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Everyone hates me at school
hello,
This is very serious I have had this problem before, so much it makes me contimplate suicide
I am a very hands on person that likes to hug people, I am very tall and people always make fun of me, no one ever talks to me at school and when I try to be serious with them they always call me a freak my bestfriends ditched me and now how am I supposed to deal with this I cry for days and I want to switch schools!
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obvioulsy these people aren't good. so you don't even want them in your life. ignore what they say, even though its hard. the best way is to tell yourself you like how you are and you really need to mean it. it'll make you seem more on top of everything making you more attractive to people. also try joining some groups that you might have people you could have something in common with. or talk to someone you know won't judge you. you have to pick the right kind of people to be friends with and they'll be the ones to be there for you. so get the mean people out and the nice ones in.
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If people are making fun of you for your height, then they're shallow & jealous. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being tall. You actually have an advantage that a lot of other kids don't. If you go to a concert, you can see better. You can go for sports that are good for tall people like volleyball or basketball.
I think being hands on can be bad sometimes if you don't know the person well. Some people don't really like hugs or being touched & probably get upset that you're a touchy person. I think you should be careful about who you hug. Pay attention to their body language. If they don't seem welcoming to an incoming hug, then don't hug them.
Are you the type of person who's just TOO nice? People might not take you seriously if you're too nice because they think they can walk all over you. The best I can say for that is to just pick & choose what you're nice & serious about.
If your best friends ditched you, then they're obviously not your best friends. They're rude, and pathetic, and not to mention FAKE. They were never your true, real friends because if they were, they would've stuck by you. You don't need them anyways.
I think you'll be just fine if you don't let this stuff bother you. Join some clubs, or try & get into sports. Keep to yourself, and you should be okay!
You don't need to switch schools. You just need to learn more about people. Don't contemplate suicide. This isn't that big of a deal. You'll be okay.
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I was in the exact same situation as you. I was bullied by my former "best friends" I put up with it for a few weeks... I was told that changing school could be even harder, so I changed my class, and made new friends. I still get called names by a few of 'em, but with my new friends I don't really care. Don't take major actions just yet, try changing your class.
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