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booty call?
so, i had sex for the first time ever last month and i thought the person that i had it with would be with me forever.. but he broke up with me, and now we don't talk. do you think i was a booty call? it hurts cuz it was special to me, ya know? what do i do? i'm so heartbroken, i don't know what to do.
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okay well,if he broke uhp with you a week after
haveing sex with uu i find that not right at all.
but it depends on if he gave a credibble reason
or not to break up with you, if he just ended it
right then in there without giving a reason then
it was a booty call, but most guys are like that
they come into your life and don't know what
there actually there for, but its okay just
keep on moveing hun don't let his mistake of
leaveing you kill you because if hes stupid
enough to walk out and leave something he
could have made a great relationship out of
then hes not worth the pain, im sure you'll
find someone out there who will respect you
for you. and not sex, because theres gottah
be one guy who can keep his pants on in this
world. yahhknoow? just keep moveing.
hope i've helped.
_torii x0o
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dam boo he was such a jerk. to him you were a booty call he just used you. but take it easy and next time be aware of who you have sex with and their intetions. first times supposed to be special with someone you love and he just took advanatage of your innonsence. theirs nothing much you can do just be strong and be careful next time. as for him he'll get his without you having to do anything :)
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yea thats what i thought to im 17 and messed up badly in my past and shouldnt have sometimes i wish i could have saved myself for marrage but i was like 15 when i lost mine sadly and now i really regret it because i found a guy that truely loves me and tells me everyday he wants to marry me and we also have a kid together, but bak to your question know that not everyone is perfect ok and you made a mistake everyone does but dont blame yourself or feel ashamed cuz i did, and it really sucked, guys are jerks i dont know why they think taking advantage of a girl is cool because its not we get hurt more than they do and we have bounderies we want our first to be special who doesnt and they say they love you because they know your a virgin and they like it that way cuz your tight, but hun just forget about him and tell him that hes a jerk and he doesnt deserve a girl like you, your way better than him just keep your head up high and eventually you will find that very special person that will make you very happy like i did i havent forgotten my passed but when im with my BF everything just goes away you will find that someone it just takes time, and remember time heals all wounds:). I hope i helped you and im sorry you had to loose your virginity to a total jerk off.
your so much better than that.
x.o.x.o.
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Well maybe you was but the first person you do have sex with is most likely not gonna be the one your gonna be with the rest of your life but you will find the right one let things fall into place and you will find him.
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I know he was special to you and he should not have done that. But it already happened and there is nothing you can do to change that. What you can and need to do now is to move on. Relationships always will bring joy and pain. Nothing is perfect in this world. What needs to be done is to savor the good and move past the bad. This may not seem easy right now, but you will get over him. Wounds, whether emotional or physical, no matter how deep will always fight to heal. And when you are older, you will remember this stupid, insensitive guy who once broke your heart but didn't crush your soul. And you will realize, you are so much better without him. Good luck.
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Sounds like more than likey you were. But he may also have some issues with getting close with someone. A lot of guys do I know that I am a guy and I have those issues. But my best advice is that time will heal the pain and you will move on I know that it was special but you can either decide that, that one doesn't count or you can just move along with time and find another guy to share that special moment with.
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I've been there SO many time, and let me first of all say that I'm extremely sorry you had to go through it. I know how that feels.
Here's what I had to learn the hard way. First of all, he didn't and doesn't care about you, and I know that hurts to hear. Second, there's a reason why people promote abstinance. The guy who will stick by you without sex is the one who really cares for you, and the one who keeps asking or pushing for it will eventually dump you, or will dump you after you give it to him. I know it sounds cliché, but it's true. Besides, you know your value. You are way to special to give yourself away to just anyone. Make sure that the next is there for you, not your body.
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unless their was a reason for thee break up. yes he used you. Although ur heartbroken.dont let it get the best of you. u deserve someone who will treat you rite. and when he sees you happy again hell regret it.
goood luck.
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I agree. We live in this generation of "Hit it, and quit it's." I know it hurts now, but you will get over it in time. And I know how hurtful it can be when it happens. Your best bet is learn from it, and do your best to forget about it. And remember you aren't alone, tons of girls have gone through it. Good luck!
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Sigh.. guys like this are what makes women talk so low about them.. these are the 'hit it and quit it' guys.. guys who just smooth talk you.. get into your pants.. then leave... =/ I wish I could help you in mending your feelings... but I honestly can't.. time will heal it hun.. just try and hold on to the dignity you have... and trust me.. more types of guys will come your way... just don't give it up so easily.. try and build a relationship first hun... Good luck!
Uniq :]
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