Typical breakup syndrome. I was with this guy for 8 months, and he pops up at my house saying "I just need to know if there's something better." This was 2 months ago, and still i cry and sigh and love him. and i look his way and he's happy and bubbly and flirty. I'm not saying i'm depressed all the time, but at the end of the day, when i'm by myself, i can't help but think about him. We're still "friends" but i can't help but want more. Theres a part of me that says we're so perfect for each other and to hold on and another that says i should let him go. I just want him back. I want things to be good again.
kmarie answered Saturday October 27 2007, 3:15 pm: "I just need to know if there's something BETTER?" Don't settle for someone who wonders if there is something better out there, you will always have doubts about his love (even if you don't think that you would). Reach out and look out. There is someone better out there for YOU! You deserve only the best, and this person is not that person that looks out for your best interests. [ kmarie's advice column | Ask kmarie A Question ]
lovefalls8 answered Saturday October 27 2007, 1:39 pm: Yep,your right.... TYPICAL.
If you really want things back to the way it was then you've got to talk to him.
Ask him if you can do anythig to make things better between you guys.
Ask for another chance,and if you lose that chance,then you'll go back to being friends. [ lovefalls8's advice column | Ask lovefalls8 A Question ]
christina answered Saturday October 27 2007, 1:38 pm: Ask him if he's found what he's looking for in the past two months. If he hasn't, ask him if there's a chance of you guys getting back together.
If there isn't, let him go. You can't waste your time worrying about some guy & getting all depressed because he dumped you. Yeah, breakups are hard & so is getting over someone, but it's usually for the best. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
Heretohelp14 answered Saturday October 27 2007, 1:34 pm: dear bad breakup,
Dont waste your time waiting for him to want you. ITs not worth it, you could do so much better. Gather up a group of friends, buy a new outfit, get your hair and nails done and go out and meet new people. The only way to forget about him is to find someone better. [ Heretohelp14's advice column | Ask Heretohelp14 A Question ]
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