Hey.
The name is Katie. I'm From Florida and I give good advice to everybody.
Even on a daily basis when I'm not noticing that I am.
it's very easy to give advice.....just think of something to solve a problem and there you go.
I'm in 8th grade...and my favorite coor is blue.
i'm a complete athlete.
i run,track,jog,jump,anything you can imagine i do.i love diet sodas...theyre "supposibly" NOT good for you,but those are some horrible myths.
Gender: Female
Location: Kissimmee,Florida
AIM: sheckergirl414@aol.com
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Member Since: October 25, 2007
Answers: 37
Last Update: December 11, 2007
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this boy chris and i liked eachother and i guess 2 or 3 weeks ago we told eachother. and then it kinda got weird bc he stopped talking to me after that. and then we began to talk again and then it just stopped. and its about 2 weeks later and i can't really tell if he still likes me or not. is there anyway i can find out without just asking him, and do you have any ideas of what i can talk about with him online( we dont go to the same schoool)
thanks:) (link)
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Hmmm.Well, you really haven't told me much about this chris boy, except that he told you he liked you.
Like, I wanna know what kind of people he hang out with. Is he a smarty, or Dorky?
But as much as I know him, I can tell you that if he likes you alot, then he will admit it. He won't talk to one day and then disappear for a week or two.
I don't mean to weigh you down on your courage, it's just he shouldn't be waiting so long to tell you how he feels.
There really is one solution to figure out if he likes you: Ask him. Get into a conversation about relationships and get involved with you two.
Also, talk about.... his family. how hes been doing. what hes doing. how good he's doing. just simple small talks to get a conversation going
Hope I gave you all the help you asked for. Goodluck.
Keep me in touch and let me know how everything goes.
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okay well theres this girl. and shes one of my best friends..like we used to talk on the phone like every day and know everything about eachother and stuff. now it kinda seems like were more distant and stuff. like we always used to invite eachother when we hung out with our other friends. but then today she invited our friend to lunch and the girl she invited was like texting me and she was like did ___ invite you to lunch? and i was like no.. what are you talking about? and we both thought that was weird bc ___ always invites me. i think shes just mad though bc me and the other girl hung out a few days ago without her. but then i texted her jokingly and was like way to invite me to lunch... and she was with our another one of our friends at the time (a different one than the first) and she was being kinda rude. i think she was just trying to show off in front of the other girl (which she does a lot). she seems to always try to put other ppl down and talk about them behind their backs.. usually to me bc im one of her closest friends. but i feel like she might do that to me too..maybe not as much but she definetly does sometimes. what should i do? (link)
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you say this girl is one of your bestfriends?
sorry to say, but reality check!!
if this girl is going to be a snob and talk bout you behind your back, invite other girls then you over to eat lunch with her, show off, then shes not even good enough to be a friend.
if you think its just jealousy, then talk to her... no bad will come from talking.
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Well first of all I have this boyfriend and I like him a lot and My friend (one of the people that kinda hooked us up) is friends with him but is always saying she hates him to me and yeah it kinda puts me down because I want my best friend to like my boyfriend...I just don't know and yeah I know I need to talk to her about this I just don't know what to say and how to say it...Because she gets mad really fast at small things and yeah I just need to know how I can tell her that I don't like it when she says things like that about my boyfriend I don't think she is very supportive of me...I think she might be jealous because she can't find a guy that will stay with her for more than a week...Please help me!!! Thanx!!!! (link)
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Friends are very supportive.
You've got to make sure she is willing to let her anger of your boyfriend go and be 100% with you in this relationship.
Bestfriends always help probmlems during relationships, and if shes not going to be there to help you pick up the mess... your going to have to clean it yourself.
The way you do it is during school, write her a letter saying " .....(the dots are where her name goes) I need to talk to you about something. My boyfriend. its serious now. are you jealous im with him?? sad cause i dont spend enough time with you???? mad cause i talk about him alot???
please, i need to know what the deal is between you and him to make you say mean things about him.Write back. Sincerely....(the dots is where you put your name....lol)"
it doesnt have to be exactly how i put it.
Tell me how everything works out.
*katie,.
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ok so i am dating this guy for the 3rd time adn i really really really like him!!!!! and everything has been great!!!!!! but just a couple of days ago we started to make out and ever since then he has been really rude to me and acting like a jerk adn canceling our plans at the last moment it is crazy
and i think he is thinking of breaking up but then hi s myspace is all i like i love her and never want to leave her and they are refering to me
so am i just jumping to conclusion???
help!!!!!!
softballbabe2610 (link)
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Answer: YES,you are jumping to conclusions.
If he was going to break up with you, he would have done that already.
it's easy as it's said, He likes you.
If he was acting like a jerk, there could be a family, friends, or anything problem... and he just taking it out on you cause he has no one else to lean his problems on.
stay with him and if things go rough, you got to stick through.
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OMG!!!!
Why are guys such A-holes!?!?!
Ok so I have this friend and we have dated previously and that was along time ago before I knew him and now I really do like him and I know he likes me its just that I feel used by him...Like he wont talk to me if he is talking to or hanging out with another or other girls and he like only talks to me when he isn't and tonight (Halloween) I was with him and he ditched me for another girl and yeah it just makes me mad...he acts like "oh I don't have anyone to flirt with so I'll just go hangout or call me!!!" and yeah he is one of those guys that treat you differently around his friends than when you are alone with him and as much as I wanna hate him I just can't because whenever I hear his voice of see him i just feel that attraction for him and I just don't know what to do about it and it just crushes me and tonight after I get home he calls me and he is all like "you sound sad or mad" and I was all like "well thats because I am" and he asks "well why is that?" and I was like " I have my reasons" and yeah Im still kinda pissed at him but I know I can't be mad at him for too long but it hurts me because he treats me like that...Please help me... (link)
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Boys are A- holes because they want the "popualrity" or "reputation" as we call it these days. Guys have this little "game" To be jerks around girls....well,EVERYBODY in fact.
I dont know whats up with them these days.
They're heartbreakers,and sweet talkers.
but about your situation....I think you shoudl really tell him the reason your mad. If you just say you have your "reasons" then there won't be anything settled.
You say now that you know him more, you like him?
Tell him everything. Everything you tell to your self, diary, or friends,tell him.
tell him if he wants you, he gots to treat you like he does.
Hope it works out!
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Ok my bgf and i r super close. We know each other so well and hes like i totally know everything about you and he does know me super well. Like better than anyone else. He just gets me. And everyone says we're perfect for each other. Even his MOM was joking about it. His whole family knows me even his sister and bro who r out of college and live away. He took me to his grandparents (formal) 50th anniversary and it was like this big thing and i was his date and he took me behind back and was like holding me and stuff. that was this summer.
and we've gone through a lot with each other. and at our church (where we mostly hang together) everyone there says we r perfect for each other and always have flirted with each other even when we were in relationships cause thats just how he and i r. now we have liked each other on and off but since the summer hes liked me and now says he likes me more than any girl he ever liked (and thats pretty big) and i kinda like him (im on and off haha) but i let him kiss me once and we hug and all that too. and flirt A LOT! anyway my main point is that he never says he cares or loves me but shows it and arent actions more important than just saying sumthing?
and second (main part)oh and btw he cant date yet so that why we arent dating tho yes confusingly he has been in other relationships. anyway im changing schools and we have a couple classes together (btw my teachers r on strike anyway so i havent been at school w/him lately) and i might even be moving. im not allowed to tell anyone i might be moving after this yr but im gonna change schools. how do you think he will react of both and what should i do about it and/or expect. the one thing about chaning schools that bums me (the only thing pretty much) is that i wont see him everyday and we wont have classes together and i would miss him so unbelievably if i moved half way across the country where i probably wouldnt see him for at least a really long time. our time together is so short right now but i cant tell him that but i wish i could somehow! help i want to tell him so we can spend this possible last yr being really close and hanging out a lot. since we dont that often esp. when we wont be in the same school. i know this is super long and im sorry and thnak u all so much for reading it and helping me and i will rate all helpful advice ;)!!!!
and ps i might go back and forth about him but i know i love him and care about him so much if that helps (link)
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I think the reason he is not telling you in words is because 1, He thinks you already know...Or 2,He doesn't know how you feel about him and he don't wanna make a fool infront of you.
Wow.
That's great his family enjoys you guys being "closse" and stuff.
what you have to do is ask him questions for if you do move.
example, "if i was to leave, would you wait for me?"...or "what would happen if we were to be seperated?"
you have you find out....!!!!!
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Ok so im 15 I've just got my bf well not my bf were getting to know each other, and he really likes me and i really like him . and my mom is very stricked, i cant do anything i cant go anywhere im always crying about this problem its like im stuck at hoome in a JAIL its so not cool. Anywho i also have this BRother i love him alot but his stricked too i meann i really like this guy i want to tell them about him because im always scared talkin to him on da fone because im scared i would get caught. i just dont know what to do im so confuseddddd! i just need help please give me advise . ]'= . and his my first bf well not bf but you know, ive never done anything bad in my life im a good girl i do what my parents tell me well at times, i learn very good idk what else to say i just have this hugeee problem, and he understands its gnna be hard for me, oh by the way this guy is like one of my friends EX and idk i dnt want her finding out too but i know sooner or later rumors r gnna start between us which makes me even more scared, i can not stop liking the guy i love him honestly. (link)
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Wow.
Your parents do sound pretty strict (well only your mother as much as I know), and there's always a solution to a problem.
What you need to do is sit your mom down and tell her you like this boy.
I did it too. I told her to meet the boy and if I didn't have her approval, that we would stay friends. I think that's what you should do.
Tell her he's not just a "guy", He's a... (talk about what he is) etc.
Just, try to get your mom to understand it's time to let you off the leash.
And as far as your brother, tell that boy to back off. If he's that strict,then he must not know one thing about you cause you say your a "good" girl.
And your crush's ex girlfriend can get over herself. Don't worry about her.
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I have liked this guy for a couple of years, and i resently found out he likes me! but this other guy likes me too! infact, he tells me he loves me! (atleast once a day) he is sweet but he can really get on my nerves, and i met him and he started telling me he loves me before i knew about my crush liking me. but now i don't know who to pick! my crush, or the guy who (constantly) tells me he loves me! (tho he doesn't say it to my face, he just texts it) AG!!!
~confused in the game of love (link)
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1st advice: A BOY WHO TEXTES YOU THAT HE LOVES YOU AND WON'T SAY TO YOUR FACE,THEN HE'S FULL OF HIMSELF. HE JUST WANTS YOU TO BELIEVE HIM AND FALL IN THE TRAP HE HAS FOR YOU.
2nd advice: GO for your crush.You've liked him for years and is not finding out he likes you too,well that's just perfect!!!!
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For the past month or two I have liked this guy. His name is Riley and he is very sweet. We talk all the time and we always flirt and joke around and compliment eachother. He always tells me how awesome I am and how he thinks I am one of the nicest girls ever and how I am alot of fun. I think he is really sweet, funny and understands me. He is a grade older than me and he goes to another school.
My best friend is really good friends with him so she talks to him alot. She found out he really likes me, but there is one problem. He also likes 4 other girls. Hes not sure who he likes more so he doesnt want a girlfriend right now cause he doesnt want to end up hurting anyone. Im not supposed to know any of this. Ive never told him straight out I like him but I want to. I was going to last night but I chickened out because I was afraid of being hurt. Should I tell him how I feel? Or try to move on and the girls at his school have him? Any ideas? Thanks (link)
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Oh goodness girl!!! NEVER give up on someone you like.
it takes time for someone to make their mind up. you never know, he may out of all them girls like you the most.
Do NOT let them girls at his school have hom unless he chooses to have them.
you can't just let go of something like that.
You've GOT TO tell him HOW YOU feel.
it's the only way you'll find out how he feels about you.
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Typical breakup syndrome. I was with this guy for 8 months, and he pops up at my house saying "I just need to know if there's something better." This was 2 months ago, and still i cry and sigh and love him. and i look his way and he's happy and bubbly and flirty. I'm not saying i'm depressed all the time, but at the end of the day, when i'm by myself, i can't help but think about him. We're still "friends" but i can't help but want more. Theres a part of me that says we're so perfect for each other and to hold on and another that says i should let him go. I just want him back. I want things to be good again. (link)
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Yep,your right.... TYPICAL.
If you really want things back to the way it was then you've got to talk to him.
Ask him if you can do anythig to make things better between you guys.
Ask for another chance,and if you lose that chance,then you'll go back to being friends.
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Ok so theres this guy, and i like him, and one day im sure that he likes me then another day it seems like he's not interested cuz like some days he always looks at me and i always unexpectadly see himmm in the hall at school, and stuff like that, and then another day hes looking at my friend and stuff, and im always hanging out with my friend, so i dont know if hes interested in me or her...i know this may sound selfish, but i really want him to like ME! im so confused because im getting mixed signals, and i really need help.
Thanxx (link)
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You have a few choices. You can talk to him and see who he's interested and if he says your friend tell him to stop leading you on.
Second, You can Come on to him really fast to make him notice you before he notices your friend.
Third, You can not hang out with your friend with one day and hang with someone else and if something changes then you'll know somethings up.
If he's sending you mixed signals then you've got to find out what the singals mean.
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hey people..
i need help with my makeup applying, when i put on my makeup i put on black eyeliner, then eyeshadow and mascara on the top and bottom lashes,and then concealer below the eyes where the bags are, but the problem is
1) when I get home from school its all smudged below my eyes and it looks completly horrible.
2) with all the concealer im always worried ill completly ruin my skin complection and that i look like a barbie doll
3) i dont want to look all fierce and stuff, i wanna look natural, but with makeup.
Do you have any ideas on how I can get my makeup not to smudge, and a way of applying makeup with still looking natural (step by step instrustions plz), but so it looks like im wearing makeup. (PS im blonde so nothing to fierce)
Thanxxxx!!! (link)
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1. All make up smears.Just bring a mirror to school to make sure that it don't smudge.
2.If you wash your face every night then it won't ruin nothing. I wear it all the time... my skin complection stays the same.
3.Buy your natural color. if you have blonde hair, use light blue eye liner and mascara. if you have dark hair, Use Black Shadowy eye liner and mascara.
Then find your color in concealer.
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I've heard that when you excersize, your period is off, and it makes sense (during sports of the school year, with practice everyday, when my period comes its light and only lasts 2 days...)
Anyways, I should be getting it Friday or Saturday, but I want it on Sunday at the earliest... So if I ran like 8 miles tomroow and saturday morning would it not come?
Plus I'm really athletic and good at running so don't advise against that pleasee
THANKSSS! (link)
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Your period comes when the time is.
You honestly can't change the day by running.
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Hello, i'm 14/f and i've been interested in finding someone in another country to talk to,like a pen pal~ What do you guys think i should do? How do i find people who want to talk to people in the United states? haha, thanksss. (link)
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A pen pal sounds like a great idea to me!!
The way you do it is to get on an online pen pal chat in the united states.
Google,or reasearch the topic PEN PAL CHAT ROOMS.
Wish you the best of luck!
(your welcomeee.)
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I’m 15/f and I’ve never had a boyfriend
My friend knows this guy at her school..who’s cute and tall and stuff…she says he’s my type…she talks to him at school…so it’s not like it’s a random guy
1.) She wants to get him with me but she doesn’t know what to say or how to bring me up..how can she do this??
2.) And if I do do this I would almost never get to see him…should I do this??..and i really want a boyfriend
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How can she do this:She can first start off with talking about hanging with her friends over the weekend and suddenly bring you up in the story from something silly or funny you did to make him wanna hear about you more.It's simple as it's said....talk about funny stuff.
He'll then more get interested and will probably want to meet this "funny,and silly" girl that yor friend talks about.
Long distance mostly never work....but it's worth taking a risk.You never know, he could be the one you've waited for all the years you haven't been taken.
its's not a shame that you are single and looking ,you've just not found the right one....and now is the chance.
GoodLuck to you two.
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i am more intrested in my guy friend (link)
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Then, I think you should get together with your guyfriend.
I know it sounds wrong but if you feel more for this "guy friend" as you say,then why hide your feelings?
exactly.
Choose who's best for you.
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Well you see, my school's Halloween dance is tomorrow, and I want to temporarily dye part of my hair a color, but I don't have any hair coloring spray, nor do I have the time to get some. I was wondering if coloring your hair with any type of marker/sharpie would damage your hair? I'm positive highlighter washes out, but is it really bad? I have black hair, so obviously nothing would show up well.... except a silver sharpie! Could a silver sharpie damage your hair also? Since it's a type of permanent marker? And would it be washable? I tried it before, but I washed it out sorta right away, I didn't leave it in long. If highlighters/sharpies don't work, is there any material(s) that a typical house would have, that could possibly be used to color my hair? Please be specific and detailed and stuff! :] (link)
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It won't damage your hair. just to let you know,if you use it once,it won't do nothing to your hair.
no a silver sharpie can't. it's just a marker...it's not gas...it's fine.
Yes, it would be washable.
finger paint would also work.
it won't ruin your hair and it will come out the minute you try rinsing it out.
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yeah but
i kinda like my guy friend (link)
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well you've got to choose which one your more intersted in.
it's not all that simple...but you've got to try
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ok i had youth group and this guy i went to elementary with was there. he is really cute. also this guy who goes to my school now(7thgrade) is kinda cute to. The problem is i already have a boyfriend.I dont think that i like him anymore.What should i do.
please hepl me soon!!!!! (link)
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Here's the help you need.
If you don't like your boyfriend...then you really shouldn't be with him. It wouldn't make sense if you are.
But yea,to work this thing out,you need to talk to both of the guys you like in private and find out their interests. it will help you decide which one to give a chance.
Good luck.
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I'm thinking about dying my hair a darker color, and well, I'm gonna probably get the box at wal-mart, and do it at home, cause I can't afford going to a salon. But I just wanted to ask, how exactly do you use this stuff? I'm sure it's tells you how, but I never understand directions on stuff.
and also, what if I don't like it? Can I wash it out right then? and do I hafe to use a special shampoo for "Color Treated Hair"
can someone give me a website for this, cause I have lots of questions before I want to do this.
Thanks alot! (link)
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Oh!!!
I am the perfect person to ask.
i've dyed my hair three times at home.
it's easy and non-scary.
first off,if you have blonde hair,then it will work out fine.
but were not talking about your hair getting lighter so you have nothing to worry about.
1.If You don't like it,then your either going to have to wait till your roots grow in,or dye it the next week...so your hair folecules wont die out.
2.no your can't wash it out then,it stains your roots.
3.you may use any shampoo you would like.
4. just ask me anything....i'm most likely a pro at this stuff.
ok there will be two bottles in the box,take the darker one and put it in the white one...shake it up real good.
put it all in your hair. try not to miss any spots.
when finished with that,leave it in for no longer then a half hour.
and wash it out.
There you go!
is that all you need???
Goodluck...hope it turns out right.
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