Question Posted Wednesday February 13 2008, 4:17 am
1 month ago i went back to the philippines and i got closer to my cousins and when i came back in US we would chat everytime they go on yahoo messager and we would talk to each other a lot but now, one month later when they are on yahoo messager they dont IM me anymore, as in we have no communication that much as the time passes by whats going on here? did we lost in touch?
emilyjessica0x answered Wednesday February 13 2008, 4:48 pm: everyone looses touch. its normal + thats life. they love you, they are your family. give them a call? IM them first? catch up on what you've missed in the past month.
ciao77 answered Wednesday February 13 2008, 12:40 pm: People tend to lose touch with distance. It does not mean that your cousins do not care about you or do not want to talk to you. All it means is that the distance- and the fact that you are no longer in the Philippines-has caused you to temporarily lose contact.
I think that you should try IM-ing them the next time you are on Yahoo messenger, I'm sure they will be so happy to chat with you. Otherwise, try to email or call them, and make sure to make it a point that you would really love to keep in touch from now on.
Don't worry, the same thing happens to me and my cousins overseas. You just have to make more of an effort to keep in touch..try calling once in a while, and email them. I am sure that they want to talk to you, as much as you want to talk to them. [ ciao77's advice column | Ask ciao77 A Question ]
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