Hello my name is Diamond, I am currently a third year psychology major. My passion in life is to be of aid to mankind in any way possible which why I aspire to become a Psychologist no matter what it takes. I find complete and utter joy in helping others through giving them advice or by simply being an open ear for someone you just need to talk to or express your feelings to. I love to make others happy in anyway possible, it brings joy to my heart like nothing in this world. I have given advice to a large amount of people, usually people I barley know. The people I meet tend to open up to me and share their feelings and/or problems whether big or small. I have been the ears for many people who just want someone to talk to,when they feel no one else is there to listen or atleast cares enough to hear what they have to say. I have been a shoulder to cry on and I must say it is very fulfilling to have people see this sort of security and comfort in me. I am open to any questions, I am open to listen to anyone that is feeling alone or scared, I care about everyone in this world even if I have yet to meet them, I know that every human being is special,unique, and beautiful in their own way and I just want to be there for anyone who doesn't know or believe this. I want to install the importance of positive thinking into everyone I encounter in my lifetime. I am even here for those who aren't going through any particular hardship but just wants advice. Advice is always good because it is always good to have a second persons opinion to weigh your options and decisions even if you choose to use the advice or not. I am looking forward to your questions,conversations, or anything you would like. I am just a message/ e-mail away. Please do not hesitate to contact me. You will never be ignored or simply forgotten about.
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I was just wondering what would be the best method of protection during intercourse to not get pregnant. My question only deals with preventing pregnancy, my boyfriend and I have been checked and are healthy and clean. The only thing is we both are not a huge fan of condoms. And i dont like the idea of something being lodged inside me as a disk or something. So I was thinking maybe I should try 'the pill'. But i'm not sure how effective it is and am not positive where to get it. And I do not want to ask my doctor to prescribe birth control pills. (link)
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Hello, so sorry for the late response, have been really busy lately. Hope I can still be of aid to you. Taking the pill is a great idea, its very effective and safe to use. I would recommend however that if you do decide to use the pill that you make sure that you refrain from sex when you have missed or skipped a pill or two. Skipping pills alters your hormone levels and can cause a release of an egg and will therefore increase the porbability for pregnancy. Another recommendation I would like to provide is to use the pull out method if possible with your boyfriend whenever possible to further decrease the probability of pregnancy as well..that way there is a slim to none chance of you getting pregnant because no egg is being released(if you have not skipped any pills) and there is no sperm to fertilize an egg. The pull out method isnt mandatory but is just a suggestion if you would like to take extra precaution. Unfortunately the only method to getting birth control pills is to ask your doctor for a prescription and possibly going to a local planned parenthood for cheaper prices than a pharmacy.Here is the link to Planned Parenthood if you would like to take a look at it (http://www.plannedparenthood.org/). I know it can be awkard to ask your doctor for a prescription of birth control pills and having your parents know you are having sex can also be a challenge but in the long run asking for the pills will be more worth it than getting pregnant. If you are not able to ask your doctor for a prescription than I would say try to make the best of using condoms by using a variety of them(ribbed,his and her pleasure, twisted pleasure, flavored) just to change things up. You can also try using the pull out method, but I must admit it is fairly risky because the precum that a guy secretes before orgasm can also cause pregnancy. I am not sure which options are best in your situation, but I hope I helped, you can send me a private message at anytime if you need further guidance for whichever option you choose. :)goodluck!
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OK, so im 17 years old female. So i dont know if i cum or not. Iv heard that like it squirts out when you orgasm, but that never happens. I also dont know why i dont squirt, or have really amazing orgasms. Is it cause you only squirt from having a g-spot orgasm, cause i only do clit. And my orgasms are ok, but its not like intense like i hear its suppose to be. And when i am rubbing it feels ok, but sometimes i just cant get into it and the orgasm is ok. Am i doing something wrong? How do i make myself squirt (cum) and make my orgasms intense? thanks (link)
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Hello,well orgasms are different for every female, and just to clarify, squirting during an orgasm is not particularly common. A small percentage of women squirt when they cum, its just the way there body reacts to orgasm , its not that it feels any better when a women squirts when they cum, its just a different method. When you cum, you simply have a bit more vaginal secretion. So when a women gets aroused, she usually has some vaginal secretion which gets her wet and prepared for sex. During an orgasm, slightly more of this secretion is present, it doesnt have to be a large gush of secretion, it can be slight and barely even noticeable. All in all, if you reach orgasm, you usualy do cum, it just appears different from women to women so dont worry about that. As far as intense orgasms go, things like porn and the way sex is displayed on television portrays orgasms to be more intense than they actually are just to grab the audiences attention. Yes orgasms feel good, but the intensisty varies from person to person and depending on the situation. If a women is very aroused before orgasm then her orgasm may be more intense and it also depends on the method in which a women reaches orgasm. If the orgasms arent feeling that great for you then maybe you should try something a bit new. Such as some girls clitorises arent as sensitive to touch as they should be and may need more pressure in certain areas. You can try to find a particular area that is really sensitive and rub in that area. You can also try fingering yourself while rubbing your clitoris for extra pleasure or just rub certain parts of your body to excite yourself even more. And no you are not doing anything wrong, its all about getting to know your body and what feels right for you. So explore and try different things and you will figure out what pleases you the most.Hope this helped, goodluck with everything, feel free to send me a message anytime. :)
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Heyy i am a varsity cheerleader for my school and my coach is yelling at us to turn our hips out. I really don't kno wat that means. Like my jumps have been good and all and i just need help. Is there any easy way to help me turn them out?? Also could you help me to get my jumps higher too??? My toe touch is high but i would want it to be higher. Is there anyway to help me?? Thanks you!! (link)
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Hello, when your coach says turn your hips out she means just that, although it can be hard to picture and conceptualize when you are trying to focus on so many other things like keeping your legs far apart..not too high and not too low and trying to get enough height in your jump. I had the same problem when I was on the dance team, and did not understand what that meant, but after dancing for awhile I finally understand. So here is how you learn to turn your hips out, sit down on the floor and spread your legs out as if you were about to stretch, you will notice that when your legs are out on each side of you that your knees are facing up, you want to try to move your kneesso that they are facing back as far as possible till you see the side of your knee and the underside of your leg. As you are using the muscles in your legs to move your knees backwards you will notice that you also have to move your hips slightly as well, this is what she means by turn your hips out. So when you are in the air you want your legs to be just as they are on the floor in the position that you are in with your knees facing backwards. If you stretch like this on a daily basis and practice moving your knee facing backwards you will learn how to do it in the air as well, once you are concsious of this positon while your are sitting and stretching you will be able to hit this exact postion in the air with alittle practice. Practice makes perfect after all. Make sure to stretch and do splits every day to maintain your flexibility since that is key in not only toe touches but cheerleading as a whole. In regards to getting your toe touch higher, once you dont have to worry about your flexibility and turning your hips out you can focus on your toe touches height. For the height of the toe touch you basically want to give yourself a steady, quick and sharp prep time. The key to a high jump is getting low and steady enough right before the jump becuase that is what pushes you upwards to give you the height. So the more steady and low you are the higher and overall better your toe touch will be. Once you keep practicing it will become second nature. When you have alot to think about in regards to a toe touch things can get a tad confusing but once you put everything into perspective and practice you will have your toe touches down in no time. I hope this helped, it can be difficult to describe a type of stretching for in a way that another person understands it, so here is a link to the type of straddle stretch I am referring to (http://cdn-www.expertvillage.com/showImage.aspx?site=21&fn=gymnastics-stretches-straddle.jpg). If you would like me to clarifiy anything else, I would be happy to help, just send me another message:)..goodluck with everything
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recently, me and my friend been distant with each other. We kept on arguing and somewhat we had issues that was never solved, so yesterday i tried talking it out with her, we had an argument yesterday and things were just falling apart for both us, i had to say sorry how i was being self-centered and things i didn't want to admit how i was wrong about, also that i told her how she meant a lot to me. Everything went fine and we're back to being friends again, but if i did not say sorry about those things our friendship would have changed.
The thing about it is, that i feel powerless,vulnerable and weak because i admited and said sorry about how i was acting towards her, everything is fine now but im crying about it because somehow it hurts me when i should be happy that me and my friend fixed the problem. I feel like sh*t right now and i dont know why, i feel like i gave her the power and the satisfaction and i dont know why i feel this way, why i do feel this way? is it pride?
I feel like i shouldnt have sorry but i really needed to, i dont understand why i feel all this.
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Hello, I think you may feel really upset over all of this instead of happy because you arent use to feeling vulnerable. Vulnerablity and powerlessness are very intense feelings and can be even more intense when you are not use to it. You should first know that you did the right thing by apologizing to your friend because you would have lost that person if you didnt. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone has to apologize for them at some point if they want to make things right, and it took alot for you to do this but it in the end was all worht it. In regards to the relationship you have with a friend, no one has more power than another,atleast it shouldnt be that way or it wouldnt be a real friendship, it would just be one person overpowering and putting down another. So know that both of you have equal power in this relationship and that you didnt subdue any power, if anything you strengthened the relationship you had with your friend by apologizing. As for feeling vulnerable, you will get over this sad feeling in awhile, its just something you have to get used to feeling, in time you will feel happy again that you and your friend have mended the relationship and it will all move forward from there. You can try to take that powlerless feeling and make it feel more empowering by telling yourself that you did the right thing, that you had the power within yourself to say sorry and admit that you were wrong, that you helped to save your friendship, and that you are in a relationship were there is equal power. I hope this helped, if you would like me to clarify anything or answer any furhter questions about this situation or any other situation dont hesitiate to send me another message, and remember there is absoluteley nothing wrong with feeling vulnerable, it is simply a human emotion that can sometimes not be avoided but eventually you will get through this and it will be a thing of the past.:..Goodluck with everything :)
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Me and my bf have been together for a while and we would like to have sex soon...and that's where the story starts...
A year ago,we were in a relationship for 8 months...but then he let me down and I was really dying inside but I didn't let it show.it's a long story really.Now,a year has passed and the old flame has started burning,for both him and me...he really changed and is treating me right...but because I was hurting the way I did,I always think he doesn't love me and wants to use me...even though he never tried anything without my permission...I love him a lot and I wanna give in to my desire but I'm so afraid of him leaving me when he gets what he wants.We have talked about this a lot and he told me a million times he's not like that (which I believe because he had a lot of chances which he didn't take because he knew I'd be hurt by his actions)but still I can't get myself to trust him,but I know I love him.I'm scared of being hurt.Why am I feeling like this? (link)
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Hello, the way you are feeling is totally expected and understandable, you have every right to be slightly paranoid because he gave you a reason to make you think that way unfortunately. So now in your brain it is hard wired to associate those negative feelings he made you feel with him. The good thing is that you are discussing it with him so that he will know why exactly it is that you are slightly afraid to have sex with him, so he knows how upset he made you. I think by you discussing this with him he can understand just how upset his actions made you and if he cares enough about you he will know not to do it again as to salvage your feelings. I have been in this situation before in which it took me a long time to trust my current boyfriend of 1 year to not leave me or hurt me but eventually after time passed he showed me that I had nothing to worry about through his actions and the way he cared for me. I honestly think It will take time for you to be comfortable and trust him again because even though what he did happened in the past it still stuck with you because it hurt you so much. My advice would be to wait it out until you feel comfortable with him and begin to trust him again before you have sex, because it is going to take some time. Another route would be if you feel like he has showed you enough to where you believe he loves you with all his heart and wouldn't dare hurt you again, you should give him a chance and have sex with him, if he seems worthy enough you should because everyone deserves a second chance when they have proved that they have learned their lesson at least. Having sex with him might even strengthen your relationship, because first of all it would bring you closer physically and emotionally, and after you guys have sex when you are still together and he hasn't hurt you it will take all those negative thoughts of him just using you away. You can go with any route I discussed, just do what feels right for you and whatever makes you happy and comfortable. I hope this helped, and if you need any further advice on any of the routes you chose to take or what to do after you have made your decision please don't hesitate to contact me :)..Good luck with everything I'm sure everything will work out for the best!
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I was just wondering, what do you think about girls that are taller than their boyfriends? Do they look ridiculous?...I'm not sure what to believe and this problem pretty much affects my love/dating life as it wasn't only once when i've never given guys s thought for being shorter than me. I'm 5'9" (aka 175cm ).
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Hello, honestly height should not be something you are worried about when choosing a mate. This occurence of people thinking that its weird for a girl to be taller than their male counterpart is just a socially created stigma. Unfortunatley a stigma that effects a woman and even a mans choice in a mate, this only serves to limit the options for men and women to find their significant other. You dont want this to be the determing factor in choosing a mate, you could be missing out on a great guy due to this. The worse that could happen is the two of you may get a few stares every now and then from people but that isnt so bad, as long as you are happy, what people think does not matter at all....make your happiness a priority, if you find a shorter guy that meets or even exceeds your standards you should go for it, but if you feel being stared at a few times by the public will make you uncomfortable then try to find a guy your height or taller because I know social pre;ssures can cause you to be just as unhappy..do whatever makes you comfortable and content. I hope this helped, if you need further advice I would be happy to help..goodluck with everything you will find the right guy..he's out there :)
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ok so people are talking about cumming! And whn thy say this they are like well u cum hen I'm having sex or what not and I have no idea what it is. I know it's like sperm but for a girl? I haven't had my period but I have masturbated. The only thing is I don't know the differinces between distcharge before it cone out and cum!? Pleas help!!! I need it! :( thanks in advance! (link)
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Hello, well discharge is something that occurs on a daily basis in a female to keep the vagina moist and is an attempt to clean the vagina to prevent bacteria from growing and infecting your vaginal area. This discharge can be slight to heavy depending on the women and other factors such as mensturation. It can go unoticed if it isnt thick but it is inside of your vagina which makes it moist. Cumming refers to a secretion from the vagina when a woman is excited sexually; such as when you masterbate your body produces a thin clear and in some women a white substance to lubricate the vagina to make sex more pleasurable. Cumming is also associated with an orgasm in women, when a women orgasms a woman releases a bit more lubrication in response to the extreme pleasure. I hope this helped..if you have more specific questions dont hesitate to send me a private message and I can aid you further..goodluck! :)
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I had sex with my boyfriend like crazy last night and early this morning. When we finally got out of bed I took a pregnancy test because my period is already a week late and it's never been late before. I did everything like the instructions in the box said to for this pregnancy test. I got the pregnancy test at a pharmacy place here, by the way.
The pregnancy test showed a + which says I'm pregnant on the paper. Well, I was wondering if having sex right before taking the test maybe caused it to have a false positive or something? Can you have sex right before taking a pregnancy test? Does sex affect a pregnancy test in any way? (link)
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Hello having sex the night before taking a pregnancy test would not effect the pregnanacy test that you take. If you were pregnant before then you will still be pregnant after you and your boryfirned had sex. The preganancy test, tests for a hormone in your body, and if that hormone is detected even in the slightest then you are most likely pregnant. The only things that cause false positives are if you are taking certain medications, certain medical conditions, if the preganacy test was faulty, or improper testing. So all in all habing sex the night before does not affect the outcome of a pregnancy test the next day. You can try to take another pregnanancy test to confirm or disclaim the positive you saw on the preganancy test just to be sure as well...if you have any more questions or if I did not answer your question fully you can send me a private message and I would be happy to help..goodluck with everything :)
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how do i finger myself (link)
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Hello, there are a number of things you want to consider before you attempt to finger yourself for safety purposes as well as maximum pleasure. You want to make sure the finger you are using is clean, free of any dirt and dander.You want to do this so that no foreign particles get in your vagina, causing infection and pain. You also want to make sure the finger nail of the finger you are using is cut very short so you that you wont cut the inside of your vagina. Lastly you want to make sure your vagina is nice a lubricated before you place your finger inside, you can use salivia to moisten the vagina or rub your clitoris to make yourself excited to increase vaginal lubrucation. After making sure you have done these things you can place your finger slowly in your vagina, then you want to put slight pressure on the top part of your vagina with your finger and try to find a place where the pressure feels good, you want to move your finger in a motion in which you are telling someone to come here, keeping your finger in the same place only moving the tip of your finger to put pressure on the spot that feels good. You can contitnue doing this and alternate with moving your finger in and out of your vagina, you can also use one finger to put pressure on the spot inside your vagina that feels good while also using your other hand to stimulate your clitoris. You can play around with theses ideas and see what feels good for you. I hope this helped, if I was unclear on any part or if you want a specific question answered about masterbation you can send me a private message and I would be happy to help...goodluck! :)
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oookkk sooo a just started masterbating like a year ago....n i like it so much sometimes when am with family ....i have to go to the bathroom or a room to masterbate....wahs wrong with me?? (link)
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Hello, there is nothing wrong with you. You are a normal person just with slighltly higher sexual urges at this time. I was in the same situation as you, once I started masterbating it was an everday thing for about 3 years untill I got involved in a relationship in which I received sex on a regualar basis. Some people just have higher sexual urges than others and there is no need to be ashamed of it, I mean hey it feels good and its a safe way to reach orgasm rather than having to deal with all the consequences that can come aling with sex,such as; pregnancy and STD's. Since masterbation is fairly new to you it makes since that you enjoy doing it fairly often, and it may seem like something is wrong with you since you didnt used to do this as much but its natural. However, I did find that once I started to keep myself busy I thought about masterbation slightly less and as time went on the urge to masterbate for me slowly died down from a bout 3 times a day to once per day. Currently you are just fulfilling your sexual urges but if you think it is becoming a problem you can try to keep yourself busy or find something you are really interested in or take on a hobby to keep you distracted, other wise what you are doing is fine, its a part of growing up as an individual. If you really think this is an issue though I can help you further but im not sure how often you masterbate or think about masterbating to the point where it would be problematic.I hope this helped and if you would like me to answer a specific question I would be glad to help..goodluck :)
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im a 14 female andi rub my clitoris and orgasm etc. but i tried to finger myself and it HURT! it felt like it was burning when i stuck my finger in there. Why does it hurt and how do i make it feel good? i want to know what an inside orgasm feels like. does it feel better than rubbing your clit.? and i wont stick anything else up in there cause its not sanitary. and is there any way to get a better orgasm? i've tried an electric toothbrush but it didnt do it for me :/ i ran water on it and that felt good but what else? thanks for all the answers :) (link)
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Hello, there could be a number of reasons it hurt when you stuck your finger up your vagina. It could have been that your fingers werent thouroughly cleaned, your vagina could have not been lubricated enough, or your finger nails could have accidently scratched the inside of your vagina. thorugrougly cleaning your hands prevents any dirt or bacteria from geeting inside your vagina, even a very small piece id debris on your finger could cause a burning sensation in your vagina because its foreign to your body. Obviousliy long nails can stratch yout vagina so filing the nail of the finger you are going to use to masterbate is very important. Also in regards to an unlubricated vagina, putting a dry finger in your vagina just causes friction which can be very painful. So make sure you take those things into account before you try masterbating again. When you masterbate, you want to place your finger slowly in your vagina and stay in one place, while your finger is in a particular place you want to move it as if you were telling someone to come here, moving just the tip of your finger back and forth and keeping your finger in a steady place. The goal is to find your gspot- you will know due to the amount of pleasure you feel when you put slight pressure on it. If you continuously put pressure on this spot then you will eventually have a vaginal orgasm, keep in mind that it may take awhile to happen and there is no way of telling if a vaginal orgasm will feel better to you than a clitoral orgasm because everyones body is different. What feels great to one person may not feel so great to another. In relation to trying to compare a clitoral orgasm from a vaginal orgasm, both give an intense amount of pleasure, its hard to say what it may feel like for you but it feels just as great as a clitoral orgams but its honestly just something you would have to experience yourself, and trust me you will know when it happens :)..Hope this helped, if you have any further questions or want tips on other masterbation techniques I would be happy to help, just send me a private message and ill get back to you as soon as I can..goodluck!
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hey guys, so i haven't been on this site in a while, but i would really appreciate the help.
i'm 17/f and enjoying life right now.
about 7 monthhs ago, right before my birthday, new job, license..etc. my boyfriend/ex (of a a year and ahalff) broke up with me. it was a horrible break up, and we've talked on and off, but now its horrible. he hates me so much, and never wants to speak to me again because i called him out. he lied to all of his friends and i told him he doesn't have to , to be accepted. he now hates me. the past 7 months have been so bad, i would hate myself, and not think i was good enough.
but now i'm almost there, almost over him and the whole thing. there's this new guy ( not really tho because he was my first kiss in 7thh grade and boyfriend, etc.) i honestly don't know where this is going, but i don't know what to do. has anyone ever felt confused about what to do, which direction to go? i think i just need a slap in a face from someone who's been there and who knows what'll happen. i just wanna have hope.
thanks! (sorrya bout the novel i just wrote) (link)
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Hello, firstly please dont hate yourself, there is no need too, I honestly beleive you did the right thing by calling your ex out. You werent doing it to hurt him you were just saying what you felt. I know it can be hard to have someone that you were so close to at one point hate you but unfortunaltey it happens. I know exactly where you are coming from, I have had a few guys in my life that I was rather close to be very hurtful to me just for something I said that unintnetionally made them upset.Its a real bummer to loose someone that way but hey there is really nothing you can do now. You just move forward with your life and try your best to forget about them because obviously they dont want you in there lives anymore. Your ex seems very immature for treating you this way, he was not the guy for you..this immaturity would have shown up further along in your relationship if you guys were still together eventually, so it was probably for the best that you guys broke up.
As for the new guy, if you are still trying to get over your ex you could just keep the relationship you have with him at a friend level.You have been through alot and maybe you arent ready to be involved in a relationship yet. However, if you feel like you may be ready to dive back into the dating seen, this guy might be a good distraction for you to get over your ex. If this new guy seems like he has potential to be a start to something great then you should go for it. Go with your gut feeling, if you feel you are ready go for it, if you dont then continue to be friends, there will probably be no one on this site that could tell you exactly what would happen based on the decision you choose because life can be very unpredictable. But if you go with your gut everything is sure to work itself out eventually.I really hope this helped, if you have any idea what decision you are leaning toward you can leave me a private message and I could give you further advice if you so need it. Goodluck with everything, im sure you will make the right decision for yourself :)
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Hello 14 f PLEASE ANSWER SOON...its really important nd i dont have much time :/
Well tomorrow I might be seeing my ex, and this ex made me miserable a traumatizing experience for me. Now he's always at my towns city pool every day in the summer..im going there with my cousins, my aunt and my grandmother. Every time I go, with my best friend or anyone I get so nervous and sick to my stomach because I have bad memories there. How should I face him, because I really despise this guy, he doesn't like me much..so I don't know what to do..sense my boy friend won't be with me. My friend says to show off what he's missing. hahah >.> Seriously though what should i do? please reply soon..i only have today.. (link)
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Hello, I honestly think your friends advice was right, I think you should deifnitley flaunt and show off what he is missing... a guy always wants what he cant have:)..I think thatis as far as you should go though.If you have such negative feelings toward him and he emotionally hurt you I dont think you should give him the time of day. I suggest no eye contact and there is no need to approach or talk to him because there is not much to say. He is in the past and should stay there, talking to him will only bring up those bad memories even more and upset you. If he comes up to you,which he may not since you metnioned that he doesnt like you much. But if he does you should be very short with him and not engage in conversation with him, because really the only thing you probably want to hear from him is an apology for hurting you as to gain some sort of closure. However, if there is no apology, there is no need to talk to him, just try to pretend like he is not there and enjoy your family, he is no longer apart of your life and it should stay that way. You dont want someone who brings negativity to your life, it will only bring you down. So try to forget about him and enjoy your day at the pool. Hope this helped, if you have any specific questions you can send me a private message if you would like, goodluck with everything!..Everything will turn out fine, no worries :)
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when i see a hot guy my mouth waters. why is this? is it normal? lol. (link)
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Hello, I would say that this reaction you are having when you see a hot guy is fairly normal. I say this because everyone is chemically and phsyically wired differently, this is simply your body's physiological response to extreme attraction to a guy. Maybe this is occuring because when you see a hot guy, you are unconcsiously thinking of kissing him causing your mouth to water in preperation for this kiss...just a thought. All in all, your body is simply releasing certain chemicals that allow for this mouth watering sensation when you get visually stimulated by an attractive guy.I actually think this occurence is pretty cool because it is rather uncommon. You have nothing to worry about :). Hope this helped and if you have any further questions you can send me a private message if you would like! :)
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what will happen if i masterbate with a water jet. i am from the united kingdom (link)
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Hello well firstly it is totally normal to masterbate fairly often because everyone has different sexual drives and needs. You in particular may be a very sexual person. I would also like to state that I myself in my younger years found that I masterbated a very large amount, mainly because I was a very sexual person and had alot of time on my hands. Masterbation is a wonderful thing, it gives you the all the pleasure without having to worry about certain consequences having sex would cause- such as; STD's and pregnancy. However, I did notice as I continued to masterbate often I found that I wanted to try a number of different ways, because masterbeating in the same way can get dull and monotonous. In regards to water jets, it indeed feels pleasureable due to the large amount of pressure. However, this large amount of pressure can also turn into a negative, the pressure from the water jet can slowly tear through the skin of your clitoris after contitnuous use, if you do it a few times a year the pressure wont effect your clitoris. However, once you start it can be hard to stop due to the pleasureful feeling it provides. All in all, I suggest that the water jet should not be used unless there is an option for you to lower the pressure of the water. I hope this helped.If you have any further questions or would like different ideas for masterbation techniques you can send me a private message and I would be happy to help. Goodluck with everything! :)
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How can I tell and/or show my teachers how much I appreciated them this school year?
I had two teachers this year that I will really, really miss. They were great teachers and amazing people. I was really blessed to have them in my life this year. I really admire them and want them to know that. What can I do to show them how I appreciate them? (link)
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Hello I would say get them something from the heart,something that they woruld know was specially given to them..like some teachers have things around there classroom that they really like, like one of my teachers really likes cows for some reason, rather stuffed or just on a picture. You can also get them a card from a local store and write specifically the things you apprecaited about them and how they helped you directly, it will make them feel special :). You can also buy a trinket from a store, like a coffee mug or something that says "best teacher" or something cute...I hope this helped, these are all methods I have used when I wanted to thank a teacher for all they have done for me, i hope this helped and wish you the best of luck, if you need further information you can always send me a private message..whatever you do Im sure they will love it!!!! :)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND!!!:)
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What are some examples of
logos? I dont need ethos and pathos, just didnt want you to think i ment an actual logo :)
I have no clue what it
is really either, so if ya could help me out
here alittle it'll be greatly appreciated. :D
Plz and Thank Yew
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Hello, logos,ethos and pathos come into play when speaking about literary work or even a debate.
logos: this is the logic, facutal information and evidence(things that can be proven)
ethos:these are things invloved with morality and ethical issues. When it coems to the suthor or liereary work,it is the history or background informtion on the writer and or writting.
pathos: This is the emotional part,statemnets hat involve how you feel and change the way you think abput something due its emotional effect.
I hope this helped and was useful for you :)
SIERLY,DIAMOND :) :)
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Im almost 19, and saturday my boyfriend broke up with me. He's 20 and honestly he was my first love. I dont know what to do, we were both crying so much, and he kept saying how much he still cares about me, and how he just does'nt want to be in a relationship, at all right now, and that he could be making a huge mistake, but he just does'nt know. but that he just needs time, that he wants to still talk to me, and hang out with me. I am so lost. it hurts so bad, but im just going to wait it out and see what happens.
but can you guys help me out, what can i do to make him want to work this out again? to make him miss me so much??? please help out with any advice.
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Hello,well first off I want to tell you that I understand how hurt you must be, i hurts to lose your first love and be cinfused and upset. i Know it is hard to get through this and may feel rather empty not being with him but everything happens for reason rather its godo or bad. You should try to savor the fact that he still care for you and wants to soend time with you. He obviously wants time apart for a reason..once you know that reason you fel soo much better. You should talk to him about this because it will tear you apart. You have to respect his decision in not wanting to be in a relationship and hng on to that fact that he would still like to have that relationship with you without the seriousness of it all. He may be going through something and doesnt want what he is going through to effect your relationship. I think you should definitley give him his space and let him come around. Remember those who really care for you will stick aroundand you wont have to worryabout looing them completley.You cant make someone miss you but you can however not give them as uch attention as before and give them the space that they need to get things together. If things are meant to be then the two of you will end up together,however I am sure things will workout for the best,just try to keep yourself busy so you wont be focused on the fact that you two arent together anymore beause it will only serve to make things worse. I hope this helped and I wish you the best of luck:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :) :)
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I need help, I need confidence and secerety, so help me what should I do! (link)
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Hello,well just to let you know,you are not alone...lots of people have this issue and you wouldnt even know it.You cant magically get self confidence over night but you sure can wrk at it. Sef confidence is simply beleiving in yorself and feeling comfortable with you as a person. You ave to know that no one in this world is perfect,you just have to work with what you have and make the best of i. Right now your thougts are negative whichis effecting your confiedence in yourself. You first have to change this faulty thinking int a more positive view of yourself. You have to know that you are special,beautiful and capable beyond meaure and no one can take that away from you,nly you can elp yourslf to gain self confidence...NO ONE ELSE.Everyone is special in their own way and has tons of special qualties and beleifs..once you realize how special you are your problems wit self confidence will diminsh, als yu find security within yourself,once you gain that self confidence you will find that security you need. Simply maintain a positive attitutde about yoursef and life as a whole and things will appear so much better in a numerous amout of ways. I hope this helped and the best of luck to you!!! If you wuld like to contact me you can always send me a private message or send me an email!
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :)
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okayy so me and this girl have been friends since 5th GRADE!!! and now she has been hanging out with the popular people. im not a nerd or anything,,but i am talking way well-known,people hehe.. like for example every year for my birthday she forgets to by me a present but she met this popular girl JUST THIS YEAR and made sure to buy her a $30 present. She has only known her for 3 months.now,,on myspace there is two popular people before me, and the first one is the one with the birthday present, What do I do? And i cant just forget about her and move on, because you dont even REALIZE the memories and good times we had. and by the way i am a girl. Please help me, i dont want to loose my BEST FRIEND. (link)
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Hello, well if she really is your bestfriend then you should have no problem discussing your feelings with her,communication is exttremly important in any reationship,she may not eve know how you are feeing so you would basically be tearing yourself apart frnothing. All you have to do is open up to here and tell hr that you think her behavior is rude and making you question your friendship. After you two have this talk and she still goes back o her old ways then she is obviously not the friend youtought she was. She may b seeking the popular people's approval which is shy she is behavin this way but she has to know that she doesnt need to be approbved,what she needs is a real friend that will be there for her which i you..If she cant see that on her own then your friendship may sadly be diminishing because all in all people change and you wont have the same people in your life forever. Those who rally care for you and are your true firneds will stay but those who dont cherish the friendship and the qualities you have to offer will slowly come out of your life. Just know that everything happens for a reason and things will turn out for the best in the end:). I hope this helped and if you have any furhter questionsyou can always send me a private message,I wish the best of luck to you :)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :)
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