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hey everyone[: im emily, im thirteen + i love giving advice. drama, gossip, and rumors suuuck. if you ask me a question i will give you an honest good answer not a crappy bad one. if you dont like that, then dont ask me question. im on this site to give accurate good answers to help people. ive been on this site for a little over 2 years. if you dont get an answer you are looking for from another person, AIM me, im sure to help you, or just leave me a question.

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tonight is suposed to be a party night. its Purim.

but my parents are all like, its 10 o'clock you cant go out. which i understand.

but im in such a party mood!
and ideas on what i could do to still do somthing fun even though im stuck at home?

thanx so much!

hAAY, i celebrate Purim too! Luckyduck!

im not going anywhere either.
maybe invite some friends over to yer house instead, have a party of yer own! (:

hope i helped!

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okay so i just got a new tracfone, and ive had a dif one for awhile so i know how they work and stuff but i just got the camera one b/c my other one is a brick...anyway, i keep turning it on and off and it gives me this message saying: SIM card rejected. i tried to take the sim card out and re-put it in a few times but it still does the same thing. and it wont let me get to the menu or anything. im at a loss. i called customer service and they told me that i just needed to take the sim card out and put it in again and hung up but it didnt work and i called again and they said the same thing. so yea, has this ever happened to anyone? and how do you fix it?
thanks for any help :)

bring it to yer local cellphone carrier store, the carrier yer cellphone is networked with. they will either replace it, or fix it for you. they might even let you pick out a new phone! (;

good luck +
hope i helped!

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okay so one day this guy txted me out of the blue and weve been txting each other everyday ever since and he says hes 13 likes soccer like me and it seems like we have alot in common but weve never actually met in person or even talked on the phone just txting but dont know how to tell if hes telling the truth or not and i really want to meet him in person but what if hes not who he says he is thanx ahead of time 13/f

just like the person below me said, its an internet predator, someone along those lines. dont go meet him, its NOT safe.

good luck + hope i helped. (:

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alright, i had my period like 2-3 weeks ago. and i dont normally get it again til after a whole month. well, yesterday i thought i got it because i was bleeding, and i used a tampon & the only thing that had blood on it was the string? .. and today im not bleeding at all. im so confused.
Does anyone know whats wrong with me!?!
please helppppp!
thanksss

well, if your period isnt regular, + regular is hwen you have had for at least 2 years, roughly, when i first got my period, it happened. i was always getting it at weird times + when i wasnt expecting, nothing is wrong with you, your period just isnt regular yet.

ive had mine for 2 years now, + now that doesnt happen.

good luck + hope i helped! (:

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I'm wanting to shave my private hairs, but I'm wondering if there's a certain way you're supposed to do it or if you have any suggestions on how to.

there isnt really a "correct" way, just to be careful + after you do it, your vagina might be a little itchy + you might get a little razor burn, but nothing too serious.

good luck!

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does blow drying your hair cause split ends?
i know straightening does but im not too sure about blow dryingg.

yeah, it does. its heat, anything that comes in contact with your hair, thats heat of course, does cause split ends. i cut my hair every 2-3 months to get rid of split ends so my hair is much more healthy.

straightening is much worse, since you are actually putting it on yer hair.

hope i helped!

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Hello, I was wondering if any of you knew of the code to like hide your comments on myspace, but still keep the add comment link or the view all/add comment link.

Also, good places to get like myspace quotes, photography, and graphics. I've already searched tinypic and photobucket.


Direct links would be great!

Thanks so much!

people have layout sites on myspace, you can add them as friends. usually when you go to look at their layouts, or comment boxes, or whatever, you'll usually see MYSPACE codes, and there will be a whole list of them. such as:

hide song
hide friends
hide comments and friends
hide links
hide online now
hide blogs

you know where im getting at.

hope i helped! :D
emily
xoxoxo

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how can you tell if a guy is a player? thanks

well, they will go out for a girl for a few days and then find another girl RIGHT AFTER and go out with her for a few days, and it repeats. they'll ask to see things from you, and they wont thank you for it. it basically means "your just another girl that im gonna play."

good luck

+ hope i helped.

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What should I do when Im babysitting tonight? theres a boy age 11 and a girl age 7 she wants to like build a fort with blankets....
What games should we play and stuff?

whenever i babysit, i play their favorite games. ask them what they are. for me, the girl's usually love dress up. the boy might just do his own thing. dont force him to play with you. also, if you know how to cook, make them your favorite thing, and have them help you. watch their favorite show with them.

good luck!

hope i helped! [:

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i want a cell for my birthday. what are some cheap but cool phones for cingular or now they changed it to at&t??

thanx. :]

i have the pantech smart phone. its gone done a lot since november, which is when i had gotten it. its a slider phone, with a QWERTY keyboard.

look into that one.
www.cingular.com

hope i helped.
emily

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I use to be very talktaive and now I haven't have alot to say and not much open I use to be. I don't like to gosspic and repeats things and don't like scarism. sorry I am bad speller. but i do miss talk about stuff.. I mean i read magazines and watch tv and news. try to read jokes but some times I don't know if i am saying right things sometimes. there any sites I go to help or someone give me some tips?

that happens to everyone, dont worry, your not the only one! i think your best bet is to start talking about simple things, if you like a certain show, tell them about it! make it interesting! join a club, it will give you many opportunities to start your opinions and talk things through with your club.

i hope i helped!
emily, xoxoxo

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I like this guy named david, he is 2 years older than me, the first time i met him was in 3rd grade,i am in 7th grade and i'm 13, he is in 9th grade and he is 14, i have never really talked to him before, but for some odd reason i have liked him forever, my friends think i should make the first move, but im afraid he doesnt like me, how should i make the first move, or should i let him do it?

go for it girlfraaand! make a move! start texting him, talking to him, he will find out what a great girl you are. dont pretend to be anything your not, that will only make things worse. i know, its hard when you like someone thats onlder than you because you are afraid that they'll like someone else in their grade, i know, ive been in that situation. there isnt really an age difference, which is VERY good.

i hope everything works out!
emily. xoxoxox

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Alright, about to spend Valentine's day alone
and i want a boyfriend
any ideas of personalities or looks i should look for
How do you tell if a guy likes but, is to shy to ask you out
What's a good way to flirt
Also, I have a Stalker
How do i let him down without being very rude

you dont NEED anything, especially when your talking about a boyfriend. it takes time to fall in love with a special person. it just cant happen like that. ive spent plenty valentine's day alone, its not that bad.

for the flirting issue, be outgoing, dont be so shy, ad kep everything in your littls shell, bring everything out, and talk to the kids you like, bt dont make it WICKED obnoxious.

hope i helped!

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1 month ago i went back to the philippines and i got closer to my cousins and when i came back in US we would chat everytime they go on yahoo messager and we would talk to each other a lot but now, one month later when they are on yahoo messager they dont IM me anymore, as in we have no communication that much as the time passes by whats going on here? did we lost in touch?

everyone looses touch. its normal + thats life. they love you, they are your family. give them a call? IM them first? catch up on what you've missed in the past month.

hope i helped.
emily

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17/f
I go to a private school in Los Angeles, Cali. There are a lot of people at my school who are very fashionable, but I don't know where they shop at and I really like the style.. It's not like forever21, alloy, delias, hollister, ae, etc.

It's stores like urban outfitters, LF boutique, and kitson. But what are some other boutiques/stores that are similar to those fashions? thanks

I ask people where they shop at and they say I don't know, etc.

well, whenever i can't find anything to wear and i'm in a rush, i throw on a long necklace, a headband, and a bracelet or two. some stores are, urban behavor, forever 21, and claires.. forever 21 hascvute clothing and they have jewlery there also. and occasionally they have shoes, but i wouldnt count on it. forever 21 isnt that expensive. look on the clearance racks first (; urban behavior has cute clothing, no jewlery. they have shirts you can buy for $2.00 and they are very fashionable. claires, just go for the jewlery, they dont sell clothes.

hope i helped(:
emily xoxoox.

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I want a phone that is'nt too expensive, at least decent looking, has a decent amount of minutes and texting or whatever..and does'nt rip you off on bills ect..

well, cinglar is good with connection and they have a few good phones, a few slide bar ones that i like, i have a Pantech Duo Smartphone that slides out with a keyboard, and i love it. if you are looking for a more variety and selection of phones, try verizon, the have a good selection of phones.

hope i helped!
emily.

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I have black hair, but it has dye in it right now so its pretty brown, especially in the sun. But, I want to get highlights, and usually I get my head capped, but she strips my hair color and thats what changes the color. I want to actually put colors in and such, so what do you suggest for my hair? Since naturally its dark, and no blonde streaks.. unless you can show me a picture where it looks good.. Because yeah, I was never into that (unless it looks pretty classy) Thanks!

well, i have brown hair, and i have blonde highlights, and they look amazing. just make sure you get the right blonde color for your hair colorr, if you decide on getting blonde. the hair stylists usually choose a good color for your hair. ive also heard that red would look fantastic. go to the hair salon and find out what they reccomend also.

hope i helped(:
emilyjessica

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my bf and i have been going out for 6 months im almost 15 hes 15 and hes a bit shy we make out but dont do much else he gets nervous especially when asked if i could see his penis he told me that its small i said not to worry it doesnt matter and uptil now he's still shy about me seeing his penis what else can i do se hes not insecure?

give him time. guys are like that sometimes. you need to get more comfortable with him and then talk to him about you seeing his penis. and if he really doesn't want to show you it, then you can't push him, you'd be a bad girlfriend(; make him feel comfortable around you, act yourself, joke around him, and remind him that there is nothing to be nervous about, its you, your his girlfriend, and you know you wouldnt make fun of him.

i hope this helped! (:

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So theres this guy that treats me like shit. i seriously try to be sooooo nice to him and i usually am. but he never reconizes it. I always have to text him first and call him first. and when i dont he doesnt do anything i tried not being the first to text,call etc. And he didnt seem to care. Im trying to get away from him, but its so hard. I know it sounds stupid like if i was an outsider looking in on the situation id be like leave him now. but i cant its so hard. any tips on how to leave someone and walk away before i get really hurt? thanks!

im in the same situation RIGHT NOW. i know its very hard, and people always tell me to just leave him, and its so hard, they dont understand, and you can;t expect them to. maybe you should try not texting him anymore, don't call him anymore, just dislocate yourself from him. find other friends to hang out with, find another guy to crush on(; if you wait longer, he's just going to hurt you even more.

hope i helpeeed

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I need some new ways to put on my eyeliner! As of right now, I just put it below my eye (above the lashes) and on my eyelid right by my top eyelashes. I like to make it as black and thick as possible. :]

So what tips do you have to spice up my eye makeup? Please, nothing complicated. All I have is black brown & gray stick eyeliner, black & brown liquid eyeliner, and black eyeshadow.

you could make a "wing" off the corner of your eye, or maybe even not making it so thick. maybe get different colored eyeliner + different colored eyeshadow to match eachother so it looks blended, i do that and it looks fantastic!

hope i helped
emily, xoxox.

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