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I just started talking to this guy and he seems really cool. We go to the same school but we've never talked in person before. He randomly sent me a message on facebook then we started texting. He wants us to hang out together but I'm worried he just wants to get in my pants. People have told me to stop talking to him because he just wants to hook up. I want to hang out with him but what do i do if he tries anything? I don't want to do anything with him I just want to hang out as friends. How can i make this clear to him? (link)
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you can just hang out with him now cause you don't know for a fact that hes like that but if he does try anything you're not comfortable with tell him. say i really like you but i'm not ready for that yet. i want to wait. if hes like no or anything. say well i'm not a slut and if thats all you want then i'm sorry cause i don't want to do that.
henaaaa :]
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i love my boyfriend so much. and i know he loves me. we were meant for each other. just couple things that make me :/ are....sometimes randomly he brings up something 2 of his exs did. his not comparing me or anything. but its just you know idc care about them i dont want to hear about them. and sometimes he has plans and ill think i get the whole day with him and then he'll tell me like the day before. waht to do. we neverrrr fight. and are relationship is nottt falling apart. its just those thinngs get to me sometimes. i love him. with all my heart. (link)
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there are always going to be things that bother you when in a relationship. sometimes you just got to deal, but if they're serious then you should just talk to him about it calmly. and see what he has to say. maybe he'll understand and stop. just make sure to never tell him hes wrong, it'll make him mad.
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Hey im 17/f and my boyfriend is 20/m. Yesterday i made a terrible mistake. I promised my boyfriend i wouldnt talk to my ex boyfriend again. I made that promise at like the beginning of our relationship. I broke that promise. I wanted to give him his stuff back and it was only like 5 min. My mom hates my ex boyfriend and she saw me with him and she freaked and called my current boyfriend and told him that im playing games with him and how i was with my ex. I tried explaining the entire situation to my boyfriend and i just wanna get all of this behind us but hes making a huge deal about it. Is there any way i can try to fix this. Im trying everything. And also my mom grounded me i have no phone no car and suppose to have no computer. Please help me :(
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he's going to need time. hopefully he will end up understanding. write him a letter tell him why you did and why your mom called, explaining everything, not holding back. that should calm him down and then just give it time. he probably trusts you its just you broke a promise so that put him in a bad situation. just make sure he knows you love him and you would never do anything to hurt him.
hope everything works out.
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Hi!
I was wondering if it costs money to download limewire? If limewire was legal, and if it does cost money, is it worth it? Thanks a ton!
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its free unless you get limewire pro. its not worth to pay money. just get the normal one. it does the job. and it isn't legal though.
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okayy so me and this girl have been friends since 5th GRADE!!! and now she has been hanging out with the popular people. im not a nerd or anything,,but i am talking way well-known,people hehe.. like for example every year for my birthday she forgets to by me a present but she met this popular girl JUST THIS YEAR and made sure to buy her a $30 present. She has only known her for 3 months.now,,on myspace there is two popular people before me, and the first one is the one with the birthday present, What do I do? And i cant just forget about her and move on, because you dont even REALIZE the memories and good times we had. and by the way i am a girl. Please help me, i dont want to loose my BEST FRIEND. (link)
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shes probably just going through a stage, everyone wants it to be popular. so just let it pass for a little, not more than a few weeks. and then talk to her. tell her you're feeling left out ever since she became friends with them. and that you think its great that she has made new friends but you still want to be her best friend. and just see how things go. hopefully she'll see and then maybe she could even began to include you in with them.
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ok...
so i've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months now. he's been great, up until about two weeks ago when he got drunk and cheated on me. i broke up with him, but we got back together a week later because he promised he would do anything to have me back. Now, I believe that he's sorry, but it was kind of a relief to not be with him. don't get me wrong, i love him. he's awesome.
but i have a big problem.
my ex, who i dated for two years, has been calling me. he has wanted me back since we broke up in August. basically since i got with my current bf. i love talking to him... but he will call or text one day, and then i won't hear from him for a week or so...and so then i kind of start to heal the pain a bit and appreciate my boyfriend and think i'm over my ex, and he will call again, completely re-opening the wound.
when i'm talking to my ex consistently, my boyfriend kind of fades out of my mind. but then when my ex stops calling for a week, my attention is back on my boyfriend. I've never cheated on my boyfriend and never would, but i know i still have strong feelings for my ex... but is it just because he was my first love and i should get over him? or is there something more there?
my bf treats me right (except for the whole cheating thing...) but my ex is soo tempting. i think maybe i should decide who hurt me more... my ex broke up with me because he was dealing with his dad being on drugs and he couldnt tell me about it because he thought i would tell someone... so i understand why he left. and maybe i rushed into things with my current bf too soon after my ex and i broke up. but i think my bf hurt me worse by cheating on me. idk. any advice would be greatly appreciated =)
sorry it was so long.
btw, i'm 17, my bf is 21, and my ex is 18. (link)
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ok so i can see you're super conflicted. obviously your heart is still with your ex but also with your boyfriend. the only problem is your ex doesn't seem way too up to the commitment since he's on and off. so that could be something bad to get into to because he may end up hurting you. but since you felt a relief when not with your boyfriend maybe you should just break things off since you are having feelings for another guy. that way you can just be single and find out where your heart really is and who is more worth it to be with.
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I miss my ex (we broke up about 2 years ago)
we are 'just friends' but really, really good friends; we share everything. EXCEPT that i still have feelings for him. and very strong ones...
should i tell him? if so help me about when/where/how
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if these feelings have stayed for two years then it's obviously a big deal. that means it's best if you tell him. and it will make you feel so much better just to let it out.
a way to do it is just ask him to hang out one day. maybe a place you guys had a special date at that could bring back some old sparks. and then just striaght up tell him. theres no right and wrong way to go about it as long as the truth comes out.
but a sentence starter would be i'm glad we're still close but i really miss us together. and say you might think this is weird cause it's been 2 years but it's true. and just see what he says.
hope everything works out.
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for me getting guys has never been a problem, the problem is they always screw me over. every guy i go for, no matter how different they may seem they usually turn out to be worse than the last. ive been through sheer hell in the relationship department and have felt like giving up but as sad as it is, i really do need a man to feel happy. i dont know why, or if thats pathetic, but i am not happy alone. i never feel good enough for anyone and each relationship results in my ego becomming lower and lower. i honestly have no idea what i do wrong. i try very hard not to be annoying, i stay in shape, i try and do nice things for them, and i try to take things slow sexually. im good at sexual acts so my problem is not that i dont know what im doing physically, but emotionally rather. i used to believe it was the guys but now im beginning to question, is it me? and why doesnt anyone actually like me? why do they all just want to use me? why is everyone capable of getting into amazing and functional relationships and im not. if you have any advice please let me know. i would like to know how i can become more of a relationship person, and how to detect if a guy is just looking to use me. (link)
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maybe you're being too nice. i've had tha problem. they guy i dated was amazing before but then he became a complete jerk. it was because i let him. i let him do/say things he shouldn't have and just let him get away with it. it might be that. the might pick up off your behavior and see that you'll let them get away with whatever they want so they'll start doing things they shouldn't be doing it. thats one of the things that could be going on. it also might be that they just are how they are. they might just be a jerk and you don't know it. you can't blame it all on yourself. and if you end up falling for the wrong guys be more careful when you pick them. like get all your friends opinions and see how they treated their exs before you get into anything you might regret. and remember don't change for a guy. you are who you are and guys cannot accept you for that then it's their lose.
good luck.
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I HATE MY EX BOYFRIEND! he acts like he still loves me and then he ditches me to smoke. im fourteen. i want to show him that im done with him but idk how... help? (link)
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take him out of your life. don't make any contact with him. if he tries to speak to you just ignore him. and take out everything you have that reminds you of him. delete him on myspace and facebook. that will give him the message. hopefully then he'll also understand he messed up and if you wanted he might even give up smoking and stay fiathful to you.
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So i have been dating this guy for about two weeks now...
And things have been soo amazing, i don't think i could ask for anything better then having him in my life right now. But before we started going out, this girl told him that she wanted to meet up with him and hook up. He told me she was being all flirty and then he asked me if i would be comfortable with it because we have been talking so much...
I told him ofcoarse i wouldn't be comfortable with it but we werent going out so he could do whatever he wants. He chose not to go because he said he cared about me too much to loose me. Then about 3 weeks later he asked me to be his girlfriend. Things are going fine until i see his facebook status 'Cant get this out of my mind, and i know it wont be worth it and ill screw things up but something tells me to go for it...'
So were in the mall together and he tells me this same girl has told him that if things dont work out with 'that girl' that she'll always be here. He told me he said 'alrite cool'.
The he told me she was a giant creeper and started making fun of her...
I dont know what that means but i am really worried he's gonna dump me for her.
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remember if he dumps you for her it's his lose. but right now it seems like he was confused but i think he's gotten over it or at least is in the process of it. so there shouldn't really be anything to work out. if you're still worried you can't really do anything. because you can't force someone to like you or you can't force him to choose you. its what he feels. and you wouldn't even want to do something fake for him just so he stays with you, because it won't even be the real you.
hope i helped.
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hello,
This is very serious I have had this problem before, so much it makes me contimplate suicide
I am a very hands on person that likes to hug people, I am very tall and people always make fun of me, no one ever talks to me at school and when I try to be serious with them they always call me a freak my bestfriends ditched me and now how am I supposed to deal with this I cry for days and I want to switch schools! (link)
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obvioulsy these people aren't good. so you don't even want them in your life. ignore what they say, even though its hard. the best way is to tell yourself you like how you are and you really need to mean it. it'll make you seem more on top of everything making you more attractive to people. also try joining some groups that you might have people you could have something in common with. or talk to someone you know won't judge you. you have to pick the right kind of people to be friends with and they'll be the ones to be there for you. so get the mean people out and the nice ones in.
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im a huge environmentalist, and i would like to know what ideas people have on what governments should be doing to help the environment? whether it be save habitats or stop deforestation, or global warming, how should leaders help stop these very important issues?
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they should be having big intiatives to plant trees in place of all that have been lost. and finding new fuels to use to stop global warming. they should at leas t be taking action, whatever it is.
hey if you're such a big environmentalist you should think about joining the Clean World Movement. you can sign up to be a leader and lead clean-ups in your area.
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Well I have this friend that I care about a whole lot. I've known her practically my whole life, but for various reason our friendship became problematic. One day I had agreed that I would make time so that we could go somewhere together because the guy she really liked was going to be there. I assumed she would go with someone else but as it turned out, she called me and I had made other plans. After that she transferred schools and I called her but she never picked up. One day after two months I finally spoke to her. It was a difficult conversation because she was telling me that I had changed over time for the worse. A while back I had poor self esteem and I guess I was a "poser" because of it. I took a lot of my frustration out on her at the time. The thing is that whenever I think of her I am reminded of who I used to be then and it makes me feel bad about who I am now. In my head I guess it'll always matter to me if she thinks I am a "poser" because it hurts to know that the person closest to you thinks that. I call her like once a week but she never is home. We haven't spoken in about a month. I'm wondering if I should keep trying to fix this or if maybe I should just let it go? (link)
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i think if this girl means this much to you, that you're sitting here beating yourself up about it then you should keep trying to fix it. its obviously what you want. also you don't need to go back to who you were. but just imagine the person you want to be. the one thats not a poser the one that can be a good friend and work to be that person. and make sure its not only because its what she wants but its because its what you want. go for what you want, cause that would make you not a poser. it would make you you.
good luck :]
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K so my life sucks i go to school i do everything im asked and even though im too young to work and cant find work i still do things for some of the neighbors just so i can make some money and buy my own stuff but my parents still dont like me they only like my older brother who does a lot of bad things but never gets caught like he stole my moms debit and used it like crazy and then put it in my room so i would get in trouble basically i feel like running away my parents yell at me all the time my brother hits me and because i get sick a lot im home most of the time and i get yelled at even more so my school asked if i wanted to do school online so i could be healthy and not have to worry about missing school and work. when the school suggested i said yes and my mom did too but then because my brother twisted there minds and said it was bad and stuff they now said no and latley ive been feeling worse but nobody will take me to the doctor and i dont know how to get around in busses and its to far to walk and i dont have money for a cab so is there like a shelter or anything in Surrey BC for me to go to so i can get away from these abusive peoepl (link)
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i know you don't want to get in trouble but you can't go on like this, it's just not fair. i mean you're sick. so you have to speak to some adult that you can trust and can help you in some way. they can hopefully help you talk to your parents because they've been hypnotized by your brother so not only you can fix that. that would be the first step. and you also need to talk to your brother. and explain to him that he's hurting you. and let him know what hes doing. if it isn't fixed the person you talk to should be able to find you a place to stay until your family gets fixed. and just so you know i think you're amazing for everything you're going through, but just know you don't have to :] and remember someone's always there for you.
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do twins date the same kind of girl/guy? (link)
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not neccesarily. it could happen but not likely. cause they're usually trying to be different from eachother. i dated a twin, his brother's girlfriend was nothing like me.
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how long does it take for a guy to say he loves you when you know he truly cares for you?
The first time I fell in love I told the guy I loved him after a month, I was also 14 and probably didn't know what love was. But the point is he got freaked out.
Now with my current boyfriend we've been dating for a month and a half and he is the most classy respectful guy I have ever met. I didn't even knew they existed in this decade. Flowers, candles, cooks for me..the whole 9 yards. He's told me how crazy he is for me and he told me that he could picture being with me for life. His best friend is my best friend's boyfriend and even he says that he's never seen him like this before.
I know people don't fall in love overnight and we're not the type of couple who date for a week and start saying things like "I love you, you're my everything, I can't live without you"
anyway..so I was just wondering. How long did it take your guy to say it..and mean it? (link)
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for my guy to actually mean it and me too it was almost 2 to 3 months. it just depends how you guys are doing. and obviously you are. so just wait a little. he might just want it to be special and he doesn't want to say it unless he's a 100% sure. 6 weeks might not be enough for him. and hes still shoing how much he mean to him though so its not too bad :]
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When my hair dries its fuzzy and frizzy with wild random waves. I've used every serum, gel, mousse, shampoo, cream, and conditioner I can find to fix it- nothing makes much of a difference. Even the color looks funny until I flat iron it.
What can I do to get my hair soft and smooth when it dries naturally? (link)
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usually if you blow dry it and brush it before it dries it will be softer. as for the frizz, have you tries bed head after party or paul mitchell super skinny serum? those both work for me. they're about $15-$18. its worth it though. and also try this spray from vo5 (i forgot the name but it says what it does on the bottle) before straightening your hair it will keep the frizz away. and try to keep your hair out of the sun before straightening. cause once the frizz comes it doesn't go away.
good luck.
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this senior at my school started looking at me in the hallways back in october and so i told his friend that i thought he was cute. nothing happened though so i figured he wasnt interested even though i knew he was shy. we would still look at each other though. so recently a few weeks ago my good friend is going out with one of his friends and said she could set us up. i was reluctant since nothing happened before but i decided to go for it. she tells her boyfriend to tell the guy (alex)that i thought he was hott and that i wanted to hang out but he didnt tell alex that it was me. i figured he would know it was me though. the weekend we were supposed to all hang out me, alex, my friend and her bf, they got in a fight so it didnt end up happening and i was pretty dissapointed. the next weekend i didnt even know we were going to her bf's house but we went and half way through alex comes and i had no idea he was coming although it was in the back of my head. everyone was pressuring me to go up to him and i kept telling them that i would make my move when i was ready. before i know it my friends bf goes up to him and tells him i wanna hook up. so i follow my friend and basically we hooked up even though it was pretty awkd in the beginning but anyway so that was two weeks ago. the following week in school it was so awkd cause the whole school was talking about it and i avoided him cause i was nervous and didnt know what he thought about it. i thought maybe he was embarassed. he doesnt usually hook up with people i hear. but basically im just so confused cause i like this guy and have been waiting so long for something to happen and it finally did. but we havent talked since then...i know hes shy but i am too and im the one that has made all the moves, ive done everything to show him i like him, he knows i think hes hott, i initiated the hook up, i asked for his number. i have no idea what he thinks! ugh part of me says to just forget it and move on but another part feels like i finally got him so i dont wanna lose him since i have the chance. last week we didnt look at each other at all, but this week we have been making eye contact everyyy day but havent talked. last monday he asked my friend if i talk about him and she said no..idk if thats a good thing. i have no idea what to do. maybe he just wanted to hook up? idk. what do you think he thinks of us hooking up? should i even bother anymore? what would you do? plus his friends always talk about it so it makes me feel awkrd. any advice is reallyy appreciated (link)
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you need to make the first move if you want it progress. but you also got to think about that other guy, if you want him in your life. cause if you do you're going to need to take his feelings into account and not do anything with alex. but if you definetly want alex make a move. you can text him first and say i don't want it to be awkward anymore so lets talk. or something like that. and then hopefully go guys will start talking during school.
good luck.
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I'd like to (weird, yeah) go to Austin, Texas for Spring Break. What's there to do, though? I have a friend who lives there & I want to go see him, but my dad needs 'incentive' to send me down there. I'm sixteen, so keep in mind I won't like...boring stuff, but i'm open to new ideas. Thanks if you help, I'd be going for about 5 days...If that makes a difference. (link)
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for your dad you're going to have to tell him you're going to see some boring stuff just to bring him in, like say you're going to see The Capitol which isn't too bad and he'll like that you're getting some history. for you theres east 6th street which has good stores and good nightlife. so that should be fun for you. ummm theres also barton springs pool which would be fun to have a picnic and you would observing nature :] also the zilker botanical garden.
have funnn.
and take tons of sunscreen it gets hot up here.
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okey so theres this guys at my sschool and i liked him for a long time. & i told my friend who then told him but then i told the kid that i didnt like him. then i started to not like him, i dont know why. but i stopped. now that i stopped and he knows i dont like him anymore, he is talking to me more & like today he like stepped in front of me quickly to scare me. & im really confused b/c i thought he didnt like me. but at the beginning of the year he liked me i think b/c he flirted w/ me..... or at least it seemed like it so maybe he didnt like me. but my question is, i want him to like me. so how can i do it? i cant text him b/c when i do, he barely texts back in a way i can reply. bad texter i think. what flirty things can i do that send him a flirty message but dont straight out say "i like you!"? thanks.
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when you're around him make sure to laugh at his jokes and smile so he knows you're interested. and try to keep converstaions going your hardest because then he'll see you want to be around him. that will make him feel more comfortable.
when texting just send him cute little messages every once in a while, like:
hey cutie. what's up?
hey stud. how you doing?
or like funny stuff.
hey cutie, can i get your numba?
i mean i know you already have his number but it will definetly make him smile.
and then for the most part just let you shine. you want your personality to draw him in because thats why he should like, not because of how good you flirt.
good luck.
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