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got him...now what?
this senior at my school started looking at me in the hallways back in october and so i told his friend that i thought he was cute. nothing happened though so i figured he wasnt interested even though i knew he was shy. we would still look at each other though. so recently a few weeks ago my good friend is going out with one of his friends and said she could set us up. i was reluctant since nothing happened before but i decided to go for it. she tells her boyfriend to tell the guy (alex)that i thought he was hott and that i wanted to hang out but he didnt tell alex that it was me. i figured he would know it was me though. the weekend we were supposed to all hang out me, alex, my friend and her bf, they got in a fight so it didnt end up happening and i was pretty dissapointed. the next weekend i didnt even know we were going to her bf's house but we went and half way through alex comes and i had no idea he was coming although it was in the back of my head. everyone was pressuring me to go up to him and i kept telling them that i would make my move when i was ready. before i know it my friends bf goes up to him and tells him i wanna hook up. so i follow my friend and basically we hooked up even though it was pretty awkd in the beginning but anyway so that was two weeks ago. the following week in school it was so awkd cause the whole school was talking about it and i avoided him cause i was nervous and didnt know what he thought about it. i thought maybe he was embarassed. he doesnt usually hook up with people i hear. but basically im just so confused cause i like this guy and have been waiting so long for something to happen and it finally did. but we havent talked since then...i know hes shy but i am too and im the one that has made all the moves, ive done everything to show him i like him, he knows i think hes hott, i initiated the hook up, i asked for his number. i have no idea what he thinks! ugh part of me says to just forget it and move on but another part feels like i finally got him so i dont wanna lose him since i have the chance. last week we didnt look at each other at all, but this week we have been making eye contact everyyy day but havent talked. last monday he asked my friend if i talk about him and she said no..idk if thats a good thing. i have no idea what to do. maybe he just wanted to hook up? idk. what do you think he thinks of us hooking up? should i even bother anymore? what would you do? plus his friends always talk about it so it makes me feel awkrd. any advice is reallyy appreciated<3
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
you need to make the first move if you want it progress. but you also got to think about that other guy, if you want him in your life. cause if you do you're going to need to take his feelings into account and not do anything with alex. but if you definetly want alex make a move. you can text him first and say i don't want it to be awkward anymore so lets talk. or something like that. and then hopefully go guys will start talking during school.
good luck.
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Do not be silly!
This guy is obviosuly shy and deffinitely into you. If you got his number text him and say whats up. Sometimes you have to go for what you want and if he asked about you..HE WANTS YOU. Start smiling at him when yall make eye contact. Show him youre still interested. He probably avoided you after because he wasnt sure how you felt about him. Basically my advice is..GO FOR IT :)
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