annoying. Hang out with them, and when they start to make fun of someone and laugh, wait until they look at you, give them this messed up face(like wow that was retarted to even say) and just walk away. They'll get the hint. I'm sure that they look up to you, because you're friends, and your older ( I know I look up to them type of people) so just try and show them maturity. Maybe they'll follow in your footsteps, It just may take them awhile. If that doesn't work, then hang out with older kids on your squad. They'll have to grow up on their own.
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Me- 16-female
Boyfriend- 17-male
we've been dating for almost a year and my idea for our year since we havent taken many pictures was take one of the pictures we have and put it in a little frame for him and then put it in a box with a shirt he'd like along with our favorite candy that we purchase and eat together quite frequently which happens to be gummy worms & put a few bottles of his favorite pop and maybe an energy drink in there and give it too him that way does this sound like something you would enjoy to get?
would you give this to your boyfriend for your 1 year?
((moneys an issue for me))
which is why i cant go all out like he does for me.i love him
please give me your imput and maybe some more ideas of things to add to make it extra amazing! =D (link)
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If my boyfriend did that for me, I'd absolutely love it! It's really thoughtful and shows him how much you remember little details. You should also write him a poem from the heart. I did that for my boyfriend on our two year anniversary and he litterally cried. And no he's no much of an emotional person, lol. But yes, that's an GREAT idea!!
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so my dischare is transparent and clumpy. it doesnt smell or anything. is this bad though?
cos i hear it's suppost to be liquid. (link)
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No your fine. It comes out how it comes out, some people are different. Watch out for the color though. And smells too. But from the sound of things, you're all good.
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ok im 15 im a male and I love my girlfriend with all my heart and weve both bin talkin about how much we love each other and we both are dying 2 have our first kiss. how do i know wen the mood is rite and will she give me hints? if she does hint 2 me wat will they be? (link)
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Well I like this question, it brings back so many memories. Ha, well don't make it awkward. And don't sweat over it too much. If you get real nervous and worry over somethin little like this, then it's only gonna turn out bad. Just go with the flow, look at her, and when she's looking at you, and your heart is jumpin, smile, get closer, close your eyes and lean in. You'll be just fine. ( As far as the hints thing goes, might not be such a good idea. Guys don't always understand the hints girls give off, lol. )
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14/f im going on a movie date tonight, our first one acctual and I need tips :) whats cute, whats attractive. What would be an appropiate movie for us to see tonight. We've hung out alot so a kiss wouldnt be out of the question so all tips and advice would be great!! (link)
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First of all, don't go all out on make up, where your normal amount. One time I went out on a date, and put on all the make up in my house, trying to look pretty. I looked in the mirror and realized how much of a freak I looked like. Ha. So keep the make up to a minimum. Don't wear anything slutty. It's just gonna put thoughts into his head. He might just think your a piece of ass ((yess even though your only 14)) Don't change yourself in anyway, because he will regret asking you out, and avoid future dates. Don't be afraid to move in first. Everyone thinks the guy should be the one to make the first move, but if your feelin froggy then leap. Ha, don't get too sexual on your first date, let alone at your age. I'm pretty sure you'll be getting a kiss. If your really interested by the time the kiss takes place, then add a little more to it, just to show him your interested.
hoped this helped.
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A few months ago, i wrote on here about my mixed family.( I married my high school sweetheart after we both had previous relationships and children from them. Her kids were absolutly wild, never punished for anything in their life, just completely wreckless) Now my worst fears have come to reality and i am now facing a teen pregnancy with the youngest of my step daughters. Of course she is hysterical about the situation and wants to get an abortion. I am entirely against that and would never let my sons think that this is a way out of this kind of situation. her mom (my wife) is saying that she can do whatever she needs to do. Do i allow her to have the abortion or make her own up too her mistake? (link)
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Wow. Okay I'm only 15. But I'm totally against abortion. My theory is, if you big enough to lay down, open your legs, and make the baby, then you're big enough to carry it for 9 months. Now I'm not saying she has to keep it, because if she feels she's not ready then that's probably true. Let her give it up for adoption. But there's absolutely no reason to kill an innocent baby, it's not the child's fault. But for real, if you really want to get through to her, just be like, " Could you really go through life knowing that you held the life of your baby in your hands, and you decided to kill it." My mom tried that on my sister, who was about to have an abortion, and that brought her out of it. Don't yell at her though, she's only going to get pissed and do the opposite of whatever you say.
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15/f
Everybody has their own privacy limits.
My mom and my dad both sneak on my computer and look at what i do!
So does my brother.
My youtube account has this really big love speach and i poured my heart out in it. I like to keep myself annoymous and i dont like anyone to know who i am. My parents looked at my whole youtube account and theyre always asking me if they an use my computer.
I have no problem with that, but its not like i do anything bad.
Its just like your parents looking at your diary you know?
It feels really uncomfortable.
I have a boyfriend named dannis (well call him that for now)
They dont allow me to have a boyfriend (which brings me to my next subject)
I dont see what the big deal in having a boyfriend is, i really dont. We love eachother, and there is nothing wrong with that.
And trust me, before i start a relationship i make sure we are both ready.
I am also a good girl, i dont do anything stupid, and i pick the right guys.
And my parents know it.
They invade my privacy BEYOND REASON.
I understand some small things, but this is going way WAY too far.
They asked to check their email and i come in and their looking at my youtube account??!
Not only did they lie, but they are invading my pricacy.
I feel so hurt and betrayed.
I hate lying to my parents and thats what i had to do.
Otherwise, they wont let me see my boyfriend anymore.
Love really REALLY hurts.
I dont want oppinions, or facts.
I need advice.
Please. (link)
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Wow this sounds firmiliar. Sits your parents down. Ask them, "Do I give you any reason to not trust me? Do I ever really get into any kind of trouble?" Once you do that, just explain everything to them. Tell them that you're 15 and deserve a little privacy. If your not doing anything suspicious then what's the need to check up on you all the time. As for the boyfriend thing goes, try talkin to them about letting you have on, but don't tell them you already have one, cause that'll make things so much worse. As for your brother going through your stuff, tell your parents that is rediculous and there's no reason for him to be anywhere near your business... hopes this helps.
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14/ female.
okayyyy, so me and my friend like six months ago smoked a blunt at my house and took pictures doing it.. i know dumb idea, lol. so yesterday she saw them on her photobucket and decided to put them on her myspace. well, my brother has her as a friend and he saw the pics of me and her, and he copied the pic and sent it to my mom!
so my mom told my dad to loook at my friends myspace, but me and her had deleted it, but we didnt notice it was on her album cover, soooooooo we got screwed.
my mom had a talk with me and told me that she was upset and hurt that i did that but that she wasnt mad, but i did have to be grounded. ):
it wouldnt bother me much to be grounded but at the moment it does, cause the guy i like is gonna leave to Jersy in 8 days, and i wanna see him before he leaves, and now since im grounded idk how im gonna do that.
so, can you help?
how can i get my parents to unground me asap?!
and/or how can i do it to see this guy before he leaves even if im grounded?!
thanks so much!!!!
p.s NO im not a druggy or none of that, im a goooood students and i behave very well (: (link)
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Wow, you sound a lot like me. I've been caught smoking cigarettes plenty of times. And man have I been grounded a lot. Just explain to your parents that you understand what you did was a mistake. Tell them teenagers try things new all the time. You tried the blunt and hated it. Atleast your not out having sex, or killing people, doing drugs, drinking, or any of that stuff. If their the least bit understanding, then you'll be off the hook in no time. If that doesn't work then if there's any way this guy can come to your house, ask your parents if they can make this acception because he's going on vacation.
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I'm 16/f. I don't know how I'm going to tell a guy, who I might possibly want relationship with, about my sexual history. I've had sex with three guys, I feel terrible about it and one of the guys wasn't even planned (I was almost passed out drunk when it happened, if I was sober it never would have happened) The first guy is the only justifyed one because I went out with him for a year, and we did it on your 6 months. The second guy was to get over the first guy (he ended up being abusive and I needed to feel loved by someone) I was 15 when all of that happened and I haven't had sex since. But I don't know how a guy will react to hearing that I've already slept with 3 guys and I'm only 16. I regret it every day and it makes me feel guilty thinking about it. I've taken a vow to not have sex until I'm with a guy I truly love (and sure about his intentions) for at least 6 months. I'm afraid guys will be disgusted by it or think I'm a slut if I tell them about the three guys and not want to go out with me, but the other 2 guys were truly mistakes. Do I tell tell a guy everything or not tell him about all of them & is there any chance the guy won't care? :/ (link)
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I hope this makes yu feel better. I lost my virginity at 13, I'm now 15 an only had sex wit two guys (I'm currently with the second for two years) I told him about my first, an it was a breeze to him. He had sex wit 3 girls before me, I was his 4th and he's only now 17. Most guys now days, have been around the block. Most aren't virgins and haven't been one for awhile. So if I were you I would tell him about it and just explain to him that two were a big mistake. If he loves you, he'll understand.
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Okay, so I’ve kinda lied about my sexual experience. Not just to one person, but to everyone I know. When I was 14, some of my friends started losing their virginity. And I didn’t want to be the odd one out, so there was this guy that they knew I liked, and he was moving. So I told them (untruthfully) that I had sex with him the night before he left. They didn’t have his number or anything so I knew they wouldn’t ask him. Anyway, so all my friends thought I wasn’t a virgin anymore. And whenever people would ask me I’d always say I wasn’t, usually because I was with my friends.
Now I’m 17 and I’m still a virgin. I’ve just never had a boyfriend that I was serious enough with to have sex with him. Well now, I’m really serious with my boyfriend and I’m totally into him, and given the chance I would definitely have sex with him. We’ve come very close a couple times, but I was drunk so he wouldn’t go through with it. The problem is he thinks I’m not a virgin, but I am.
I’m afraid that I’m not gonna know what to do when the time comes that we actually do have sex. I mean, if he knew it was my first time, I wouldn’t be so worried, but he’s probably gonna expect that I know what I’m doing, and he’s not a virgin so he’s gonna know.
I don’t want him or anyone else to know that I lied about it, so I need to find a way to make it work so that he doesn’t know I’m a virgin. I know I might bleed and that’ll give it away, but if he says anything about that then I know I’ll just say something like he’s bigger than the last guy I had sex with. So anyway my questions are: (they may be dumb but bear with me)
1. What should I do with my hands while he’s actually thrusting? Like what’s gonna be the hottest for him?
2. Should I kiss him during?
3. Should I give him a blowjob first?
4. How do I subtly let him know that I want him to lead? (most important) Because if he’s leading, that’ll probably take the pressure off me a little bit.
5. I’ve heard that sometimes the guy doesn’t fit…how do I make sure that doesn’t happen to me?
Please don’t give me any of that lecture “if you’re not ready…” stuff. I’ve been ready for a long time I just haven’t had the right guy.
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Honestly, you must care about him a lot if you're willing to have sex with him. So if you truely care about him, then I'd tell him the truth. Trust me on this one, lies catch up with you and it could ruin a good thing. but to answer your questions...
there's no way to have sex right.
Go with the flow, when it's happening, you're not going to really be thinking about every little detail. Kissing makes it more intiment. Everything will fall in place, if you're ready, just go for it!
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Ok im 17/f .. Im about to be 18 in august and im like really wanting to have a baby..like REALLLY REALLLLY BAD..and im on birth control would it be wrong if I stopped taking my birth control without my boyfriend knowing just to get pregnant?..we want a baby just not now maybe in 5 years he said. But I want one now... (link)
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Well I know that I'm like three years younger then you but I hope this atleast helps. My boyfriend is seventeen and we've been together for over two years. I asked him about your question. He told me that if you were me, and I stopped taking my birth control before telling him, he would be PISSED. If I were you I would talk to him about wanting to have this baby. Maybe he wants to also, he might just be afraid of what comes with it. I don't if it helped but I hope so. I just feel that if you really care about your boyfriend then you wouldn't just spring something like that on him.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month, and he's already trying to do sexual things with me. Yesterday, he fingered me. And today he tried going up my shirt. I didn't really care, except he like, stuck my hand down his pants. For some reason, it made me feel like hes using me or something. I really love him, and I hope he's not. But I need other opinions.
Is he using me just to do stuff to me or get stuff done to him? (link)
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A month? Hmm.. well I'm not saying he's deffinately using you because I obviously don't know him. He may just be doing these things before he feels that's what you'd want. Talk to him about it. If you don't feel comfortable talking about it, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. I'm 14, and he's turning 15. We haven't had sex, but we have talked about it. The problem is, there are other couples in my school having sex that haven't even been together that long. Basically, I'm pressured all the time to have sex with him. I feel like we have waited way too long and if everyone else is, then why aren't we? I know I should wait until I'm ready..but it's been over a year and I feel like we have to. What should I do. (link)
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I'll put it like this. I'm 15. My boyfriend is 17. We've been together for two years. I've been having sex since I was 13. If I could, I would have waited much longer before I lost my virginity. If I were you, I would wait a little longer until you know if he's the right one. Because I lost mine to a boy older than me that I thought I was in love with. Well I was only with him for 5 months. I really wish my current boyfriend would of been my first, but unfortunately I felt pressured. Trust me, your not missing much. If you waited this long with him and he's still with you, then there's no reason not to wait longer. Personally, I think that will make your relationship stronger. Hope I helped. =]
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