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alrighty so sorry if this is long or weird or anything! ive been fingered once before and all that happend was i was really sore but i didnt bleed or anything. my boyfriend fingered me again for not long and i didnt even realize til later that i must of bled cus there was blood in my undies a little. and it was really swollen down there. and it hurts. is this normal?? like i dont even get pleasure outta it. its jus kinda painful and afterwards i get so swollen and it hurts whys this happening?
He probably tore your hymen. No biggie.
when i did the code you gave me, all it said was terms of violation.
the image said that? make sure you use a direct link, i don't ever use myspace anymore.. so it may have changed the coding rules, i'm sorry if that happened! :/
I got some piercings a few years ago and I just removed them for good. I have a problem now though because the scars are REALLY noticable and not very nice looking. The ones I'm really upset about are the monroe piercing, labret, and the nose piercing. My nose piercing has weird white skin around where the hole is and the other two are just big HOLES in me even though they were small gauges.
Is there anything I can put on the scars to make them go away faster or would I need to see a doctor for some sort of treatment or scar reduction? I know they're techincally "puncture wounds" so they're considered to be deep. I only need the "outside" part of them to heal up and look normal again though. Please help me because I wish I had never done this to my face... :(
The only one I'm positive for an answer is your monroe piercing because I had one, when I took mine out there was a noticible scar for a while but after about three weeks (maybe less) it healed and you can't even notice it unless you reaaaally look. It may depend on how long you had it and how well you took care of it though, I only had mine for about three months.
Has anyone had a deviated sepltum, and had the surgery for it ; synoplasty. I have a deviated septum and it really bugs me especially at night time. I just want to know about some peoples experience so i can decide whether or not to have the surgery? Its only supposed to be like an hour long? What do you know about it and is it worth it? Any complications?
Here is a site with stories from people who have had it done: http://www.apneasupport.org/about9963.html
I recently got a job doing birthday parties at a bowling alley. I got the job because my manager from my last job (which was also doing birthday parties) works there now, so it was kind of favor. But after the first couple of weeks, I realized I just don't want to do it. I'm so sick of doing the parties. How do I quit? Do I stick it out? Do I just tell her I don't want to do it?
If you are truly looking to quit just hand in your two week notice. It's basically a letter to your manager that says you will not be able to continue working with them after whatever date.
I doubt this is possible but do you think you can audition for the music program at a school like George Mason late? on an instrument like French horn? Because I'm interested but the audition dates have passed and I doubt you still can.
You need to contact the person in charge of the program.
If I were to buy these converse (kind of a pastel-purple color)... what clothes would match with it?
http://www.converse.com/?CSID=596#/products/shoes/chucktaylor/112422F
Would somebody be able to give me some examples of colors/combination of shirts/pants that would look good with them?
Also, if you could send me links to some cute shirts or pants that you've seen that will look good, please send!
thank you!
Just throw on a pair of dark jeans with a normal tee (possibly a white one, a black one, grey.. just neutral colors)
I'm starting to like this kid in my gym class. He's so cute but super quiet. My friend has been talking to him because I never ever see him, except for gym but even then we're in different squads and don't see each other. However, she would talk to him and tell him I think he's cute and she said he would smile every time she said my name. Then, she told him to be on facebook so I can talk to him on my friends and he said "I will most definitely be on to talk to her" Next, she told him that I'm kinda afraid to talk to him because I don't want him to think I'm weird and like creepy and he replied "No, I wouldn't, not at all, I think it's funny that she's so shy" and my friend told him "Good, she'll want to hear that, I'll get her to talk to you" and he said "Good, I really want her to, I wouldn't know what to say if I had to talk to her first." Sounds like he kinda likes me, right? Well, he said he told my friend he was going to talk to me after school, that I should meet him at his locker so he could "grab me from my friend and pull me into him", my heart pounding in my chest, I finally went and he wasn't there.. then I had gone on facebook last night and he wasn't on like he said he would be.. ): am I misreading everything? Does he not like me?
You're reading too deeply into it. Maybe he was unable to be on facebook at the moment, and maybe he got distracted in the hallway/people in front of him were being slow making it difficult for him to get there on time (happens to me almost every day). Just wait, if he continues to blow you off then you should drop it, but for now I think you're fine.
im pretty good friends with a lad in my class and i think i like him a little bit if you know what i mean haha. he does things that makes me think maybe he does like me but im not sure, maybe you guys can help me.
- when hes got his ipod on he always sings arts of the songs to me.
- when ever i look at him across the room hes usually looking at me,a then he smiles or pulls a silly face so that we both laugh.
- he tends to tell me random storys about his life.
- when ever he can he comes an sits as close as possible to me.
but weather hes just doing all these thigs because were friends i dont know, and by the way he doesnt know that i like him as more than a friend.
Honestly, it sounds like he just enjoys flirting.
Can U become pregnant from having anal sex?
There is a chance that seamen could get into your vagina, always use protection just in case :)
I really want to learn how to play the guitar (electric mostly) but I don't know where I can get lessons.
I live in Illinois about 30 min. away from Chicago. So any place near there? Or any websites where I can find accurate information for this would be appreciated.
Thanks.
You can try any Guitar Center, I'm pretty sure most, if not all, do offer guitar lessons. Nearly any guitar shop will probably offer lessons.
how long does it take for weed to leave your body, the last time i smoked was 3/5/10... i need to take a urine drug test to get a job, so i was wondering how long to wait to make sure its completely out... btw ive only smoked 2 other times in my life, once in october and once in november of last year...
Drink lots of antioxidants, such as green tea, and lots of water. Since you've only smoked a few times and they've been large distances between, it should be out of your system within probably two weeks. The typical smoker takes four weeks, but that's if you do it regularly. If you're really concerned you can get detox, which you take an hour prior to your drug test and makes it so the enzymes which break down the weed won't show up in your pee.
how do you make pictures show up in your myspace picture captions?
use this code without the *'s :
Hi there im looking to do aload of songs for a 30 party from my laptop and was going to use a dj software to do this and mix the songs but i would like to go and mingle with people does any1 have any idea where i can get a player that will play 1 song then mix in another one from a playlist or is this just non excistant atm. surely there is something out there that will do it automatically for u? any help would be appreciated cheers
If you use the Zune Software (newest version) and select a song, artist, album, etc. by right clicking there's an option called "Smart DJ mix" and it will play songs similar to the artist you selected, song, and what not. I'm sure iTunes can also do this, I just don't know how. I don't use iTunes.
hey im 18/f i've had a perm before but it ended up like super crazy curly and i didnt really like it that was back when i was like 14. I was thinking about getting another perm but i dont want it very curly i want it sort of "crimpy" in a way. Is there anything i can tell my hair salon when i go and get one so she knows what im saying is there any tecnical term for it? Just like wavy hair that looks crimpy but not bad.
Thanks
I think what you mean is a "body wave perm". Here's a link to some. http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&um=1&sa=1&q=body+wave+perm&aq=f&oq=&aqi=g2
The best way to get what you want is to take a picture, honestly.
Hey im that guy whio asked the question on how to get the girl at work's number, then i posted another question the day after saying how i had gotten her number and asking somthing else.
i then sent out thank you letters to the people who answer'd saying how we went to a club the day after and we woke up on my sofa which my mum found us both asleep on... well if you one of those people this is an update and another question to all.
in short, She's leaving for uni and she wanted to spare me the pain and frustration of a long distance relationship and has decided to split up with me. Ill be honest i saw it coming a few days ago... but i didnt think it would hurt this much while wanting her so badly. i havent stopped crying for the last 4 hours.
we both still lov eachother very much and are going to stay in contact but just not be together. I think its a good idea but as much as i hate to admit its a good idea i hate to see her go too.
i guess really what im asking what do i do now? wait the 2 years out till she comes back from University? or do i just try to move on, we have such a connection i havent felt it this much with any other person ever and im not exaggerating.
If you try and keep in contact, the I don't see how it could be too bad. It's only two years, some people go longer than that. Is she super far away? Will you get to see her often? If you won't get to see her, you might end up loosing touch, and with that you'll move on eventually.. but for now just take it how you want. Keep in contact, but if things get too hard I suggest moving on..
I need a dress for my brothers prom, just for taking pictures and stuff. Nothing fancy, and under 200 dollars. It's not till like June, but, I am extremely picky with what I wear and I need some help finding a nice dress.
I have really deep ugly stretch marks going down my arms to about the elbow, and I have a few on my thighs so I need a dress that covers those without looking to blotchy and covered.
Because of my weight(I am fat) I need a dress with an embroidered waist
Any ideas where I could find a dress like this?
You could try Forever21(www.forever21.com), I'm not sure if they'll have that type of design but they have some super cute stuff there. I tried looking online for you, but their webpage wouldn't open haha. You could also try Deb (http://www.debshops.com/home/index.jsp) A lot of their dresses are more fancyish but, you can try. And both stores are super cheap, my friend got a dress at Deb for $1.50 once hahaha.
So I have the virgin mobile phone Kyocer X-tc. I know how to use the media player and everything. But when I plugged in an adpater for the headphones (the slots a 2.5 so I have an adapter that size in which I can plug my normal headphones into) the music won't play through them. I have tried everything with the phone to get them to work but it just won't. Could it be I don't have the right settings on, the adapters broken or I just need to buy smaller headphones? Thanks.
this seems to be in the right category to me?, check the manual that came with your phone. usually that explains pretty well if there's certain settings, and what not. if everything is set up right, try new headphones. if that won't work, try calling virgin mobile. sorrrry, i probably wasn't a help.
Ok 14 and I have 2 girls after me 1 is dull and the other is more of a prep and sporty and great grades I'm dating the dull now wut shud I do
Date the one you like..
i have a friend and she is one of my best friends she always ignores me at break and lunch unless we are bitching.If i fall out with her then i'll probally lose another friend how is just the same.They are starting to do it to everyone but i don't know how the others feel so i don't what to tell them how i feel cause they might tell my friends and they could take it the wrong way.It only began with the other friend cause i said she was my best friend when i meant it about someone else,please dont say talk to them cause they won't listen.
p.s its preety messed up
Drop them. They obviously aren't real friends and their making you feel bad, which isn't cool. =/ I still think you should talk to them, even if you said not to say that..