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Im me and thats all i wanna be, I love music,reading and just haveing fun.I get silly sometimes and i can act like a little girl but thats juss me,lmaoo=]]]]
Gender: Female
Location: Danbury
Occupation: music
Age: 14
AIM: Heartfire1218
Member Since: October 6, 2007
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Last Update: June 27, 2008
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Well i've liked this guy forever, And I am pretty sure he liked me too. We always flirted like non stop. But now summer is coming and I can tell we are trying to keep in contact with eachother (it's hard considering he doesn't have a phone) Anyway We talked online EVERYDAY Since schools let out. Then one night, I imed him and I was like "Omg joshh!" And he was like "yo" And then I was like "Omg, I just watched the scariest movie and I'm home alone and freaking out" And he was like "cool" And i was like "not really" And then he just signed off. It was so odd, he's never like that and he always says bye to me and i figured he would be there for me or something. So I just thought to myself, 'okay I don't know what i did for him to act like that so when he is ready to talk I will let him I/M me next time' Well, We haven't talked in 8 days because he Hasn't imed me. Honestly, he used to always i/m me until that ONE NIGHT I IMED HIM! What the heck did i do? And what the heck do i do?! help! Thanks so much (link)
You did nothing,He is just a boy, Maybie something was wrong with his computer. Stop thinking to negative about it, think positve and dont be scared to IM him.


ok im 15 im a male and I love my girlfriend with all my heart and weve both bin talkin about how much we love each other and we both are dying 2 have our first kiss. how do i know wen the mood is rite and will she give me hints? if she does hint 2 me wat will they be? (link)
Ok ima girl, Have you ever thought that she wants you to make the first move?? I mean when girls get there first kisses with there Boyfriends there really scared and want the guy to kiss them. You get what im saying? So why dont you just kiss her, im sure she will be in the mood once you kiss her.


OMG!!!!
Why are guys such A-holes!?!?!
Ok so I have this friend and we have dated previously and that was along time ago before I knew him and now I really do like him and I know he likes me its just that I feel used by him...Like he wont talk to me if he is talking to or hanging out with another or other girls and he like only talks to me when he isn't and tonight (Halloween) I was with him and he ditched me for another girl and yeah it just makes me mad...he acts like "oh I don't have anyone to flirt with so I'll just go hangout or call me!!!" and yeah he is one of those guys that treat you differently around his friends than when you are alone with him and as much as I wanna hate him I just can't because whenever I hear his voice of see him i just feel that attraction for him and I just don't know what to do about it and it just crushes me and tonight after I get home he calls me and he is all like "you sound sad or mad" and I was all like "well thats because I am" and he asks "well why is that?" and I was like " I have my reasons" and yeah Im still kinda pissed at him but I know I can't be mad at him for too long but it hurts me because he treats me like that...Please help me... (link)
well guys are a-holes and they may only act like that just cuz they like you and mabe you should be all mad at him and if he tries to say hi to u ignore him and than if he askes whats wrong than you tell him whats wrong itll work. Gud Luck:]


well im dating a girl who ive known for awhile and am pretty good friends with and she doesnt like making out. she doesnt think its fun so she doesnt like it. what can i do to either change that or do to find something else just as fun? any ideas would greatly help. (link)
Hi you should ask her what she would like to do and if she does not like makeing out at least kiss her on the cheek


i cant over the fact that so many people in my grade have boyfriends and girlfriends. i am a freshhmen and there are girls in my grade going out with juniors. im not saying that i want that but i dont want think im so ugly. i dont know if there is anything i can change to maybe make myself more attractive or what to do :( please help! (link)
Hi I used to think the same as you and sometimes I still do. Your not ugli and im sure you have friends so why do you care about what other people are doing and just becuase a few people are goin out does not mean everyone is and dont call ur self ugli ur probally very Pritty. Good luck


When your in high school, do you have to have sex to be cool? Do you have to have a girlfriend and kiss all of the time? Tell me what its like, because middle school was bad enough. (link)
Hi I am not in high school yet but next year i will be so,Why do you have to have sex to be cool you know whats not cool getiin some one pergant or you get cought doing it.An no you dont have to have a GF all the time if you have one than you know thats good but dont have one just to be cool and ya I now middle school dose suck right lol


ok well on Sunday i was at my boyfriend's grandparents house. i went to the bathroom and when i wiped there was a little bit of blood it was really light kinda pink i guess and i was kind of confused because im not supposed to get my period until next Sunday (an EXACT week later)so i wiped again but there wasn't really anything but i grabbed a tampon in case. well when i got home that night i took the tampon out and there was only a penny sized amount of blood. i wasn't really all that worried about it because i bleed a little bit after sex >.< well yesterday i went to the bathroom and all was okay until later when i went to the bathroom and wiped there was some blood and it looked brown, and this time when i wiped again there was a little more and it only showed on the tissue two more times, so yet again i put in a tampon, i took it out this morning and there was some on it but not much and it was ALL brown, and then it stopped bleeding, but today when i went to the bathroom and i wiped there was pink blood again, and when i looked down into the toilet there was a little line of blood (you know when you go to the bathroom on your period and that little stream is on the bottom) so i have a tampon in now but i really want to know what this is. it's really bugging me, i'm sure it's not the whole implantation bleeding because im not really getting any other symptoms plus im on birth control, AND im sure its not breakthrough bleeding from the pill because ive been on it for over a year. any body know whats going on?
i apologize for it being so long. (link)
Hi i know whats goin on like when u are gettin ur period like the next week some of it comes out early its wird so dont worry bout it its totally normal:]


for me to be upset/mad about this?

This girl has had a crush on my boyfriend for many months now. On and off I suppose. :/ They both have a class together and both are friends. She was flirting with him a lot and started to bite him.

I find her kind of immature, she still acts like she's in 8th grade [she's a freshmen] She even bit my boyfriend when she was with some guy. She also bites two of my guy friends.

So the first time, She bit his arm and left a large purple circle. Also left some teeth marks near his hand. It bothered me I guess and he figured it out, so he said he would talk to her about it.

but today, I saw him with various bite marks on his hands, arms.. 2 large bruises on one shoulder and another on the other and a teeth marks on his back too. i don't think he's cheating on me. i trust him. i know he has no time for her out of school or i would have heard it from his mom. and, i have many friends at HIS school that would have told me any strange behavior, you know? it's just lately, she's been all over him in a nonchalant way.

and he doesn't know how to tell her to stop since they are like best friends.

since he doesnt know how to tell her, he's planning to ignore her..

but i doubt it will help.. so any advice for me?

i want to write her a message over like myspace or something, since i don't see her in person. what should i say? i'm afraid she will make me look like the bad guy :/ i'm not the type to say "Fu*k off" She can hug him and yeah, but biting/leaving hickeys.. is just as bad as kissing to me. it's almost worse.. because there's proof.. or maybe i'm just making a big deal out of this.


I kinda feel bad for getting mad about this. (link)
Hi well this girl sounds like a freak man I mean really she bites people whats wrong with her.Well I would tell this girl to back of your boy and to leave him alone or else.Good luck:]


My friend LOVES my b/f, literally. She walks up him(while i am around) and pushes me over and says "Hi Zach-y" and flirts with him. I have told her MULTIPLE MULTIPLE times that she needs to stop. Because now like when me and my b/f walk down the halls holding hands she runs up in between us and says "Hey Zach-y why are you and (my name) holding hands? You know that when you and her break up i am tottaly gonna go out with you!(then she blows him a kiss and skips away)"

Now i KNOW that he is not going out with her also.

When she talks to him like calls hime "Zach-y" he looks disgusted then stares at me like "why the F*ck are you friends with her???" he has recently started not sitting with me becuase of her. He has told me that he can't stand her and he tells me to tell her and i do. I am afriad that my friend is jepordizing my relationship(with an AMAZING guy)

WHAT DO I DO? (link)
Well so far your friend is really rude to me.And If your boyfriend loved you he would not flirting back with her.And as for your friend tell he to get her owen boyfriend.


hah, this has been puzzling me for quite some time ...and I figure, since a lot of people probably know more than me here..

okay, so...why is it...that everytime you THINK you get over a guy, and you say to yourself after waking up in the morning "I don't care about him...he means nothing to me..." Why is it that even though you say that to yourself..that icky feeling of jealousy is still left even if the guy gets a girlfriend...and even if you don't like him for his looks OR personality? How would YOU overcome this? :/ I'm like biting my hands here..lol (link)
I personaly hate this Im going this my self and there is no way to stop this trust me I tried and have you tried talking to this boy cus I got over a boy just by finding out how stuped he is lol.Good luck


15/f, I'm a sophomore..
I have this teacher for creative writing. He's like 32ish...and really mean and cold. It seems to me...as though he singles people out in his class. He picks on them and ignores them and is really hard on them. To others, he always laughs and makes jokes and makes them feel more comfortable. When I'm in that class, I'm dead scared. I'm a good student though...so grades really aren't a huge issue...However, I have noticed that generally the people he "doesn't like" tend to get B's on fairly simple assignments, whereas...people who did the same quality and amount of work of the SAME assignment, get A's. Like on essays and poems. I just don't understand...
He, himself is a very peevish guy. He doesn't care for anyone. And his voice is COOOOLLLDD and unwanting, you know? And it makes me scared and intimidated. :( What should I do? I can't get over this and it's been bothering me for the LONGEST time. And it's really creepy how his class is cold (as in, temperature) every day. Just like him. (link)
Hi if I where u I would give him a major attude and than id he dose anything else speak your mind.


When I straighten my hair, it can be perfectly straight. But I don't have time to straighten it every day. When I go to the hair dressers, it stays straight until I wash it. When I go to bed after straightening my hair, it kinks out at the bottom over night.

Is there any UK products that will help my hair stay straight so that I don't have to straighten it every day? (link)
Hi there is nothing that can keep you from doing your hiar everyday I have to do it everyday To i hate it but its worth it


I have a HUGE crush on this guy. We are both in high school, I'm a sophmore, but he's a freshman. Is that really wierd? Can a sophmore girl and a freshman boy date without being made fun of? Also, how do I tell if he likes me? (link)
Hi well if you like him and if he likes you you should go out and if other people have a problem and they are single tell them at least i have a boyfriend.And have you tried talking to him???


Hi, I really need help!!!I really like this guy but he is a year older than me... I've really wanted to tell him that i like him but im not sure how....Does anyone have any good ways like if i should text him or ask my friend to or something!!!Please help...Some people say i should keep it a secret but i dont want to so i need advice!!Thanks alot (link)
Hi i know how you feel.well the boy I used to like is a year older than me and I did not care to me years do not care I mean ya if he was 5 years older than no but 1 year is nothing.And also u should try talking to him and see if you where really made for eachother you know what I mean. Best of luck:]


okay so my bf is away on his military mission ans i had a homecoming dance while he was gone,i danced and stuff but by COMPLETE accident me and this kid kissed. my friend told me to to tell him;so i did on the phone(because he was still away).at first he wasnt mad,but then he called back later sayin he was pissed off about what i told him.and i havent heard from him in 2 weeks. hes comin home soon,my dad hates him and i dont know what to do.help me please. (link)
Hi well I have never been through this but I think I know how you feel.Hears what you should do.Try to explain to your boyfriend that it was an accedent and that you love him to death and that he should no that you would never cheat on him.As for your father he should no how you feel about this boy if you really do love him and try to show him that he is a good guy.Best of Luck




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