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Abusive family
K so my life sucks i go to school i do everything im asked and even though im too young to work and cant find work i still do things for some of the neighbors just so i can make some money and buy my own stuff but my parents still dont like me they only like my older brother who does a lot of bad things but never gets caught like he stole my moms debit and used it like crazy and then put it in my room so i would get in trouble basically i feel like running away my parents yell at me all the time my brother hits me and because i get sick a lot im home most of the time and i get yelled at even more so my school asked if i wanted to do school online so i could be healthy and not have to worry about missing school and work. when the school suggested i said yes and my mom did too but then because my brother twisted there minds and said it was bad and stuff they now said no and latley ive been feeling worse but nobody will take me to the doctor and i dont know how to get around in busses and its to far to walk and i dont have money for a cab so is there like a shelter or anything in Surrey BC for me to go to so i can get away from these abusive peoepl
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i know you don't want to get in trouble but you can't go on like this, it's just not fair. i mean you're sick. so you have to speak to some adult that you can trust and can help you in some way. they can hopefully help you talk to your parents because they've been hypnotized by your brother so not only you can fix that. that would be the first step. and you also need to talk to your brother. and explain to him that he's hurting you. and let him know what hes doing. if it isn't fixed the person you talk to should be able to find you a place to stay until your family gets fixed. and just so you know i think you're amazing for everything you're going through, but just know you don't have to :] and remember someone's always there for you.
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I can't relate, but I can offer support and advice. You need to talk to someone at school who you trust, who can find you help if your getting abused at home. It'll hurt, & I know that. But in the long run- You, and your family need counsling. You need to have a serious talk with your parents aboout your brother and how they blame you for things you've never done. They probably won't believe you at first, but prove your stronger and better than your brother. It'll all workout as soon as they earn trust in you. But serisouly hun, talk to someone at school who can send you somewhere. Like a rehab center to get control of your life and talk about everything. I've been there twice and I always feel better. They can help with anything & you can go more deeper into the subject. Best of luck, Inbox me If you need more. :)
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1stly id like to start by saying you have my support. Oneday the world will turn a full circle and your brother will get what he deserves.Secondly i dont think you should run away from home because trust me speaking from experiences and friends experiences itll just make them more angry and track you down and beat you.Your borhter sounds like a total asswipe but oventually hell gorw older and mature(hopefully0 and wont be so rough on you because he will realise what hes doing is stupid and pointless.Talk to you school councellor and tell her what happening she will be able to give you some advice or numbers you can contact. where i live there is a youthline for children that need advise coming from abusive famillies or troubled families try to find out if you have soemthing like that in your region. I agree with the other girl you should seek a friends mother to take you to the doctor because staying sick is really bad for your physical and mental health. in the mean time try to keep out of your parents way like stay in your room and do the things that will make you feel good example read a book listen to music...it wont always be like this i promise i went through it and at some point things do improve..you have my support and i hope everything goes well for you
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Wow it really sounds like you're having a hard time, I'm sorry. Are you really sick now? Have you talked to your friends about this? Maybe you should get your friends to tell their parents in order for you to get some help. Or you can look online and look for help. You really need to stay healthy and find a better home where you won't be abused by your brother or your parents.
What you should do, is first talk to your school counselor and get him/her to help you find a place to stay, or anything at all to help you. Then if this doesn't work, really try to talk to your good friends' parents or look online.
I hope this helps :)
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