How do I show a guy whom I am in love with what he means to me when we don't live in the same town and he now has a new girlfriend, but he does like me because he said so but to be fair to his girlfriend he has pushed those feelings out. I want to be with him and would do anything for him but how do I show or prove to him that we are meant to be together and how much I care?
Additional info, added Sunday April 12 2009, 2:46 pm: I know he still likes me but he says it is different now because of this new girlfriend. We talk but not often. I did tell him that I was in love with him and he couldn't say anything to it. He says on certain level he is in love with his girlfriend and yes he says he has 'strong feelings' for her? Is he a lost cause? Should I just put my feelings that tear my up inside aside so he can be happy or do I continue talking with him? My heart wants to be with him and it's killing me that I'm not :(. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? batman2 answered Monday April 13 2009, 5:46 am: You shouldn't be hung up on one guy for two reason:
1:It's not healthy and all you are doing is putting yourself through a lot of unnecessary pain you don't need when there are a lot of other guys out there for you to find.
2:He has a girlfriend who he either a. likes a lot or b. he doesn't care for her and he just isn't man enough to tell her.
But either way you shouldn't be hung up on one guy and long distance could work, but only if both people are trying to make it work I know cause I'm in one myself. [ batman2's advice column | Ask batman2 A Question ]
runswithscissors answered Sunday April 12 2009, 5:02 pm: As painful as it is, you need to move on. As much as you love him, he is tied to his girlfriend. Long-distance relationships are tricky and more often than not, they end badly. Try not to dwell on this guy, and remember that there are plenty of other opportunities to be happy. This one guy doesn't have to be your whole life. Good luck :) [ runswithscissors's advice column | Ask runswithscissors A Question ]
Vic4ever answered Sunday April 12 2009, 8:12 am: Hey
Does the guy still like you? And you guys still talk right? I think you should let him know exactly how you feel, and tell him that even if there's a little bit of chance he might like you, he should try it out. He said that it wasn't fair for his girlfriend that he liked you, so he should have broken up with her to be with you. I'm sure he'll think it's very sweet of you to care for him so much. Hopefully he does too.
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