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Q: ok well i have been deprest for a year now but i also self harm i cut,bang my head and bit my self i di all this because it helps releave all the pain but fot the past 3days i havent eaten or drank anythin because the site of it makes my heave and be sick i dont know what to do anymore please help i am femail aged 18.

please note that i have dyslexia and have looked over it again
I have this same problemm. But for a much lonqer time period.

Pain doesnt help it makes it worse.
(from personal experience)

if you can stop STOP before it qets worse.
Even if you cant stand the site of food you should try eaten atleast 1 bite just close your eyes and hold your nose.

and dont worry bout dyslexia.(:

Q: hey,
would you classify this as depression or something else.
*Wanting to be alone most of the time.
*getting really upset over nothing.
*self harming(cutting etc).
*not talking much when normally really social.
*pushing away friends.
*feeling excluded from people.
Etc. Etc.
Thanks heaps.
Yess.

Q: I had sex not long ago, we used a condom and my boyfriend pulled out way before he ejaculated, but i've got this horrible feeling that i might be pregnant. Do you think this is possible? I mean he didn't cum and we used a condom!

But i'm really tired all the time and i'm peeing loads... both of which are signs of pregnancy.

I still have two weeks left until my period is due, so its still too early to actually take a pregnancy test. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice?

thanks in advice. xx
you have that feeling becausee its a possibility. Its like your conshience. And it doesnt matter if he pulled outt or used a condom there is always pre-cum. And yes pregnancy is a possibility. And you mite be tired and peeing alot because your getten your period because thats siqns of that too. But within 2 or 3 weeks, if you dont get your period. take a pregnancy test.


Q: so, i had sex for the first time ever last month and i thought the person that i had it with would be with me forever.. but he broke up with me, and now we don't talk. do you think i was a booty call? it hurts cuz it was special to me, ya know? what do i do? i'm so heartbroken, i don't know what to do.
unless their was a reason for thee break up. yes he used you. Although ur heartbroken.dont let it get the best of you. u deserve someone who will treat you rite. and when he sees you happy again hell regret it.


goood luck.

Q: i smoked pot with my friend and one of her friends i didn't like it but we are gonna do it again. should i do it or not???
If you dont like it dont do it.
Not that hard to say no. If their your friends they wont care.

Q: Does it look Really Really fake ? or orange ? or does it look natural ?
it depends. Their are different settings on how orange you want to go. Most of the time it looks fake. To be honest before tryinq spray tanning you should try tanning lotion. Its more simple,less expensive and more natural. You can get it at bath and body works :)

Q: What does it mean if you're horny a lot but you don't really enjoy sex? For me sex isn't bad, it's just boring, not that my partner is bad at it, I just get bored, but I'm always horny and I like it better when he fingers me then when we have intercourse. So what does it mean if you are always horny and arn't a big fan of sex?
This happens to alot of people. Many find foreplay more exciten. Obviously theirs realy nothen to do. Just have foreplay instead or b4 sexx maybe tht will help.
qood luck :)

Q: do guys think vaginas taste good? and is their anything girls can eat to make themselves taste better? or things to stay away from? thankss.
It realy depends on the guy.
And washen properly prevents bad taste.

Q: I'm 18/female.
My period was due today(March 12), Im always right on time but I had protected sex last night and my period hasn't come yet so I was wondering, If i have sex(protected of course) a night before my period is due, what happens? When will my period come?
I wouldnt jump to conclusions rite away. It takes 48hours for sperm to fertilize an egg. You cant get pregnant everynite. If it doesnt come within a week you should either go to your doctor and tell him/her or you should take a pregnancy test. But once again dont panic. And dont jump to conclusions. It could just simply be latee.

:)

Q: Okay so this guy i am dating is 16 and im 14 so i really like him he has a great personality and every thing i wanted and he Tell's me he love's me and everything,But how do i tell my mom im dating him when she does not want me to have a boyfriend or anything and i think it make's it even worst that he is 16 because i think she will be really upset with me and i don t want to make her mad at me for that.
The lonqer you dont tell her the more mad your mom will get. You should sit her down and tell her. Then tell her how much you like him and that he respects you. Be passive tho. If she gets mad and you get defensive it makes it worse. And 2yrs is not a big age difference at all so maybe she wont flip out.Also let her meet him.

GOOD LUCK :)

Q: So do guys expect a shaved vagina or is it normal to have your hairs still intact?

Should it just be shaved a little so that it's not a giant bush or should it be more shaved than that?


Do they care about the hair down there?
It really depends on the person. Most people either trim it or shave it completly. But its mostly up to youuu. "Most" guys dont care aslonq as its not a huge bush.

Q: this is a completely random question but iwas just wondering, can you have sex and have a 0% chance of pregnancy if you didn't start your period yet?
If you have sex theirs always a chance of pregnancy. Protection or not. But theirs plenty of ways to avoid pregnancy. Usen your stuff properly etc.


Q: just a few questions about shaving your clit..

1) do you only shave downward?

2) how do you avoid red bumps?

3) how many days after you shave should you wait to shave again?
Those red bumps are inqrown hairs. You cant avoid them. You should wait 5 days to a week to shave again tho tht will help a little with the bumps.

Q: im 15/ female

ok this is just a little akward...my boyfriend and i had sex 5 times yesterday and yeah i like it really rough and hard but this morning and today my vag has been really sensitive and sore is this normal? im sure it is but i really don't know.Please help me...
Yess this is normal.

Q: Okay so this is kind of an akward question
But are vaginas supposed to be wet?
I really want my boyfriend to finger me
But I don't know if something wrong or not.
This happens to everyonee.
Your fine.
When you qet excited you qet wet.
Everyone doess:)

Q: well my boyfriend was fingering me he has done it more thatn onece but this time i started bleeding he said he had 3 fingers his nails were short. it was not a little bit of blood but it was not alot an hour later i stoped bleeding. Why did i bleed and is it possible he popped my cherry??
Yes thts most likely what happened.

Q: is it werid to say i prefer to do forplay wit me parnter rather than avin sex , am i just a freak or what :)
haha no thts perfectly normal.

Q: i lost my virginity to my current boyfriend. we've been having sex since october 2007. we haven't done it like a lot but i think it shouldn't still hurt by now. he's not doing anything wrong really. i've tried being on top and it wasn't too bad but it still doesn't really feel good. it still hurts a lot when he's on top too. anything i can do?
seee yourr doctor would be your best bett.

Q: I'm seventeen & a virgin.
so therefore i haven't had my cherry popped. i was just wondering, when you have sex & say when i do maybe with my boyfriend.. does it pop when your having sex & will it just bleed? or will it bleed like after your done having sex? because that is really awkard if it just happens while your having sex.
If it bleeds it bleeds a little bit. Not like when you have your period. Andd it happens while your havinq sexx. Its not akward at all you will be fine(:

Q: OK ive had sex 8 times so far (with 1 man) and i dnt think i have cummed yet or maybe i did but i just dont know ? Any ideas why?
well cumminq is the over excitement in both boys and qirls.

youu def should know if you haveee.

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