Hey guys :)
I'm Victoria and I'm here to help.
Ask me anything that you're having trouble with, and I'll give my best piece of advice to help you!
-Victoria
Gender: Female
Location: France
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
Member Since: March 24, 2009
Answers: 7
Last Update: April 12, 2009
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How do I show a guy whom I am in love with what he means to me when we don't live in the same town and he now has a new girlfriend, but he does like me because he said so but to be fair to his girlfriend he has pushed those feelings out. I want to be with him and would do anything for him but how do I show or prove to him that we are meant to be together and how much I care? (link)
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Does the guy still like you? And you guys still talk right? I think you should let him know exactly how you feel, and tell him that even if there's a little bit of chance he might like you, he should try it out. He said that it wasn't fair for his girlfriend that he liked you, so he should have broken up with her to be with you. I'm sure he'll think it's very sweet of you to care for him so much. Hopefully he does too.
Best of luck!
-Victoria
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17/F
Seattle, Washington
Hello, thanks for reading :) I have really liked this guy for almost a year, and I know at a time he really liked me too. I am going to be seeing him at a dance soon, and I have felt like this would be the perfect oppertunity to clarify a few things between us. Should I ask him how he feels? How should I tell him how I feel? Thanks again for the help! (link)
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I think that it's best if you do ask him what he feels. If he likes you too, this could be great for the both of you. If he doesn't, it might be a bit hard but then you won't have to always worry about whether or not he'll like you. I think that you should just slowly approach him with the question. Talk for a bit, maybe ask him how his love life is going. Hopefully he'll get the hint ;) Then maybe just let him know what you've been feeling, and then ask him. If he says he doesn't like you, don't take it the wrong way. You guys are still good friends :) I'm sure there's a very big possibility he DOES like you though.
Good luck! Let me know what happens.
-Victoria
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uhmmm this sounds really nasty and embarrassing but I constantly get razor burn/pimples on my armpits from shaving and I have no idea how to prevent it. I do everything I'm supposed to, I don't shave too often (probably every 2 days or so or even once a week at the most), I don't shave too close to the skin and I don't go over an area more than once. How do I prevent these nasty bumps? I've been putting some acne creams and body cleansers on it but they don't really seem to be working all that great. So if anyone could give me some tips about this that'd be amazing.
thanks,
MichelleMonster (link)
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Do you put shaving cream on right before you use the razor? And if not, do you at least put soap? If you don't, that might be a reason why you're getting these burns/pimples. If you do, it might have to do with the razor itself. Have you tried buying a new one and shaving? The razor might not be clean or something. Try those things, and if it still happens, let me know.
Hope it gets better!
-Victoria
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How can u knw if a guy realy like u? (link)
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I can't give you a correct and perfect answer because it's really different for every guy. But usually you'll notice that the guy tries to talk to you more, and flirts a lot more. He'll also maybe try to accidently touch your hand while reaching for a piece of paper or just by walking past you. When you guys talk, he'll look into your eyes and really pay attention to what you're saying.
He also might start teasing you a lot more, and don't take that the wrong way. Guys can go over the line sometimes because they're not very clever and don't know how to handle things. Especially if they're shy :P
Try to spend more time with him if you notice all these things.
Hope this helps!
-Victoria
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Alright so there is this guy, Ryan. I use to talk to ryan like last christmas break. At the same time my ex was trying to get back with me and this new guy was trying to talk to me. Needless to say I wasn't about to be tied down. ( Not a whore, just testing waters, I wasn't use to having so many options ) anyways, I stopped talking to him. Then like august my best friend got a boyfriend and I was starting to feel a little lonley so I kinda like..obnoxiously went over board trying to get him to like me again. Now looking back at it I realize I acted pathetic and desperate, it was really gross. Needless to say it didn't work out. So school started and I didnt see him all that much and I mean when I did we said heyy whats up like friends ya know? Then the other night I was really really really intoxicated and I'm not even sure how it happend, one minute we were just talking and laughing and then the next thing I remember was just being next to him and having that feeling like..I'm with him. then we made out and passed out. Then I had to go home really early for a doctors appointment and I didnt wanna wake him up so I just left. I didnt text him or anything either because I really didnt care, It was just one of those times you know, I didnt look into it or anything. Then I saw him at another party and we said hi but he was deffinitely preoccupied with the party. So I went to my friends boyfriends house because his parents were out of town and thats where I was going to stay. Then Ryan came and we talkedd and flirtedd and ended up making out and passing out on the floor again. This time though when we woke up I wasn't really talking to him much because his ex-girlfriend was there and me and her are cool and I didnt want to like make shit akward. I didnt text him that day or the next and he didnt text me either that was tuesday-wednesday. Thursday I went to austin and he texted me at 12:35 to ask me to go over to matts house. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!? THAT IS LIKE THE ULTIMATE BOOTYCALL. and its not like he was inviting me over to drink or anything because I was like jeez late invitation, and he was like haha sorry man im shit faced. Then he was like well when you get back saturday lets hangout and I was like okay that sounds like a good idea. Well he didnt call, and I saw him at a party and we said hi but since I was with his little sister is was kinda akward. Point is im not sure if hes genuinly trying to get to know me, or if im just a bootycall. im not saying im dying for a relationship but i feel kind of..insulted. like its not that i like him sooooo much its just who the hell does he think he is! (link)
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Hey there :)
I think that this guy here is still trying to figure it out HIMSELF. He might want to get to know you, but when the time comes, he gets shy and tries to pull it off as a jerk like all guys tend to do. What I'd say is you try talking to him, and ask him what's going on.
Hang out as friends-sober preferably- and see what happens. If everything goes smoothly, hang out more often. If things seem awkward, and just don't work out, it probably means you should just let it go.
Hope that helps!
-Victoria
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K so my life sucks i go to school i do everything im asked and even though im too young to work and cant find work i still do things for some of the neighbors just so i can make some money and buy my own stuff but my parents still dont like me they only like my older brother who does a lot of bad things but never gets caught like he stole my moms debit and used it like crazy and then put it in my room so i would get in trouble basically i feel like running away my parents yell at me all the time my brother hits me and because i get sick a lot im home most of the time and i get yelled at even more so my school asked if i wanted to do school online so i could be healthy and not have to worry about missing school and work. when the school suggested i said yes and my mom did too but then because my brother twisted there minds and said it was bad and stuff they now said no and latley ive been feeling worse but nobody will take me to the doctor and i dont know how to get around in busses and its to far to walk and i dont have money for a cab so is there like a shelter or anything in Surrey BC for me to go to so i can get away from these abusive peoepl (link)
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Wow it really sounds like you're having a hard time, I'm sorry. Are you really sick now? Have you talked to your friends about this? Maybe you should get your friends to tell their parents in order for you to get some help. Or you can look online and look for help. You really need to stay healthy and find a better home where you won't be abused by your brother or your parents.
What you should do, is first talk to your school counselor and get him/her to help you find a place to stay, or anything at all to help you. Then if this doesn't work, really try to talk to your good friends' parents or look online.
I hope this helps :)
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my french teacher hates me.
like, actually hates me.
it feels like she has something against me.
she's trying to get me in trouble with my parents, embarrassing me in front of the class, etc.
and i've been nicer to her now because i might have to have her as a teacher again next year.
its just hard when she REALLY does not like me.
i dont know if i should confront her..or just let it pass?
ive been trying hard to get on her good side..but so far its been unsuccessful.
please help? :) (link)
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Hi :)
Do you know for sure that your teacher "actually" hates you? I mean from what you've told me, it really sounds like she's got something against you. But I'm not sure what!
Have you tried asking her if you did anything wrong? Have you told your parents about this?
I personally think you should ask her what's going on because she isn't allowed to do this for no reason.
Tell me what happens if you ever ask her!
Hope that helps :)
-Victoria
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