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Friend or Foe?!?!? Is she really supportive??
Well first of all I have this boyfriend and I like him a lot and My friend (one of the people that kinda hooked us up) is friends with him but is always saying she hates him to me and yeah it kinda puts me down because I want my best friend to like my boyfriend...I just don't know and yeah I know I need to talk to her about this I just don't know what to say and how to say it...Because she gets mad really fast at small things and yeah I just need to know how I can tell her that I don't like it when she says things like that about my boyfriend I don't think she is very supportive of me...I think she might be jealous because she can't find a guy that will stay with her for more than a week...Please help me!!! Thanx!!!!
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Friends are very supportive.
You've got to make sure she is willing to let her anger of your boyfriend go and be 100% with you in this relationship.
Bestfriends always help probmlems during relationships, and if shes not going to be there to help you pick up the mess... your going to have to clean it yourself.
The way you do it is during school, write her a letter saying " .....(the dots are where her name goes) I need to talk to you about something. My boyfriend. its serious now. are you jealous im with him?? sad cause i dont spend enough time with you???? mad cause i talk about him alot???
please, i need to know what the deal is between you and him to make you say mean things about him.Write back. Sincerely....(the dots is where you put your name....lol)"
it doesnt have to be exactly how i put it.
Tell me how everything works out.
*katie,.
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Okay well if she gets really mad easily dont tell her you think she is jealous, just tell her "You're my bestfriend and I really like this boy and I want you to be supportive of my decision of being with him because right now I dont think you do"
and maybe you should reconsider being bestfriends with someone who isnt supportive of your decisions.
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