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i think she is a back staber what should i do
i have a friend and she is one of my best friends she always ignores me at break and lunch unless we are bitching.If i fall out with her then i'll probally lose another friend how is just the same.They are starting to do it to everyone but i don't know how the others feel so i don't what to tell them how i feel cause they might tell my friends and they could take it the wrong way.It only began with the other friend cause i said she was my best friend when i meant it about someone else,please dont say talk to them cause they won't listen.
p.s its preety messed up
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Find new friends. Sometimes, you just need to find new friends who are actually worth your time.
Trust me, I'm speaking from experience here, you're going to be better off without them.
-Laura (17-f)
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Drop them. They obviously aren't real friends and their making you feel bad, which isn't cool. =/ I still think you should talk to them, even if you said not to say that..
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Honestly, there's not much you can do when someone doesn't want to be your friend. It seems she wants to be your friend for the wrong reason, and that's why I've dumped a lot of my friends. One of my BEST friends always put me down in her own way and competed with me on everything, we were really like sisters. But I couldn't take how she acted, I grew up and decided it was time to just let her go and not be friends. We fought about it, but we're not friends at all and I'm better off. I think you'd be better off with people you CAN talk to and people who are there for you, not just talk to you so you can bitch about things. It's your choice, but the only thing you can do is confront her, or ignore her back. Ignoring people (like she's doing to you) makes them mad and makes THEM chase YOU. So try it out, see if it works. Just focus on your true friends for now.
Hope I helped. If you have any more questions, let me know. <3
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