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bootiliouse or booty call ?
Alright so there is this guy, Ryan. I use to talk to ryan like last christmas break. At the same time my ex was trying to get back with me and this new guy was trying to talk to me. Needless to say I wasn't about to be tied down. ( Not a whore, just testing waters, I wasn't use to having so many options ) anyways, I stopped talking to him. Then like august my best friend got a boyfriend and I was starting to feel a little lonley so I kinda like..obnoxiously went over board trying to get him to like me again. Now looking back at it I realize I acted pathetic and desperate, it was really gross. Needless to say it didn't work out. So school started and I didnt see him all that much and I mean when I did we said heyy whats up like friends ya know? Then the other night I was really really really intoxicated and I'm not even sure how it happend, one minute we were just talking and laughing and then the next thing I remember was just being next to him and having that feeling like..I'm with him. then we made out and passed out. Then I had to go home really early for a doctors appointment and I didnt wanna wake him up so I just left. I didnt text him or anything either because I really didnt care, It was just one of those times you know, I didnt look into it or anything. Then I saw him at another party and we said hi but he was deffinitely preoccupied with the party. So I went to my friends boyfriends house because his parents were out of town and thats where I was going to stay. Then Ryan came and we talkedd and flirtedd and ended up making out and passing out on the floor again. This time though when we woke up I wasn't really talking to him much because his ex-girlfriend was there and me and her are cool and I didnt want to like make shit akward. I didnt text him that day or the next and he didnt text me either that was tuesday-wednesday. Thursday I went to austin and he texted me at 12:35 to ask me to go over to matts house. ARE YOU KIDDING ME!? THAT IS LIKE THE ULTIMATE BOOTYCALL. and its not like he was inviting me over to drink or anything because I was like jeez late invitation, and he was like haha sorry man im shit faced. Then he was like well when you get back saturday lets hangout and I was like okay that sounds like a good idea. Well he didnt call, and I saw him at a party and we said hi but since I was with his little sister is was kinda akward. Point is im not sure if hes genuinly trying to get to know me, or if im just a bootycall. im not saying im dying for a relationship but i feel kind of..insulted. like its not that i like him sooooo much its just who the hell does he think he is!
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That's really interesting..!!
But the question is, do you really want to hear me saying the truth or saying something that will sound right and make you feel fine?
Well I hate lying so i will tell the truth.
Like my neighboor downstairs said, That dude doesn't know what the hell does he want so don't worry it's not a booty call but will turn into a booty call later on.
But u shouldn't feel insulted why? Cuz you also did enjoy youself
This is the mistake us girls do, we get angry when its okay guys have sex and not be called names such as bitch, slut, whore and etc..., we hate that guys can do it without trouble and not us
But we get offended if we did it and the guy doesn't like us, NO think like a guy, he doesn't care if he slept with a girl and she doesnt like him and he doesn't complain either so .... yeah
You enjoyed yourself, and you don't really like him.
So why don't you stop calling him or making out with him. Get out there and find a really hot boyfriend.
Good Luck =]=]
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Hey there :)
I think that this guy here is still trying to figure it out HIMSELF. He might want to get to know you, but when the time comes, he gets shy and tries to pull it off as a jerk like all guys tend to do. What I'd say is you try talking to him, and ask him what's going on.
Hang out as friends-sober preferably- and see what happens. If everything goes smoothly, hang out more often. If things seem awkward, and just don't work out, it probably means you should just let it go.
Hope that helps!
-Victoria
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