ok im 15 im a male and I love my girlfriend with all my heart and weve both bin talkin about how much we love each other and we both are dying 2 have our first kiss. how do i know wen the mood is rite and will she give me hints? if she does hint 2 me wat will they be?
I don't know your girlfriend, but most girls like when their boyfriend is playful and cute, so I'll work off of that.
Girls can be just as nervous about their first kiss! And, if it were me, I would like to be surprised by a first kiss. But, I think that you should kiss her on the cheek a few times, to let her know that you want to kiss her, but that you're also giving her space. Like: you're coming home from a date, and she's looking the other way. Lightly kiss her cheek, and retreat.
About the mood part: Moods are really tricky.
If she's mad: Kissing is a big no-no.
If she's sad: Cuddle, let her explain what happened (if she wants, don't push it out of her), and lightly kiss her forehead.
If she's happy: I'm not sure why you would want to kiss her! She's happy, after all!
Usually, a girl will look at your lips, or look expectantly at your eyes if they want to be kissed. Pay close attention to her body language: if she has her arms crossed or her lips pressed tightly together, she's keeping to herself. But, if her body language is more open, she's willing to share.
O.K., sorry for the long answer! Basically, the first kiss is, in my opinion, something to work up to! But I recommend that you ask other girls to help your research! No two girls are exactly the same!
LOL_x0x answered Friday June 27 2008, 5:39 pm: I'm not a guy, but you'll probably know when it's time. When you do it, don't do it just anywhere. Make it sort of special. Don't kiss her when you're sitting in Burger King or something. Do it when you're someplace special, after you've both had a great time together ot soemthing. I don't know, like I said, I'm not a guy and I really don't have much experience in this department ;]
Anywho...different girls also give different hints, but here are some common hints she might give:
- Smiling a lot.
- A lot of eye contact.
- Acting a bit shy.
- Playing with her hair.
lookitzcaroline answered Friday June 27 2008, 5:30 pm: heyy, that's really good that you are in a realtionship where the love is even between both of you guys and you really leave each other, so now for the first kiss
the PERFECT time for someone to be kissed is during a scary movie, either you can go to the movies, or just rent a scary movie at your house like Halloween or something, and when the part of the movie gets a little suspiscious and frightening (even if you don't get scared) but you know she will, she will want you to be hold her and keep her "safe" and comfort her.
so when shes really close to you just hold up her chin towards your face and kiss her!
after that, you will have her asking for more :)
hope i helped :) [ lookitzcaroline's advice column | Ask lookitzcaroline A Question ]
Heartfire1218 answered Friday June 27 2008, 4:36 pm: Ok ima girl, Have you ever thought that she wants you to make the first move?? I mean when girls get there first kisses with there Boyfriends there really scared and want the guy to kiss them. You get what im saying? So why dont you just kiss her, im sure she will be in the mood once you kiss her. [ Heartfire1218's advice column | Ask Heartfire1218 A Question ]
Ashleymarie91206 answered Friday June 27 2008, 2:09 pm: Well I like this question, it brings back so many memories. Ha, well don't make it awkward. And don't sweat over it too much. If you get real nervous and worry over somethin little like this, then it's only gonna turn out bad. Just go with the flow, look at her, and when she's looking at you, and your heart is jumpin, smile, get closer, close your eyes and lean in. You'll be just fine. ( As far as the hints thing goes, might not be such a good idea. Guys don't always understand the hints girls give off, lol. ) [ Ashleymarie91206's advice column | Ask Ashleymarie91206 A Question ]
Faith42 answered Friday June 27 2008, 1:27 pm: Hey, my name is Faith42 and I hope I can help!
Don't worry you will know when the moment is right,
you can just feel it , and so can she! You never really know what her hint's mean . Her , hint's
may mean something diffrent to you. Realy, if you
two love love each other any time will be the right
time. Or, maybe on your next date you can just
ask her over to watch a nice movie and probably
towards the end put your arm around her, and give
her a nice kiss.
I hope you get that first kiss,
I hope I helped,
Faith42:) [ Faith42's advice column | Ask Faith42 A Question ]
cheifbritneeilu answered Friday June 27 2008, 1:03 pm: Just follow your gut instinct. You'll know the moment, don't plan it out it's not as special that way. She'll bite her bottom lip, look into your eyes, etc. when she wants to. If you want to double check it's the right moment ask her be like "Can I kiss you" and if she smiles thats generally a yes (:
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