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best friendddds?
okay well theres this girl. and shes one of my best friends..like we used to talk on the phone like every day and know everything about eachother and stuff. now it kinda seems like were more distant and stuff. like we always used to invite eachother when we hung out with our other friends. but then today she invited our friend to lunch and the girl she invited was like texting me and she was like did ___ invite you to lunch? and i was like no.. what are you talking about? and we both thought that was weird bc ___ always invites me. i think shes just mad though bc me and the other girl hung out a few days ago without her. but then i texted her jokingly and was like way to invite me to lunch... and she was with our another one of our friends at the time (a different one than the first) and she was being kinda rude. i think she was just trying to show off in front of the other girl (which she does a lot). she seems to always try to put other ppl down and talk about them behind their backs.. usually to me bc im one of her closest friends. but i feel like she might do that to me too..maybe not as much but she definetly does sometimes. what should i do?
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you say this girl is one of your bestfriends?
sorry to say, but reality check!!
if this girl is going to be a snob and talk bout you behind your back, invite other girls then you over to eat lunch with her, show off, then shes not even good enough to be a friend.
if you think its just jealousy, then talk to her... no bad will come from talking.
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Well, chances are if she puts folks down to you, she will likely do it about you to others. Some folks can't help but be a gossip.
As for your friendship changing, you should talk to her about it. Maybe she is just branching out her group of friends.
Or it is possible that you are drifting apart. That does happen sometimes. But you will never know if you don't get it out of her.
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