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Love him or Hate him?!?!?!?!
OMG!!!!
Why are guys such A-holes!?!?!
Ok so I have this friend and we have dated previously and that was along time ago before I knew him and now I really do like him and I know he likes me its just that I feel used by him...Like he wont talk to me if he is talking to or hanging out with another or other girls and he like only talks to me when he isn't and tonight (Halloween) I was with him and he ditched me for another girl and yeah it just makes me mad...he acts like "oh I don't have anyone to flirt with so I'll just go hangout or call me!!!" and yeah he is one of those guys that treat you differently around his friends than when you are alone with him and as much as I wanna hate him I just can't because whenever I hear his voice of see him i just feel that attraction for him and I just don't know what to do about it and it just crushes me and tonight after I get home he calls me and he is all like "you sound sad or mad" and I was all like "well thats because I am" and he asks "well why is that?" and I was like " I have my reasons" and yeah Im still kinda pissed at him but I know I can't be mad at him for too long but it hurts me because he treats me like that...Please help me...
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Even though you like this guy a lot you need to ditch him. Or stop trying to get into a relationship with him. I don't even think he'd be that good of a friend though. He's a player and he's good at getting other girls to like him but he'll only break their hearts. Please be careful and don't let this guy hurt you.
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please dont let guys push you around. but also please dotn assume ALL guys are like that. guys might run off with another girl or treat you with disrespect around his friends. but girls also might be with you and then run and rather flirt with guys insted of hangout with you. dont assume that all guys are like that, PEOPLE just do things that hurt you, but you have to let them know thats not okay to do to you without blowing it out of porportion. the best way to do that is work on the old saying of "sleep on it" you might wake up feeling different.
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Boys are A- holes because they want the "popualrity" or "reputation" as we call it these days. Guys have this little "game" To be jerks around girls....well,EVERYBODY in fact.
I dont know whats up with them these days.
They're heartbreakers,and sweet talkers.
but about your situation....I think you shoudl really tell him the reason your mad. If you just say you have your "reasons" then there won't be anything settled.
You say now that you know him more, you like him?
Tell him everything. Everything you tell to your self, diary, or friends,tell him.
tell him if he wants you, he gots to treat you like he does.
Hope it works out!
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well guys are a-holes and they may only act like that just cuz they like you and mabe you should be all mad at him and if he tries to say hi to u ignore him and than if he askes whats wrong than you tell him whats wrong itll work. Gud Luck:]
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