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help?
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month, and he's already trying to do sexual things with me. Yesterday, he fingered me. And today he tried going up my shirt. I didn't really care, except he like, stuck my hand down his pants. For some reason, it made me feel like hes using me or something. I really love him, and I hope he's not. But I need other opinions.
Is he using me just to do stuff to me or get stuff done to him?
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A month? Hmm.. well I'm not saying he's deffinately using you because I obviously don't know him. He may just be doing these things before he feels that's what you'd want. Talk to him about it. If you don't feel comfortable talking about it, then you probably shouldn't be doing it.
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seems like you know the answer already! he's using you! you should be with someone who cherishs your body and doesn't think about you in a sexual way all the time. You said you loved him but you've been with him a month? i don't care how old you are, you can't love someone after a month. you are probably getting love and infatuation confused.
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Probably.
Fingering is supposed to be pleasurable
for you.If it isn't then tell him you
don't want to do it anymore, or tell
him what he's doing wrong so he can be
a better partner.
If you get enjoyment from it, then
touching him and giving him pleasure
in return is only fair. If you don't
feel comfortable giving in return, then
don't take. There is nothing wrong with
saying NO. I am not comfortable doing
this.
You don't give an age, but the reality
is that when MOST teen relationships
get sexual, that becomes the main focus
of the relationship. Not all, but most.
So, if you don't feel comfortable or
just want to wait until you are ready
for that kind of relationship just
tell him so. If he loves you he will
respect your feelings. :)
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If it feels wrong to you, then it is! He should never make you feel like you are being used for his own sexual satisfaction. If he had more respect for you he would make sure that you were happy for him to pleasure himself in front on you. Personally it is not something that I would like happening to me. All the best.
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