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Orgasm
my boyfriend is great and does all he can to get me to my climax point, but i can never seem to let the orgasm release. i've tried pushing, i've tried relaxing but i just never seem to let it out.
i don't know what to do to help release it. i tense my muscles up.. but then do i push?
if anyone could give me any sort of advice it would be greatly appreciated! thanks!
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If you think about it too much and pressure yourself to have one, then you probably won't.
It could be that it's just not enough to make you orgasm properly, even though it feels good. Try different techniques, such as when you feel close to having one, have him speed up what he's doing/add a bit more pressure, etc
Have you ever had an orgasm alone? How did you achieve this? Did you "tense" and "push"? YOU shouldn't really be the one to "push" it out so to speak, it should push out of you, so don't try too hard to force it out, because as I said, it's not doing you any favours.
Try to visualise something that turns you on - that helps a lot.
Just enjoy what he's doing and don't think about trying to have an orgasm at the time he's pleasuring you. It'll come eventually.
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It could be you're trying to hard. Any tensing will
happen on its own. It isn't something you need to help along. There is no pushing involved.
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