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My "best friend"
okayy so me and this girl have been friends since 5th GRADE!!! and now she has been hanging out with the popular people. im not a nerd or anything,,but i am talking way well-known,people hehe.. like for example every year for my birthday she forgets to by me a present but she met this popular girl JUST THIS YEAR and made sure to buy her a $30 present. She has only known her for 3 months.now,,on myspace there is two popular people before me, and the first one is the one with the birthday present, What do I do? And i cant just forget about her and move on, because you dont even REALIZE the memories and good times we had. and by the way i am a girl. Please help me, i dont want to loose my BEST FRIEND.
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Communication is key. Talk to her and see if you can fix it. Maybe she doesn't even see the change she has gone through. I'm in a similar situation. You need to sometimes realize that you were best friends, and that high school definitely changes people. There might be characteristics of the popular people that make your friend want to be good friends with them. It's hard to explain but sometimes situations are out of your control.
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Hello, well if she really is your bestfriend then you should have no problem discussing your feelings with her,communication is exttremly important in any reationship,she may not eve know how you are feeing so you would basically be tearing yourself apart frnothing. All you have to do is open up to here and tell hr that you think her behavior is rude and making you question your friendship. After you two have this talk and she still goes back o her old ways then she is obviously not the friend youtought she was. She may b seeking the popular people's approval which is shy she is behavin this way but she has to know that she doesnt need to be approbved,what she needs is a real friend that will be there for her which i you..If she cant see that on her own then your friendship may sadly be diminishing because all in all people change and you wont have the same people in your life forever. Those who rally care for you and are your true firneds will stay but those who dont cherish the friendship and the qualities you have to offer will slowly come out of your life. Just know that everything happens for a reason and things will turn out for the best in the end:). I hope this helped and if you have any furhter questionsyou can always send me a private message,I wish the best of luck to you :)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND :)
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shes probably just going through a stage, everyone wants it to be popular. so just let it pass for a little, not more than a few weeks. and then talk to her. tell her you're feeling left out ever since she became friends with them. and that you think its great that she has made new friends but you still want to be her best friend. and just see how things go. hopefully she'll see and then maybe she could even began to include you in with them.
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