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the sex hurts
i lost my virginity to my current boyfriend. we've been having sex since october 2007. we haven't done it like a lot but i think it shouldn't still hurt by now. he's not doing anything wrong really. i've tried being on top and it wasn't too bad but it still doesn't really feel good. it still hurts a lot when he's on top too. anything i can do?
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seee yourr doctor would be your best bett.
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Lubricate yourself.. Either with foreplay where he fingers you, which will help you get lubricated more, or he can just buy a condom with alot of lubrication. It works.. And if he hasn't gone all the way in, your hymen could still be in tact, check up at the doctor's if the lubricating condoms don't help..
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alrighty. have you been checked out by a doctor? no? there's this pesky thing called a hymen. sometimes its really thick and doesn't bust worth a damn. a doctor can fix that for you.
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Hello,well as you may know,sex is different for everyone and it just takes some time for others to get used to it.What I suggest is that you make sure you are well lubricated before he goes inside of you,you can do this with foreplay,if he fingers you and maybe goes down on you it should make you well lubricated and aroused.When he goes inside of you make sure he takes his time,if he simply shoves it in it will definitley hurt because it is still very painful for you. Make sure you communicate this to your boyfriend so it will be pleasurable for the both of you:) When you arent well lubricate it causes friction and can cause unbearable pain and is rarley ever pleasurable. You guys can take it slow also,he can only go inside of you partially every time you have sex and go deeper each time so you can get used to him penetrating inside of you. When you take it slow also have him not be as rough so it wont cause tearing of any kind it can cause pain especially for you.So just use those tips and take it slow and you will be used to it in no time.I hope this helped,the best of luck to you and if you have any other questions on this topic or any other questions you can send me a private message and I would love to help:)
SINCERLY,DIAMOND:)
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