How could i no tht i am virgen??
You define what virginity means to you.
Like the previous answerer said, the most common idea of virginity involves vaginal penetration. However, this doesn't account for cases of rape and non-heterosexual couples. Moreover, you could feel like you were no longer a virgin if you had performed oral sex.
It's really all up to you.
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I'm 17, I never even had a crush since i was born. I am completely normal. It is just I have never felt anything towards opposite sex or same sex. I can tell that a girl is pretty but no, I never had a chance to like anyone. I never even fall inlove. seriously I never even had crush. What should I do? what am I? am I normal or what? I'm worried I want to have gf.
Read up on asexuality and aromanticism! There's nothing wrong with you at all, and you're perfectly healthy and normal.
Just as some people feel attraction to different genders, some people don't feel attraction at all.
There's a pretty big community online of people who identify as asexual and aromantic, so there are plenty of resources for you.
You're also only 17, so even if you do find yourself attracted to someone later in life, that's just you growing as a person and finding out what you like and don't like.
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And as fit as a Victoria's Secret model, like Oluchi or Candice. I started going to the gym and someone told me the elliptical and bicycle are just cardio, so I waste time doing them. I can't afford a trainer, so what can I do? I want to lose about 70 pounds in a year, to be my goal of 5'4" and ~105 pounds. I don't look as fat as I weigh, I used to do school sports, but I was never blessed with a great metabolism. Apparently it means I have more muscle but I felt I struggled the same with weights with my skinnier teammates. I can accept I'll never be my dream height of 5'8", I just want to be slim and feminine, no longer some awkward average bulkyness. I dont care much for curves, I just want skinny legs, arms, and to have a skinny stomach without sucking it in. My neck had this weird baby fat that never properly goes away, too. I eat generally healthy, and have cut back on my binging. For lent I gave up junk on every day but Sunday, and so far, this Sunday I didn't go crazy and get a pizza and eat a quart of icecream, I just had one fanta and ate healthy the rest of the time. My family is African so there's naturally a healthy diet, but any tips I'll take anyways, cause western food is probably my biggest temptation. When I visited Africa I lost tens of pounds without even trying, and I felt fresh. I'd just like tips and reassurance. I have the ballet beautiful tapes and I go to a gym. I used to be embarrassed about showing I was working out or improving myself in General, idk why, but now I'm an adult and I want to look good and set a foundation for a healthy and happy adult life. I wear mediums and larges and I'd love to wear small, even extra small. It would make vintage shopping easier, cause most good stuff is small, or looks good on a smaller frame. I'm not in danger of anorexia or anything, in countries out of America skinny people are normal. So there must be something I can do to be like that, too, and cut my risk for many diseases caused by obesity. Thanks for your time, in advance
You need to discuss this with a doctor. If you don't go to a dietician or do the proper research on nutrition, you could really hurt yourself both physically and psychologically.
Also realize that VS models' job is literally to look like that, and they spend all day working out and dieting. They have a staff of dietitians and personal trainers who tell them what to eat and how to work out.
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I am a 21 yr old girl, Me and my boyfriend been together for a year and 4months, but he doesn't have job or even have a education, he wants me to drop everything and move there but I just started my two jobs, I don't know what to do! Should I? Or am I giving to much? Help me what should I do?
Apply for jobs in his area, and discuss it. This is a really big change in both of your lives, and passion is one thing but being able to pay for rent is another.
I'm assuming this is a long distance relationship, and those are really really hard emotionally. However, communication is the most important thing in a healthy relationship, and you two need to discuss ALL of your worries and fears about possibly living together. Talk about where you're going to live (together or separate?), what your daily schedule is like, how you're going to support yourself financially, and if he wants to get married soon.
He should not expect you to drop your jobs just so he can see you. This isn't a romance movie, and you're allowed to say no.
Follow your heart and all of that, but also realize that this is a really big financial and personal decision.
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hi u answered 1 of my qs about losing weight and im deeply suicidal and i dont know why help
Is your family life okay? Are you eating well? How's school? Please talk to me, and I swear I won't judge you at all. I want to help you
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Hi for the last few days I have been getting this brownish subtance in my underwear it is not a huge amount but I'm concerned its my period because I'm not a early boomer I am 14 quite small
One of my best friends had a brown sort of period her first few periods. I'm not a doctor, so I don't know if everything is actually okay. I think if it really bothers you, you should tell a parent/adult whom you trust, and they can help you
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So I am a junior in high school but I feel really unprepared for senior year, when college apps start. My dream school is any Ivy League school in the East because I wanna be away from home, but I think I have a less likely chance of getting admitted because I have bad grades and I'm below the GPA average (I have a 3.0). I failed my SAT, which makes me frustrated and I hate the Critical Reading section, but I'm retaking again in February (hoping I get at least a 2100).
Any suggestions to help so I can make my college apps look "better" when it is my turn to apply? And I need leadership, so any suggestions on that?
Like the previous answer said, get involved in things outside of school. If you want to be a scientist, volunteer at a science museum or research lab. Find something that you feel passionate about, and unload that passion onto something productive.
Hundreds of thousands of students can take a multiple-answer test and fill in little bubbles, but none of them are as uniquely you as you are. Show colleges that you have passion and ambition, and use things like clubs and volunteering to reinforce that idea.
Also, make sure your essays are perfect and really show who you are as a person. They're the one part of your application where you are not a letter or a number, but a human voice with a story and ambitions.
It's a bit too late to get leadership positions in high school clubs, but that doesn't mean you can't get experience in other things. A lot of organizations have internships for high school students, like Do Something: http://www.dosomething.org/about/team/internships
Even if you don't live in the NYC area, you can search online for similar things where you live.
You can also take challenging classes next year, and develop strong relationships with teachers throughout the next year so that you'll have really good recommendation letters.
Also, practice your interviewing skills. I know Columbia does interviewing, and it really helps if you already have an idea of how to answer their questions.
Start your applications as soon as you can, so that you aren't left on the day before the deadline trying to write 3 essays that determine your future. It makes you look more prepared and punctual if you turn in your application before the deadline, and sometimes it takes a while for all the materials (like your high school transcript) to get there on time. Your teachers also have to write a bunch of recommendation letters for other students, so the fact that you gave them ample time before the deadline to write one for you, gives them time to really think about you as an amazing student and means you'll probably get a better rec letter.
Hope I helped, and my email is always open if you have more questions :)
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I am a girl and I just got married to a wonderful guy. I am wondering how sex feels for the first time and times after that. Try to explain, not just feels good or whatever. Thanks!
The first time can feel different for everyone, so I guess I'll just tell you my experience. It really hurts at first, but that really depends on the relative sizes of your genitals. Tell him if it hurts too much. I'm assuming that since you two are married and care a great deal about each other, he'll want it to be as pleasurable an experience for you as possible. It'll stop hurting after a while, which may be during your first time once your vagina stretches enough, or maybe even not until the next time you have sex. After I stopped hurting, it alternated between feeling really good and feeling really weird to be having something moving inside of me. Just relax and enjoy yourself.
It gets better as you two explore each other's bodies and discover what you like. Make sure you communicate with him, and let him know what's working, what isn't, and what you'd like to try. In my experience, it's not usually the penis-vagina thing that feels the best, but all the touching and kissing before that that really make my heart race
Again, sex is different for everyone, and I hope my experience helped you!
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okay i'm currently 16 I turn 17 in july
I really love my bf and he telling alot of people thagt he believes
i'm the perfect girl he is too 16 almost 17.he tells me that he is ready to settle down and that he wants to get married and have a kid.I really love him alot and yes he does smoke weed and cigarette and yes my parents know he does.he is a really good guy but something is holding me back he is a bit controlling like he gets mad if I talk about other guys and if I go a full two days J seeing him he threatens to take his own life and then he says that we need to runaway and get married idk I love him and always will it's just thode two things that's hurting me
The most important thing you need to ask yourself is if you could seriously see yourself living with him every single day for the rest of your life.
I'm assuming that you both live in your parents' houses. If you lived together, you wouldn't have a home to run back to when you two get in a fight. That would be your home. All the things that put you off about him now like smoking and threatening to take his life will still be there, but you'll also find many other things that you don't life about him. That sounds cynical, but that's how all marriages are. It's not just about cuddling and having sex every night and having babies; it's about finding someone who can help you and support you as you make your way through life.
I don't know if that's how you feel about him, and I have no right to judge your relationship. I do think it's a good idea to wait a few more years before you seriously talk about marriage. It's a really important time in your life where you're just figuring everything out, and maybe one of you will decide they want to go out of state for college or something else that would separate you two.
I'm not really sure what your question is, but if you want to talk about this with me, my email is always open :)
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hello im 13f and have struggled with bulimia and want to lose weight the safe way now.im overweight and hate it i also have cut myself burned and bruised myself for years help im so ugly right now i gained 5 pounds over the holiday :(
I know that right now being skinny and pretty seem like they're really important things, but you're only 13. You have all of puberty to look forward to, and your body will change in many many ways. I have a friend just like you who told herself she was fat and ugly and maimed herself for years. Now she's 17, taller, has amazing boobs, and is one of the most beautiful people I know. Clinically, she's considered overweight, but that "extra" weight took time to spread in flattering ways over her body as she grew and developed.
Losing a lot of weight at once would hurt your body at such a crucial part of development for your body, and people who go on crazy-fast diets lose all that weight back instantly. If you really want to lose weight and keep it off for the rest of your life, then you have to make serious life changes. Start walking everywhere, try exercises (like this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5nyrD4eM64 ), cut out junk food and fatty meats, drink water instead of soda, and, most importantly, start looking at yourself differently.
My biggest advice right now is to stay away from the scale for a while. Everyone slips up when they're on a diet, which is perfectly normal, but you'll lose the most weight when you feel the best about yourself. Your weight does not define you, anymore than the length of your fingernails defines who you are. You are not a number. You are a bright young woman with the rest of her life ahead of her, and I sincerely wish the best for you.
Hope I helped, and feel free to email me :)
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ok im 15 im a male and I love my girlfriend with all my heart and weve both bin talkin about how much we love each other and we both are dying 2 have our first kiss. how do i know wen the mood is rite and will she give me hints? if she does hint 2 me wat will they be?
Awh! That's so cute! >u<
I don't know your girlfriend, but most girls like when their boyfriend is playful and cute, so I'll work off of that.
Girls can be just as nervous about their first kiss! And, if it were me, I would like to be surprised by a first kiss. But, I think that you should kiss her on the cheek a few times, to let her know that you want to kiss her, but that you're also giving her space. Like: you're coming home from a date, and she's looking the other way. Lightly kiss her cheek, and retreat.
About the mood part: Moods are really tricky.
If she's mad: Kissing is a big no-no.
If she's sad: Cuddle, let her explain what happened (if she wants, don't push it out of her), and lightly kiss her forehead.
If she's happy: I'm not sure why you would want to kiss her! She's happy, after all!
Usually, a girl will look at your lips, or look expectantly at your eyes if they want to be kissed. Pay close attention to her body language: if she has her arms crossed or her lips pressed tightly together, she's keeping to herself. But, if her body language is more open, she's willing to share.
O.K., sorry for the long answer! Basically, the first kiss is, in my opinion, something to work up to! But I recommend that you ask other girls to help your research! No two girls are exactly the same!
Hope I helped! ^_^
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Do u Know of any NON digi chat rooms? I would really appreciate anyones that anyone could tell me thanx a bunch!!!!!
I'm not sure what you mean by digi, so I'll try my best!
If you meant that you don't want to have to use a web browser (Internet Explorer, Firefox, Safari, and such), there are chat rooms that you can access through Instant Messenger applications (like YIM).
If you meant that you don't want to download an application like YIM (Yahoo Instant Messenger) or AIM (AOL Instant Messenger), you can access forums all over the internet, depending on what kind of people you want to talk to. (I'll put links later in this post)
If you meant that you physically want to be in a chat room (without the convenience of a computer), I'm not sure how to help you, besides telling you to join clubs!
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Here are a few links.
Instant Messenging Services:
YIM: http://messenger.yahoo.com/
AIM: http://dashboard.aim.com/aim?icid=aolcom30ProdServAIM
MSN: http://im.live.com/messenger/im/home/?source=MSNTDLINK
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Site with my favorite forum (Gaia Online): http://gaiaonline.com/
(lots of interesting people who are willing to debate, plus you can make your own avatar-self and profile!)
Hope I helped!
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ok so im 16 and i hope my breasts arnt going to stay like this but im a size 34B and it seems like my areola are bigger then the average person at my age there like 2 inches wide and 2 inches long .. is it just me or is that big? and i have a new boyfriend and i dont no what he will say.. im just being insacure i guess but please be honest is that unattractive to guys?
Every girl's breasts are different! There isn't really a norm for what they should be. Plus, the most publicized breasts are those of women who are what the media tells us that our breasts should look like--not necessarily what everyone else's breasts look like.
Also, a lot of girls won't admit to having "odd" breasts because they'd be embarrassed, so you can't always trust what they say. (And if they feel comfortable showing their breasts, it's probably because they have the breasts that girls are "supposed" to have.)
It depends on the guy, some guys them bigger, and some the opposite. But, some guys are so used to what porn stars' breasts look like, and really don't know that breasts vary. Though, I'm not a guy, so I don't exactly know!
Hope I helped!
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I have a friend who's been annoying me lately. I really hate to say it but I think she's fake, and a poser. (though I really hate that I think that) She's my best friend though. I just can't take it!! She copies me A LOT. She copies what I do, my style, my likes, what I say... It's really annoying and makes me want to say "think of your own freakin ideas!!!!" and give her a piece of my mind! She KNOWS I hate copycatters but I think she thinks that I don't mind, or that she's "not copying" me. I'm just myself, and when she tries to do something I do, it comes off as fake. To me at least. I really like being unique, different, and my own person, but it's hard to do that if she's JUST LIKE ME. She's changed though... Like on aim, I put my status message as "ca-call me, so I can make it juicy for ya!" A quote from one of Lil Wayne's songs. Then later, my friend put "Ayyy-bayy bayy! :]" or something like that. .__. I would do something like that (cause I'd wanna get back at her), but she might think I'M copying HER. Then she'd try to be better than me. I actually do have an away message like that, but didn't get the idea from anyone else. She's not even like "that" at all. I really don't mean to be rude. :[ but how can I get over this? I don't wanna be annoyed everytime she does something... It drives me crazy! Whenever I think of something kewl, it discourages me to share it with people because in the back of my head I'm thinking "uh oh what if so and so copies me and gets all the credit for it?" Sorry. I have a problem with copycatters. I just feel like she's stealing MY identity. It feels like a "competition" and I hate it. She makes it like that though. How can I not get annoyed and stop thinking about all the negative things? I want to think positive things and be happy. (I'm annoying myself cause I feel like I'm caring about something so stupid.) Sorry if this is long. D;
She's copying you, because she finds what you do interesting. You should be flattered, but instead you want something that's only yours.
This is actually how trends start: someone doing something spontaneous, and everyone copying them. Like, ten years ago, wearing all black and covering half of your face with your equally black hair would be considered weird and unacceptable by society. But, some people thought it was awesome, and, eventually, "emo" became a trend.
Instead of seeing it as an annoying competition, try thinking of yourself as a trend-setter. When a person does something like you, don't get mad and annoyed, I find it easier to give myself moral support and tell myself that I'm somewhat above them. But, then again, nobody likes a stuck-up person. Ignoring also helps.
Another method is to put yourself in their perspective or "shoes". For example, the AIM status message thing: you could try imagining yourself in your friend's position. **She saw your status message and thought that it was cool, but she didn't want to full-out copy you, so she mixed up the words and such. She at least tried.
**This is an assumption, I don't know what she was actually thinking!!!!!
You can also talk (without getting angry!!!!!) to your friend, but that will probably lead to an argument and make things worse.
In reality, this is a silly thing to be annoyed by, but I know how it feels. More importantly, this is a silly thing to ruin a friendship over. Don't push this little thing, O.K.? Aren't friendships more important than your pride?
I hope I helped!!
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I need some recommendations for a digital camera. It has to be more or less compact (when you turn it off, the lens goes back inside of the camera). It has to take extremely good pictures, and have a video recorder. I could care less what it looks like, so don't try finding me the first cute camera that pops up on google. I want quality and something small. My budget is $500, but if I'm going to spend 500 bucks on something, it better be good.
17/F
I have had my camera for a month, a rock concert, and a trip to New York, and it has never failed to give me superb pictures and video.
http://www.kodak.com/eknec/PageQuerier.jhtml?pq-path=12416&pq-locale=en_US&_requestid=329
^ that is a link from the Kodak store, and it costs $200, but I got my camera at a Target store for $160.
It takes pictures quickly, and has a giant, glossy screen. It's about a half-inch thick, ~2.4 inches long, and ~1.5 inches tall. I use a bulky, cheap, camera pouch-thing to keep it safely cushioned whenever I'm not using it, but it fits easily in my jean pockets (now that I think about it).
I have found the Kodak software for both the camera and the computer to be easily-used and user-friendly.
This is a picture that I took earlier today (of the hand-strap that comes with the camera..):
http://i224.photobucket.com/albums/dd51/panic_4_evr/100_0038.jpg
Hope I helped!
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I recently started having this problem, I have Safari, and I am trying to login to my facebook, but I keep getting this error message:
Safari can’t open the page.
Safari can’t open the page “https://login.facebook.com/login.php” because it couldn’t establish a secure connection to the server “login.facebook.com”.
I tried other web browsers also but it still doesnt work.
What do I do?
I'm assuming that only this particular server (login.facebook.com) is not working, and that you can browse normally through any other site.
It could be a problem with your firewall preferences. Go to System Preferences (it should be in the Applications folder), and somewhere (sorry, I'm using my friend's PC I can't verify what I'm typing) in the Network or something, you'll find something along the lines of firewall preferences.
Or maybe, you could scan through Safari's preferences (sorry, again. I quit using safari a while ago, I use Firefox) and make sure that Safari itself isn't blocking the webpage.
Hope that I helped!
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I wanna buy a new camera to produce good photos
i was watching lost series one on boxset and at the end disk there is a bonus feature of MAtthew Fox's photography
it is amazing !
so goood !
he is fantastic haha
i want a camera that can produce pictures like that
one that can do both good colour and good black and white photos
i wanna capture the moment!
any help will do thanks xxx
I recommend that you read Photography magazines. I actually read a Reader's Digest once that was completely over photography!
They have really helpful info, like what camera is the best for what kind of shot and whatnot!
Happy camera hunting!
-S
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Ok, I just got an Ipod nano about 2 weeks ago. Everytime I plug it into my laptop to charge it, it freezes up! It won't charge, and it'll stay like that for about 2 days! I don't know what to do, and I don't know if I should return it or not. Has anyone else had this problem? What can I do?
In addition to the previous posts, you should try letting the battery drain down until turning it on is impossible. Then, plug it into your computer.
If that doesn't work, I would exchange it. Why bother with an iPod that can potentially freeze up sometime, when you can get a brand new one?
Hope you iPod works soon!
-S
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I want to write a book, I would like to know what kind of book you would like to read. I prefer teen girls to answer this question. Any tips and advice would be helpful too!
Thanks :]]
I'm just assuming, but most teenage girls like romance. Preferably the kind of gushy, problematic, forbidden love that only happens in books.
Personally, I love fantasy romance. Such as Twilight by Stephanie Meyer.
In Twilight, the main character is clumsy and easy to relate to; she's not a superhero. In fact, Bella is even more normal than I am! But then! Edward, a mysterious, seductively handsome vampire, HATES her. But, of course, they fall madly in love. But not with ease...
I think readers enjoy the journey of waiting for the main characters to fall in love and when the characters are oblivious to their love, rather than when they have confessed and such.
So, if you really want the normal teenage girl to enjoy a book, I would write a romance.
Hope I helped!
-S
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where can i get some cute myspace layouts that hides my top friends list && hides my comments?? thanks 4 whoever helps.
I don't know many sites that make layouts (I make my own), but this site has codes that you copy and paste into your 'about me' section. Like to hide your friends list or whatever.
http://www.graphicsarcade.com/myspace/tweaks/
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