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How do I get over him? It's been 3 months and I'm still struggling.
Female,14 (link)
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It's different for everyone. My first love was when I was fifteen, and I'm almost twenty now, and I can honestly say I never completely healed. We still talk, and he still can cause so much pain.
But there were other guys, one I was over five seconds after he broke up with me. I still am friends with him too.
You have to remember that you are very young, and there will be tons of guys. I know when I went through it I thought it was the end of the world, every memory went through my head all the time. Eventually I began to hate him, and started healing once I forgave him for hurting me.
Focus on other things, and try to remember that there will be tons more guys. It is what got me through each break up. You are too young to find the "one" now. Try not to get too serious too fast, you are young enjoy it. I regret getting serious so fast with all my boyfriends, because I missed out on the fun simple relationships.
Good luck.
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so, i had sex for the first time ever last month and i thought the person that i had it with would be with me forever.. but he broke up with me, and now we don't talk. do you think i was a booty call? it hurts cuz it was special to me, ya know? what do i do? i'm so heartbroken, i don't know what to do. (link)
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I agree. We live in this generation of "Hit it, and quit it's." I know it hurts now, but you will get over it in time. And I know how hurtful it can be when it happens. Your best bet is learn from it, and do your best to forget about it. And remember you aren't alone, tons of girls have gone through it. Good luck!
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So i have been dating this guy for about two weeks now...
And things have been soo amazing, i don't think i could ask for anything better then having him in my life right now. But before we started going out, this girl told him that she wanted to meet up with him and hook up. He told me she was being all flirty and then he asked me if i would be comfortable with it because we have been talking so much...
I told him ofcoarse i wouldn't be comfortable with it but we werent going out so he could do whatever he wants. He chose not to go because he said he cared about me too much to loose me. Then about 3 weeks later he asked me to be his girlfriend. Things are going fine until i see his facebook status 'Cant get this out of my mind, and i know it wont be worth it and ill screw things up but something tells me to go for it...'
So were in the mall together and he tells me this same girl has told him that if things dont work out with 'that girl' that she'll always be here. He told me he said 'alrite cool'.
The he told me she was a giant creeper and started making fun of her...
I dont know what that means but i am really worried he's gonna dump me for her.
Is there anything i could do? (link)
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My best advice is don't sweat it. If you're still young, then he's just a boy. I know it seems like he's the world right now, but if he's dumb enough to dump you for some girl, that he will probably get bored with after a month, then it's his loss. I've been there before, and I've waited around for a guy so he could "explore" his options. I've also been dumped by a guy for another girl he thought was better, and then he dumped her for another girl. It's just how some guys are.
There will be tons of guys. I know it sounds like something your mother would say. But it's true. Don't spend your time worrying about the "what ifs". Enjoy the moments you are with him. I use to worry all the time with my current boyfriend, but now I realized it is better to not worry and live in the moment. If something bad did happen like that, then I would deal with it when it did.
Your best bet is to forget about it. But be careful also. If he has more status's like that, or your gut tells you somethings wrong. Confront him.
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