i cant over the fact that so many people in my grade have boyfriends and girlfriends. i am a freshhmen and there are girls in my grade going out with juniors. im not saying that i want that but i dont want think im so ugly. i dont know if there is anything i can change to maybe make myself more attractive or what to do :( please help!
I pride myself on not being easy like that, and you should too. You are beautiful, you are perfect just the way you are. Don't let anybody let you think any differently.
Don't change yourself, becasue you are who you are. If you change yourself, then people will get to know you for who you aren't and it'll be like living a lie. It's totally not worth it
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thelaura answered Sunday October 28 2007, 11:43 am: Noone should be made to feel ugly as everyone has their own type of beauty.
Hopefully soon, you will learn to appreciate what you have and make the most of it.
To make yourself feel better, pamper yourself. Get a new haircut/colour, makeup, do your nails, buy a new outfit etc etc. If you don't have the money to make those changes, simple things will help too, like run yourself a bubble bath, relax, apply face masks etc.
and remember things like eating and drinking healthily/exercising will help you along the way.
PS:
It doesn't matter if most people have boyfriends and girlfriends at your age. There's plenty of time for that. For now, focus on yourself/friends/school work.
Hope you're feeling better about yourself soon! [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
Heartfire1218 answered Sunday October 28 2007, 8:54 am: Hi I used to think the same as you and sometimes I still do. Your not ugli and im sure you have friends so why do you care about what other people are doing and just becuase a few people are goin out does not mean everyone is and dont call ur self ugli ur probally very Pritty. Good luck [ Heartfire1218's advice column | Ask Heartfire1218 A Question ]
hoji answered Sunday October 28 2007, 8:05 am: Keep yourself well groomed.
May not be able to change your looks but get everything you can going for you.
And stop thinking about that crap.
Have a saying in South Africa, "Vroeg Ryp, Vroeg Vrok", The sooner fruit is ready the sooner it'll go bad. [ hoji's advice column | Ask hoji A Question ]
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