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hii-- 14/m i just got a new girlfriend about a week ago and everything is going great...the only thing is that im very outgoing and she is shy soo im not really getting any hints to go further or anything...if your shy, what do you do when you want ur gf/bf to go further? any tips on how to treat her so i dont make her uncomfy or something? (link)
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if shes shy, she doesnt want to do anything. and if all your looking for is ass, get a new girl. because she wont give it to you. trust me. unless you date her for like 6-12 months first, you wont get anything, and i doubt you would want to wait that long. also.. if she does by any small chance want to take it a step further, you'll know by if she starts opening up towards you and acting less shy and more comftorbal with you. but shy girls like guys who dont want ass, but they like touchy feely things like always grab her hand and waiste. stuff like that. it makes the girl feel like you like her a lot, and she might open up to you more.
k, goodluck (:
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16/f
This is kinda long.. I'm 16 and i'm dating a 19 yr old. He has a baby thats 3 and his babys mom pregnant again... Now they live together but he says nothing is going on. And she got pregnant while me and him were broken up. We have been together a year on and off.. And I completely love this boy and i've tried to let him go but its so hard. Within the first month i found out he was dating another girl but they never saw each other so i didnt care and then the first time we broke up he started messing with this girl and hes cheated on me a hundred times with her but now he says they're done for good. but i'm not too sure if i believe him.. this is a mess what do i do.. and if you think i should break up with him please tell me how to get over him and just know that i see him a lot its my brothers best friend
THANKs
Lynzi (link)
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wow, theres soo many things wrong with that statement, i dont even know where to begin. firsst off, why the hell is your man livin with another women? what the hell, girl? AND its his babys mama!? uhuh., no. why you lettin that fly? dont even say its because he wants to be with his kid.. ever heard of visitation? second... what makes you think your boyfriends not gettin it on at night wit his babys mama when they live togetha. especially when you know she pregnant!! and he lives with her!! and you KNOW he cheated before, and it was when you guys were broken up. so there you go. but 2 and 2 togetha girl, she pregnant wit yoa mans baby. uhuh., no. hun, i know you love him and its hard to hear this, but if you guys have only been goin out for a year, and hes fucked up that many times already, it aint gunna last. think about ur future, and dont lie to yourself. you know yous wont be togetha wit a family 10 yrs from now. AND he addmitted to cheatin in the first month. whether dey saw eachother or not, how you gunna just say you dont care and let that go? how you gunna let a man treat you like that? the more hes seein that your lettin it slide, the more hes gunna do it to YOU because he knows he'll get away wit it. now your sayin he cheated on you a hundred times and now hes sayin its done for good. i bet you believed that the other 100 times, didnt you? what makes you think this times really gunna be different? girl, check yaself. look at you. you must be a mess. ya need to let him go. you know you should. but you holdin yourself back for what you think is love. fact- theres always someone better than the last. wheather you believe it or not, its true. and i know itll be hard. you just have to comletely let go of him. this worked for me.- i threw away and shreded all of my memories of my exboyfriend, and when i see him, i look the other way. thats what you gotta do. pretend he doesnt exist and forget everything. it took me a year to get over mine and its tough., i know. but when i finally realized i didnt need him anymore and i threw all the shit away, it felt so good. and i found someone 46327364 times better. (= does your brother know his best friends treatin you this way? maybe you should fill him in. i know my brother wouldnt let that go by ;) anyways... you dont need him, i have faith in you. and all the girls goin through this. just let it go (=
good luck hun, and i hope i helped
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hey i'm 14 years old / female.
I'm around 5,0 not even probably.
I weigh 102 lbs. =|
anyways to shed off some weight!!
don't tell me i'm freaking skinny.
i'm not.
so give me some advice i can use. (link)
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okay ill give you some advice if it makes you feel better, but first i wanna say....
your crazy hun. if you seriously think your fat when you're that short and only 102 lbs when your 14, you need help, not a diet. my freshmen year, i weighed 153 and i was 5'3" and i was NOT fat, and you may think i'm lying about my weight, but im dead serious.
anyways. get your metabalism going. eat 6 meals a day, drink as much water as you can (HUGE HELP) and 50 crunches everynight. DO NOT SKIP ON THE CRUNCHES. you will just gain the weight right back. your meals should not be fastfood (: and try to cut down on junk as much as possible. (:
and you're not fat sweetie (:
i know that for a fact :D
hope i helped
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Im a junior in high school and the friend ill be talking to you about is a freshman. I dont know why i should care about her but i really do because were friends. Were into the same stuff in school so i talk to her alot. Shes dating this one guy, and i know him, hes really a nice guy and they seem to really like eachother. But she tells me her parents dont let her see him. I have to admit that breaks my heart. Its innocent love and i think its sweet. I know i really cant do anything so please dont tell me that. Theyre always texting, video chatting, talking on the phone, and meeting up anywhere local they can, its quite sad actually. But they are just so happy together, and it really shows me what love is.I feel bad she cant see him though. Would you have any advice for her? Maybe i could talk to her about it (link)
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reminds me of myself when i was younger.. i started dating seriously very young. my parents always let me hang out with guys because they didnt realize how serious it was, they thought it was just puppy love. but when they found out what i had been doing, they became overprotective. so i stopped dating for a while and i learned my lesson. but when i found this one boy who i really loved my freshmen year, there was nothing i could do except for tell my mother how much i loved him, or i wouldnt be able to see him at all. so i sat her down and really had a deep talk with her about how i seriously learned my lesson from the last 2 guys, and i trust myself, and i respect myself, and she needs to give me a break and trust me. i told her to give it a chance, and to my surprise, she did! i think your friend may have to half a long talk with her parents and just use the right words and be completely honest. i know how it feels to be in her shoes and to have to feel like your hiding something. her parents would most likely be much happier if she was open with them, and they might realize that she is mature enough to date.
hope i helped (:
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hey. well i keep hearing this song on the raido, but have yet to figure out what it is! it is a guy singing and these are certain things i could pick out. it goes something like "stop and stare, everyone gets scared" and "do you see what i see". please help!! thanks! (link)
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it's called stop & stare
by one republic
next time you need to know a song, just type some of the lyrics into google search and it usually comes up.
hope i helped
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well today i've been really dizzy and shakey. my eyes will barely focus and i have such a bad head ache. my mom wants to take me to the doctor, and i'm okay with that. it's just saturday i took a SMALL hit of weed.
do i have anything to be worried about? will the doctor be able to tell? (link)
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The doctor probly won't be able to tell.. If you did it saturday, that was a while ago and you have nothing to worry about. But if the doctor can't figure out what's wrong with you, they might take your blood, which isn't good cuz then they'll be able to tell... But, your sickness might be because of weed, unless that wasn't the first or second time you've done it. You also might want to try and get more sleep. That always helps ;)
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Okay well there is this boy that I am in love with.Also he liked me last year and we where really getting along and we where like best friends and I was loveing it.So when this new girl comes he starts likeing her and is being mean to me and acting really strange.But than summer came and I was getting over him untill the first day of school I fell for him again And I have no clue why its scareing me I really want to get over him and I want this girl gone.So please help me. (link)
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Ah omg this happened to me too! I was finally just about to get back with my exboyfriend of 2 years after we've been broken up for 6 months. I was soooo excited, but then this girl comes to my school from all the way across the country and ruins everything. God its so annoying I just wish the girl would go back to where she came from and I bet that's how you feel too.
Well, you have two options. First, you can eather get over him or make him jelous.
To get over him, you have to totally completely forget about him. You may think it's impossible, but you can do it! Don't even LOOK at this boy!! The second you do, you'll fall back in love with him. You have to get yourself a new guy that is so cute that will make you wonder why you even liked the other guy. That will deffinately help you get over him.
To make him jelous, it's hard, but possible. When you see him in school or whatever, pretend you don't know he's there. Hold your head up high and walk right by. Try hooking up with one of his friends. Even someone older or cuter that's not his friend will make him jelous. Most importantly, act like you don't care. If it seems he's rubbing him and this new girl in your face, he's trying to make you jelous. So, just pretend it doesn't bother you. That will make him mad. Give him what he don't want!!!
I hope I helped!! Good luck hun :)
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For the past month or two I have liked this guy. His name is Riley and he is very sweet. We talk all the time and we always flirt and joke around and compliment eachother. He always tells me how awesome I am and how he thinks I am one of the nicest girls ever and how I am alot of fun. I think he is really sweet, funny and understands me. He is a grade older than me and he goes to another school.
My best friend is really good friends with him so she talks to him alot. She found out he really likes me, but there is one problem. He also likes 4 other girls. Hes not sure who he likes more so he doesnt want a girlfriend right now cause he doesnt want to end up hurting anyone. Im not supposed to know any of this. Ive never told him straight out I like him but I want to. I was going to last night but I chickened out because I was afraid of being hurt. Should I tell him how I feel? Or try to move on and the girls at his school have him? Any ideas? Thanks (link)
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Okay, this has happened to me too. I was talking to an older boy who also liked 3 other girls. His idea was to hang out with all of us and kind of just keep it nuetral for about a month, and then he would finally decide who he really likes. The truth is, nothing good comes out of these kinds of situations. 4 girls are going to get hurt no matter who he chooses. BUT, if you keep it at a simple crush, and not become crazy over him, things will turn out fine weather he picks you or not, because if you don't like him that much, you won't get hurt. I know this because when it happened to me, I was not the girl he chose, and while he was "testing us out" for a month, I became crazy for him. If I didn't, I wouldn't have ended up so hurt in the end. So I think you should just tell him you like him, and keep it at that, see what happens, but don't get too crazy over him. The minute you think her REALLY likes you, he screws you over for someone else... So just be careful ;)
I hope I helped
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Okay.. ive been sneaking out at night, don't give me the you never should blahh blahh blahh because I already did it I don't need to be hearing the same thing everyone else it.
Okay well when I sneak out I go to Erics house, were not going out we just make-out.. this week his parents were out've town and he wanted to go a lille farther and I told him no.
Well that was like wensday.. I went there thruday and he stuck his hand up my skirt and I flipped out on his telling him if I wasn't ready last night I wont be the next one.. well friday(tonight)was over too and everybody kept looking at me like I was on something and then my friend Kim whispered to me saying I shouldntve come becuase everyone knows I had sexx with Eric the other night. Im like what!!! I stood right up off the couch and was like wtf is that Eric I told you I wasn't ready so you just tell everyone I had sex with you! And I slapped him.. everyone was baffeled and I told everyon what a lieing sack of shit he was. Im walking out when he grabbed my arm(which still hurts) and he started screaming at me saying stuff like I shouldnt lie and that im a slut and if I knew any better to go to his room right now I started crying because hes sqeezing my arm really tight screaming in my face and Matt and David started shuving him around saying he shouldnt ever touch a girl never like that and David walked me home. He said he thought Eric was all full of it and apoligized for his rudeness.Well I hugged him and went inside. Well i was on AIM like 5 hours ago and Eric starting Iming my telling me that he was sorry and when I started yelling so did he. He started threatening me so I sent David the conversation and like an hour later Matt told me David went back to his house and beat the living shit outa him.. so when I talked to him he said it wasnt right what he was saying so I was like so u beat him up?? and he was like yupp. So we started talking and we brought up going out (which were not *at the moment*) and he said that if we ever did go out that he wouldn't go that fast and if he did even kiss me he wouldn't bragg. and Im like ur just my bigg protector!! and im now like in love with him!! So I wanna ask himout and were going Mini-golfing Sundayy and I wanna ask him out then HOW and ahh Im soo happy and pissed becuase ive been answering people questions about never having sex with that pig and everything so how should I do it? And i hurd a lil bitt ago that Eric might show up to 'get back at David' ahh what do I doo?? (link)
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okayy. firstly. stay away from eric!!!! seriously. i know someone who started off just like you and in the end, he abbused her. and he does sound abbusive, especially like what he did to your arm. davids right.. guys should NEVER under any surcumstances touch a girl like that. and they really shouldnt be forcing you to do things with him. you did the right thing by yelling at him. and smaking him! good for you..! most girls i know would just keep doing what they were doing, which is completely stupid. you should DEFFINATELY date this kid david.. he's nice, respectfull, and mature. dont ask him out though, it kinda makes girls sound obbsessive which guys find unattractive. i think you should just really flirt with him and then he'll probly ask you out.
dont worry about eric going to beat david up. chances are, david will kick his ass lol. if he did it once, chances are, he'll do it again. plus, eric probly wont show up. he probly is just trying to show off. and hes probly jelous of david. dont worry (:
hope i helpedd
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13/F
Last year i was dating this boy and it wasnt really normal. At first i didnt like him and we both said a lot of stuf f behind eachothers backs that we didnt find out about until after we broke upand it hurt both of us. He was my first kiss and we were adorable together. But thats over. And hes turned into a bit of a whore. I mean, hes had like 10 girlfriends since we broke up a little bit before the summer.
But that dosent matter. Ive been kind of getting over everything since then, just because i really dnt wnt to get into somthing else with someone else and still like my ex. But now im missing being such a flirt, and having lovey dovey conversations. How do i get back into that? I miss having exciting stories to tell my friends and having a sweet text always waiting for me on my phone. Is it healthy to be that attatched to a boy? I mean i want what i had with my ex.it was kind of serous but we had fun. It was so serous that we said maybe wed get married. We were talking 24/7. But that takes a while to get over. Now im totally staying away from the guys. I dont know WHY tho, i was never shy before.. Please help! (link)
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i have the same exact issue, wow i really didnt think anyone else would know how i feel but you do!. the thing is, your scared to be in a relashionship. you dont want to happen what happened to you before. your doing the right thing right now though, just stay away. it seems to me you need a break. stop thinking about your ex! the worst thing you could do is think about him, dont even look at him. because once you think your over him, you see his face one more time and your in love with him again. so stay away from him!. but i wouldnt worry about getting into a relashionship too much. you should back away from boys like you are, and wait for a boy to come to you. the ones that come to you and try really hard to get you are the right ones. if you just wait, it will happen when it's least expected.. and things will be right back to normal.
no worryss ;)
hope i helped
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i'm 15/f...there's this guy in my 2nd period and he's ALWAYS flirting with mee..like he won't stop...but then agian he flirts with every girl...but he flirts with me the most..he grabs my sides...or tickle me..and talks to me alott...he has'nt asked me if i'm single of not yet...i can't tell if he likes me or if i'm a girl he likes to flirts with.. (link)
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Idk, this ones kinda hard. If he's flirting with every girl in the class (even if he does flirt with you the most) my first thought would be to stay away. Those types of boys are never good. They're the ones that are usually looking for girls to mess around with. But, you never know.. Just watch out and be carefull as for right now.
I hope I helped (:
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ok so im 15 n the guys 17...lets call him D and my ex-bf A...so I've known D for the past couple of years...we go by the same bus to school...i'm in the ninth grade and he's in the eleventh and we never used to talk a lot in the beginning cuz he used to talk to another girl on the bus a LOT*. But she left for australia in a few months and since this june he's been acting really nice to me so here's the first part of my question:
would you say he likes me:
- firstly he never talked to me before and now suddenly he's being ultra-sweet to me and sitting right next to me on the bus
- he really tries to make comversation...i mean im pretty quiet in the mornings but he keeps trying to get me to open up...he almost never gives up.
- he teases me kinda playfully about me being so quiet and pretends to forget my name all the time (he doesn't but he's just doing it to tease me) and he laughs a lot when i'm with him.
- one of the guys on my bus tried to spread a rumour about me and another guy in my grade to D but D took no notice of it and when I told him not to listen to it he heard me out and never brought it up again.
- also when the bus reaches school he always lets me walk ahead and holds doors open and stuff which i find amaaaaaaazingly cute cuz teenage guys dont really do that in our school...
now A is my boyfriend for the past three months...it turns out that A and D know each other pretty well and D thinks that A's a good guy...so D found out frm sumwhere that me n A wer going out and asked me about it and i kinda brushed it off...we dont really talk about it and at that time me n A wer going pretty strong...but now we're all broken up for the past two weeks...D hasn't heard about it yet but I'm beginning to realise i really really like him no matter how inappropriate it is to go out with someone two weeks after your break up...i really like him. so here's my second part of the question: is it too slutty too flirt with D now?
also all this while i've been really cutesy with D in a quiet sort of way...but i want to show him how loud i am around my frnds so i thought of walking past him with my friends while he was at the basketball court since i wouldnt be artificial or anything with my friends and more importantly i want mostly guys to answer this part of the question but any tips from experienced girls will also be helpful (link)
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Yeahh this kid DEFFINATELY likes you. the only thing is... Im a freshmen too, and I go for the juniors too ;) haha and I know how juniors can be... Especially if hes friends with your ex., im just saying be carefull. You have to let this kid know you like him some how.. And when I flirt with a guy, I usually dont touch them lol so im sorry but I cant help you with that part. And no thats not slutty lol if you really truely like him, go for it
Hope I helped :)
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ok people on myspace, are like, putting people in there interests and they'll be like,
"bestfriends, movies, mall, skating, etc."
is that how you spell ETC? or is it ECT?
i spell it 'ect' but i think thats wrong.
helppppp. (link)
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Lol it's etc... I know that for a fact because I recently had a class discussion about it. I know it makes no sense, it should be ect. But its not lol its deffinately etc
Hope I helped :)
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Im captain of my JV cheer squad and me and the co-captains were going to get our team together to do something nice for the varisty girls, because they are competing in a few weeks. We were thinking like some little chocolates with a message attached to them..but we wanted something really creative..like a candy bar that could kind of compare with like good luck or something sweet. Any ideas? Thanks! :] (link)
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Hey :) I cheer varsity at my school and we do this type of thing for the football players every game. What we do is have the captains go out and buy small purple(or whatever your color is) bags and a bag of candy that has all different kinds of candy in it. Then, we go to one of the captains house and we bake brownies and then decorate them. Then we just put them in the little bags and put some candy in each one. Everyone on the team also writes a small goodluck note to one player (not saying names) and we put one in each bag. Its a fun activity that we look forward to every friday and it helps our team bond.
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I have a problem. I really like guys, but I'm too quiet and don't know how to flirt. Even my religion teacher noticed I'm more quiet than usual. My problem is I'm too self contious of embarrasing myself in front of the guy. Not knowing anything about flirting doesn't help. Like, how do I catch his eye? And how do I keep his focus? A helpful hint is that I go to a school where we have to wear uniforms. Hair accessories are however allowed. Thanks!!!! (link)
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Okay. First of all. The most important thing you need is confidence. Somehow, you have to gain it. I love boys too and I am a huge flirt.. Sometimes I get nervous when flirting with someone I really look or who is older or popular. The thing that I keep in mind that really helps me is I think to myself, "whats the worst that could possibly happen?" Usually, nothing. If you start to flirt with a boy and they dont like you, you can tell right away.. Just give a smile and turn away.
As far as catching a boys eye. You need to know that boys could care less of what you wear or how you wear your hair. They do not like girls who wear a lot of makeup. I know that for a fact. To be honest with you.. Boys are usually looking for the "hot" girls. If your not their deffinition of "hot", dont worry. Haha, theres still a lot of hope. When you walk by them, say hi with a smile and be super nice. Keep your head up, have good posture, etc. Most importantly, go up to them and try to talk to them. Make sure your smiling a lot though. Guys never like the depressed chicks.a cute outfit or pretty hair wont get you noticed for sure. Its your personality. Take my advice. Ive had many experience.. Trust me.
Hope I helped, goodluck!!! :)
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Okay so ill give u sum background.. me and this guy we'll say his name is tyler dated for 5 months. I fell so in love with him at the beginning of the relationship then he was different later on in the relationship and all we ever did was fight and argue and he was insecure so he was really protective and would freak out if another guy talked or texted me. So then we finally broke up. We broke up almost a week ago. Well, we still talk and he wants to be with me but thinks he messed up too bad. most of the time when we talk he acts like im still his girlfriend or like im his property and goes around threating people. He irritates me soo much but I cant seem to get over him and when he mentions his chick friends it drives me crazy and makes me sort of jealous. When other guys ask me out and things i feel like im cheating. How do I get over him? So i can move on with my life?? (link)
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Hmm this is tough. I have the same problem with getting over my ex. Its been 8 months sense we've been broken up and everyday that goes by, I miss him more. The only difference is, I want my ex back. I think what you really need is a really good boyfriend thats fun, there for you and who gives you your space. Tell "tyler" that you still do like him, but you cant go on with him because it never works out between the two of you so you need to move on. Trust me, its not worth it if all you do is fight, your waisting time. There are so many boys out there waiting for you that could be the best thing in your world. Having a better boyfriend than "tyler" will most likely make you realize how much of a jerk he really is now that you know what a good boyfriend is. That will probably help you get over him.
Ughhh. Stupid boysss! They're nothing but problems. Haha
Hope I helped, good luck ;)
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