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What should i do about him?
Ok my bgf and i r super close. We know each other so well and hes like i totally know everything about you and he does know me super well. Like better than anyone else. He just gets me. And everyone says we're perfect for each other. Even his MOM was joking about it. His whole family knows me even his sister and bro who r out of college and live away. He took me to his grandparents (formal) 50th anniversary and it was like this big thing and i was his date and he took me behind back and was like holding me and stuff. that was this summer.
and we've gone through a lot with each other. and at our church (where we mostly hang together) everyone there says we r perfect for each other and always have flirted with each other even when we were in relationships cause thats just how he and i r. now we have liked each other on and off but since the summer hes liked me and now says he likes me more than any girl he ever liked (and thats pretty big) and i kinda like him (im on and off haha) but i let him kiss me once and we hug and all that too. and flirt A LOT! anyway my main point is that he never says he cares or loves me but shows it and arent actions more important than just saying sumthing?
and second (main part)oh and btw he cant date yet so that why we arent dating tho yes confusingly he has been in other relationships. anyway im changing schools and we have a couple classes together (btw my teachers r on strike anyway so i havent been at school w/him lately) and i might even be moving. im not allowed to tell anyone i might be moving after this yr but im gonna change schools. how do you think he will react of both and what should i do about it and/or expect. the one thing about chaning schools that bums me (the only thing pretty much) is that i wont see him everyday and we wont have classes together and i would miss him so unbelievably if i moved half way across the country where i probably wouldnt see him for at least a really long time. our time together is so short right now but i cant tell him that but i wish i could somehow! help i want to tell him so we can spend this possible last yr being really close and hanging out a lot. since we dont that often esp. when we wont be in the same school. i know this is super long and im sorry and thnak u all so much for reading it and helping me and i will rate all helpful advice ;)!!!!
and ps i might go back and forth about him but i know i love him and care about him so much if that helps
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I think the reason he is not telling you in words is because 1, He thinks you already know...Or 2,He doesn't know how you feel about him and he don't wanna make a fool infront of you.
Wow.
That's great his family enjoys you guys being "closse" and stuff.
what you have to do is ask him questions for if you do move.
example, "if i was to leave, would you wait for me?"...or "what would happen if we were to be seperated?"
you have you find out....!!!!!
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I think this guy really does have feelings for you, he just might not know how to tell you. Even though he's been in other relationships, he may have more feelings for you than any other girl he's actually dated. So that makes it harder for him to tell you.
Here's where I'm having trouble at though, if he can't date you, then why could he date all those other girls? It doesn't add up. He may be using that as an excuse to not date you because he's afraid of ruining things with you, since the two of you are so close. However, that really isn't a good way to go about it.
Since you may be moving, I think it's time to try to get all of this figure out and squared away. That way, you know what's going on and if something is going to happen or not, for right now. I think you should talk to him about all of this, and let him know how you really feel. It could make a huge difference. And then, you can see where things are going between the two of you.
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