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I just started talking to this guy and he seems really cool. We go to the same school but we've never talked in person before. He randomly sent me a message on facebook then we started texting. He wants us to hang out together but I'm worried he just wants to get in my pants. People have told me to stop talking to him because he just wants to hook up. I want to hang out with him but what do i do if he tries anything? I don't want to do anything with him I just want to hang out as friends. How can i make this clear to him?
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Hey i think that you should hang out with him outside. First get to know him because even though they tell you he just wants to hook up it doesn't really mean that hes like that. But try to be aware of his intentions. without hanging out with him you wont really know what he wants. when you realize what he wants then you can decide what is your decesion. but first try it out cuz even though he might just be any other guy , if you walk away this might have been a great oppurtunity at love. :)
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you can just hang out with him now cause you don't know for a fact that hes like that but if he does try anything you're not comfortable with tell him. say i really like you but i'm not ready for that yet. i want to wait. if hes like no or anything. say well i'm not a slut and if thats all you want then i'm sorry cause i don't want to do that.
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Well before you hang out you either need to tell him face to face or text or something. Make it clear that your not the kinda person to do that stuff. That you have no intentions of doing that kinda stuff with him. If that's the reason for him wanting to hang out with you, you need too tell him to leave you alone.
Good Luck!
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Does he, in anyway, try to flirt with you? Has he ever made sexual advances towards you?
Tell him how it is if he tries anything. Tell him you think he's a really cool guy and you would love to be just friends and absolutely nothing more. You not the kind of girl who hooks up with guys. You don't have to be a jerk about it, just tell him in a gentle yet strong voice and approach.
Hope I helped
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