Hey my name is aris i am 17 years old. I love giving advice to everyone. i am a very freindly,open minded, non judgemental, non critical person. i am very cheerful and anyone who needs advice i am always here to help.
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Hey everyone. Recently, i've been having problems with my self-cofidence. I use to be so confident and loving with myself untill about two weeks ago. I don't know what happended to me, but everything just went downhill. I started to feel hideous, and not good enough for some people. Another major thing is that i don't stand out in a crowd. If im with my friends, (who are GORGEOUS) guys tend to go straight to them and i'm always left hanging. They don't want to associate themselves with me i believe, and they rather would talk to another girl. Even i admit, there is nothing wrong with me, but i don't have a special quality that would make guys want to hang out with me or remember me. If anyone needs more information, i give write down more and anyone has ever felt this way and dealt with it, it is appreciated if you help me out with some advice. Thank you very much. (link)
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i think that everyone is beautiful in his or her own way. THink about what is it that made you feel so down? and about you not standing out in the crowd, who is their really to impress. i know maybe you think theirs cute guys in your school to impress but imagine impressing a guy that only wants to take advanatge of you. plus the right guy will always come in the right time. dont rush life, and enjoy being a teenager. :)
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so, i had sex for the first time ever last month and i thought the person that i had it with would be with me forever.. but he broke up with me, and now we don't talk. do you think i was a booty call? it hurts cuz it was special to me, ya know? what do i do? i'm so heartbroken, i don't know what to do. (link)
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dam boo he was such a jerk. to him you were a booty call he just used you. but take it easy and next time be aware of who you have sex with and their intetions. first times supposed to be special with someone you love and he just took advanatage of your innonsence. theirs nothing much you can do just be strong and be careful next time. as for him he'll get his without you having to do anything :)
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my boyfriend thinks its hot when i call him daddy, but i feel wierd calling him that, but i want to cause he likes it, how do i get over it and jus be able to?? lol (link)
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you'll get used to it trust me just use it in a flirty way and be playful. use it randomly.
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i know everyone likes being talked to dirty.
i love sex, im a sex feen. but i cant express (verbally) how i want things. i usually end up getting on top and doing what i want instead of telling my man how to make it just right. sometimes im imbaressed, and i really want to be able to be sexy and have fun but i need help.
basicially, i need someone to help guide me on what to say, when to say it, and what is sexy to a man. (link)
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lol well let me tell you that i feel the same way. sometimes i tell my man that i want to say sexy thngs and that i can imagine me saying sexy things while havng sex but i never did. the only thing would say is oh daddy. but just the other day i loved sex with him and i was able to say some naughty things.i felt so relaxed and i felt like i was able to say all those things because i felt it in me. so boo take your time and start off with some simple words. trust me. :)
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I just started talking to this guy and he seems really cool. We go to the same school but we've never talked in person before. He randomly sent me a message on facebook then we started texting. He wants us to hang out together but I'm worried he just wants to get in my pants. People have told me to stop talking to him because he just wants to hook up. I want to hang out with him but what do i do if he tries anything? I don't want to do anything with him I just want to hang out as friends. How can i make this clear to him? (link)
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Hey i think that you should hang out with him outside. First get to know him because even though they tell you he just wants to hook up it doesn't really mean that hes like that. But try to be aware of his intentions. without hanging out with him you wont really know what he wants. when you realize what he wants then you can decide what is your decesion. but first try it out cuz even though he might just be any other guy , if you walk away this might have been a great oppurtunity at love. :)
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hiiii my name is . . . welllll it shouldn't matter but i'm 15 years old . female . my boyfriend is 17 and well I want to do "it" with him but i'm very shy and I have lots of debates with myself. like I hate the way vaginas look lol . I don't know what to do if it hurts a lot . I won't be able to look him into his face . that's just how shy I am ! ! ! . & like I feel very insecure about the "odor" or "scent" of my vagina . because I never smelled anyone else's so like I don't know if it's wrong . I already went to the gynechologist (i probably spelled that hecka wrong) . she gave me medicine for bv bacterial somethin . & like I don't want to open my legs to him and get embarrassed :(
so please someone help me with some comforting and truthful words .
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Hey i dont really think you;re ready for sex. First of all think to yourself how much you really have to do it right now. Just because he's experienced i hope that he's not forcing you or pressuring you to do anything. I beleive that you have to find a way to not be shy because with you being shy its going to be more difficult for you to tell your boyfreind what you feel. Every vagina has different scents and as long as you stay clean its all that really matters. be honest with your boyfreind and tell him what you feel and if hes not okay with what you feel think twice if hes not only wantig sex from you.
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Well I've been married goin on about a year, I love my wife, we've been together since middle school, and we've been havin sex since middle school! Its always been, good you know the basic sex life! Well here's the problem, I've always told her to up her anty u know(get a lil crazy in bed) well since we've been married she has, well not quite what I expected, she likes me to slap her and choke her, I've never been that wild, so I act like I love it, but I really can't stand it! I jus don't know how to tell her? I don't wanna break her heart or be rough durin sex, wait it gets worse we have sex every night, and before it was 3 times a month, please I need some advice, what should I do? (link)
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Hey i think you should realize that you're not in such a hard situation. i think she might have got confused when you told her to anty up a little bit. her antying up made her try to imitate what she has seen in movies or any sexual she has seen. i think you should be honest with her and let her know that you are not really comfertable doing this. I think that you should try to figure out another way to please her in bed, or another way to enjoy sex or stimulating eachother. Are you into trying new things? then how bout trying some sex games for couples, or there is alot of other stimulating objects. Being honest is the best thing to do. And if you're afraid of talking to her in person try to find another way to communicate with her.
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