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13/F
Last year i was dating this boy and it wasnt really normal. At first i didnt like him and we both said a lot of stuf f behind eachothers backs that we didnt find out about until after we broke upand it hurt both of us. He was my first kiss and we were adorable together. But thats over. And hes turned into a bit of a whore. I mean, hes had like 10 girlfriends since we broke up a little bit before the summer.
But that dosent matter. Ive been kind of getting over everything since then, just because i really dnt wnt to get into somthing else with someone else and still like my ex. But now im missing being such a flirt, and having lovey dovey conversations. How do i get back into that? I miss having exciting stories to tell my friends and having a sweet text always waiting for me on my phone. Is it healthy to be that attatched to a boy? I mean i want what i had with my ex.it was kind of serous but we had fun. It was so serous that we said maybe wed get married. We were talking 24/7. But that takes a while to get over. Now im totally staying away from the guys. I dont know WHY tho, i was never shy before.. Please help!
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i have the same exact issue, wow i really didnt think anyone else would know how i feel but you do!. the thing is, your scared to be in a relashionship. you dont want to happen what happened to you before. your doing the right thing right now though, just stay away. it seems to me you need a break. stop thinking about your ex! the worst thing you could do is think about him, dont even look at him. because once you think your over him, you see his face one more time and your in love with him again. so stay away from him!. but i wouldnt worry about getting into a relashionship too much. you should back away from boys like you are, and wait for a boy to come to you. the ones that come to you and try really hard to get you are the right ones. if you just wait, it will happen when it's least expected.. and things will be right back to normal.
no worryss ;)
hope i helped<3
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yeah i have been through this, and to be completely honest, it is hard to get over an ex, and to get back to lovey dovey. but, the time will come, and you cant rush it. when you see someone you truely loove and like and really want to go out with them, thats when it all happens! thats when you make a move and start being all lovey dovey again, dont worry the time will come (:, hope i helped and gooood luck (:
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