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do you hairspray hair first before curling it (link)
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In my opioin it's totally up to you. When I curl my hair though, I usually do it after I curl it, because i'ts most likely to stay better. But when you do it before, your hair is hard and it might be hard curling it.\
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so when i was little i remember i used to watch this episode / video of mickey & minnie .. it wasn't cartoon .. they were real people and it was for christmas .. and like there was an iceskater and she was completely in silver and really icy looking .. thats really the only part i remember but i feel like it was at disneyland? obviously during christmastime. can anyone please tell me if they know what im talking about? it is probably from around 1996 or 1997 .. maybe a little before that .. please let me know! that was like the only video that really got me in the spirit of christmas :) (link)
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I think that it is "Mickey's Once Upon a Christmas" This movie has several differnet titles but this is the title that comes up on my t.v.
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what is the most effective way of not getting pregnant besides the pill or abstinence?
17/female (link)
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Use a condom. Like the other person said if you take the pill and use a condom your beter off!
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I've searched everywhere on the net maybe just not enough
i really want the move The Cookout i can't find it anywhere would anyone know any sites that it has that movie ? & for free aswell please. (link)
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Like you want it on d.v.d or your i-pod
If you want it on your i-pod like the other girl said limewire might have it and maybe check itunes
If you want it on d.v.d. maybe go to a local blockbuster or any video store and ask around
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Ok this is a weird question and no im not a germaphobe im just worried. ok i was ont the bus today and this chick got on and was really sick. i sat there for a little bit at the edge of the seat then she said she was going to get sick so i moved back a seat for the rest of the way. and when i moved i breathed into my sweatshirt and when i got home i washed my hands a lot took of my sweatshirt and i keep washing my hands. ok so here's my question am i at a huge risk of getting whatever she had. i had getting the flu i'm terrified of it and i have homcoming saturday so please tell me if i have a huge chance or not. sorry i know it'w a weird question but i'm just excited for homecoming and don't want to get sick. thanks a ton (link)
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No, you dont have to worry. If you moved a seat back,took of your sweatshirt, AND wached your hands several times...theres no way that you can get what she got
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my used to be bff and me are having a fight. so in choir there is a thing called solo and ensemble and we've been working on our ensemble song with alot of hard work! i don't even play the piano and it took me 3 days to find out the rythm and it took ALOT of hard work!! seriously!!!! btw i'm 12 years old. well anyways so the day before the solo and ensemble contract was due (after my choir period which is 4th) she says "ummm i'm not gonna do an ensemble anymore i'm just gonna do a solo!!" btw she BRAGS ALOT on how good she sings cause when she slept over at my house she sang a song and i said "you sounded like christina aguilara!!!" and now she tells everyone she sounds like her!! and she forces it out when she sings so it doesn't sound that good!!! ANYWAYS...so i got pissed and i walked to 5th per. myself! and then after school i walked to my bus myself!!! and today this morning i walked to my 1st per. MYSELF!! and then at lunch (since we sit at the same table) we didn't even look at eachother! and she is really getting on my nerves!! and whenever we had fights i was always the one that had to bring us back together and i'm SICK OF IT!!! so then after school today i saw one of my friends' so i said " hi darian!!" she said "hi!!!" and we walked togther then i can see my ex bff looking at me trying to catch upto her "Friend" and said "hi!!" really loud!!! and then i walked to my bus!!! and also she never says sorry to me when she hurts my feelings!! like one day she was like "you need to take anger managment!!" but i really don't cause she just went on and on about how i am such a bad person so i said "okay!!!" and she was like "your so pissy today!! your always moody!!" im not cause it's just her!!!
well she is just annoying!!! UGH!!! (link)
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Ok, so what is your question..? Like how to get along or what..?
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OK so I dont have my period but last wensday (for the first time ever) when I went to the bathroom I salw a little bit of blood in my underwear (not much, just a litte). I don't know what it is, and I dont think its discharge. It might be but I'm not sure. What do you think this is? Could it be my period (it only hapened once)? (link)
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Yeah, I agree with the other person..it probably is just your period because discharge is ususally a whitish color..not red
When you first start out you will get just little drops every now and mthen..then when you get older.it will start flowing faster meaning you'll get more blood. Talk to you mom about it and see what she says!
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Even though I didn't want her to and offered to marry her and pay for everything, my girlfriend went to a clinic today and took the abortion pill (RU-486). We are unofficially living in the same dorm room at college, and I am scared by what's going to happen now with the baby and her hormones and everything, esp. since we share the same living space. She won't tell me anything about what's going to happen now that she's taken the pill, or anything. How can I be the best boyfriend to her and not freak out over what's going to happen? Also, is it too late to keep on trying to talk her out of doing what she's either done or is about to do? (link)
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Well, my best advice that I can give you is to always listen to what she says, and always care. If you two get into a fight, you're gonna have to learn to agree with it as best as possible. Now, to help not to freak out..that is entirely up to you. And always remember to listen to her.
If you would like you can still try to talk to her ,if she doesnt respond, that's not your fault, you have tried all that you can do...
Oh, and to find more about abortion pills you can go to google and type in "abortion pill" and you can learn more info.
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is it true that teenage guys (around 16-17) get semi-hard or totally hard every 90minutes??
i was discussing this with a kid in class, i know great classroom conversation. well anyway he was saying he was half hard and it happens every 90 minutes but i thought that happened when they were like 13-15....not 16/17 (link)
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No, it depends on the guy. Some guys get harder easier than others. Like the other person said..he was probably just saying it for attention from you.
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the way i masturbate i rub my vagina against a chair and i achieve an orgasm that way. usually when i have like a pad on it helps with the orgasm alot. am i making my vagina less tighter, am i making the hole wider? (link)
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No, it shouldn't
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so is it normal to have like discharge on your panties on a normal basis?
mine used to be like whiteish.
but now its like brownish? what is that?!?! (link)
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OK, like the other person said...if you are still younger..it is most likly that you will starting your period soon. But if you know for a fact that you have already had it..then it might be a yeast infection. If it contuines tell an older sibling or tell your guardian. I am sure that they will understand and take you to the doctors.
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I want to know where I can buy Cupless Lingerie. Online or Specific Stores. thank you (link)
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I think you can get some at Victoria Secret!!
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I posted a question about a month ago wondering if I was pregnant or not. I was close to missing my period and had taken two pregnancy tests and both were negative. But two days later my period came. It switched back and forth being heavy and light for 4 days which is pretty normal for me. I took another test after my period and it was also negative. It is now coming time for another period and I am still feeling like its possible that I'm pregnant. Are my nerves just getting to me? or is it possible at all? (link)
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I would have to agree with everyone else.
If you have had your period 3 times, and took pregnancy tests then I doubt your pregnant.
It's probably just your nerves.
Unless, you really want to know for sure, then go to the doctor then take one of there's, there usually 99.9% right!
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I'm a 17 y/o guy, and have really bad hormones. I'm always horny and never seem to find a way to stop being horny. I masturbate a lot...daily in fact. Watch porn daily as well. I have a hard time with girls because of it. I feel its because i want the feeling of being loved... I'm not close to any girls, so being friends with benefits is not really possible. what should i do? and how should i go about venting? how could i get a friend with benefits? (link)
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It's a phase your going through.
Everybody ages 11-19 goes through phases like it..so your normal.
And you don't really to have a "friend" with benefits because I had one and they get jealous really easy..and there's a bunch of drama.
Just keep doing..what your doing and eventuality you'll grow out of it!
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I don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend had sex over a month ago, we used a condom and everything but my period HASN'T COME...and I've never panicked this much about this before. Usually when it's late it's about a week late and everything but this is just too long.
We probably had sex the VERY end of june... and then all month july with no period. Now it's august 10th and I STILL havent gotten it.
We used protection and everything though, so I don't know if something happened, like the condom didn't break open or anything.
IT;s not even like the sex lasted THAT LONG ya know? so I don't understand... like I don't get why its so late.
Could I be pregnant?
I'm extremely worried.
What signs would I be getting if I were a month pregnant?
Please help me... I'm so scared.
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Well, I know one thing..sex can't delay your period..so like everyone else said buy a pregnancy test just in case. If it comes up Negative...then usually your not but if it comes up positive then I would go see a doctor and try one of there's..just in case!
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hi my vagina is itchy like a lot. Its not itchy 24/7, but it itches quite a lot. I also have a whiteish discharge, not all the time but sometimes. Could i have a yeast infection? Or something else? (link)
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Sorry, but it probably is.
SO I suggest going to the doctor to be sure.
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I'm 16/f and I guess I'm just kind of confused about love. I learned in my psychology class that the psychological definition of love is passion+intimacy+commitment (passion meaning sexual attraction and romantic feelings, intimacy meaning being close and feeling close to someone, and commitment meaning wanting to be there forever and making that clear to the other person).
All of that said, I have a boyfriend who I have been with for two years. We've talked about love and about what we feel for each other. Neither one of us are completely in love with each other (because no matter how close we get, I'm still insecure and I still don't feel close and no matter how much he cares about me and wants to stay with me, he finds it hard to believe that we will last forever since we are only sixteen). Both of us want to be in love, but we just aren't. It's highly frustrating for me, because it always feels just out of my reach.
As for why I don't feel close, I think it's because I have been in love before - full, complete love. His name was Eric and he was my best friend. He didn't see me in a romantic way, though. So, I had to settle with hanging out with him alone all day, talking to him on the phone with him all night, and never actually dating him. This also was annoying - until he stopped being my best friend to go do drugs. Then what we had before started to seem like a dream come true. I now long for the days when I had someone who I truly felt close to.
I want that again, but I don't know how to go about feeling closer to my boyfriend. Also, I don't know how to make him feel committed when he thinks we are too young.
Thanks. =)
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Well, what you can do to fell closer to your boyfriend is to sit down with him.. and talk like every once in awhile and talk about your relationship..and stuff like that.
And to make him feel that you guys are actually committed you might have to wait awhile because that's what he believes and you can but it not likely to change his mind..Sorry
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What age should you start having sex? I really just have to know because I'm afraid I might do it too early or too late. Thanks for the time. (link)
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Well, there isnt exactly a "age restriction" on having sex. It's when you feel you can spend your ENTIRE life with them. And you both love each other till death.
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do vaginas smell bad? (link)
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No, vagina's usual dont smell bad. If you wash down there, and do it correctly, it shouldnt.
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Okay, people told me that I could be pregnant by giving my boyfriend a handjob, and then an hour later I fingered myself like after he was gone. So someone told me I could be pregnant, but I also heard the sperm cells like die or something. Anyway I'm like freaking out. I guess I'm going to buy a pregnancy test, but I'm so embarrased to just go to the store and buy one. (link)
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OK, well, I doubt that your pregnant because unless his sperm "meets" your vagina...then there is no way that you can be pregnant.And when you finger yourself that cant you pregnant either because not sperm "meets" your vagina.
And if your embarrassed to go buy a pregnany test..
you could maybe have someone else go get you one..
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