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Q: why do guys like to give anal sex. I know that most girls don't like it but most guys insist on it. I dont understand why though, just the thought of it to me is gross for both parties...so if any guys could answer this question for me...thanks then

Im not a guy but i know alot of guys that want that and they tell me why because i ask them why they think thats good to do anal sex and most of them say its because your tight back there and it feels better than where they regularly put there egos..lol..i also think its disgusting and puts you at major risk of any transmited diease because it rips your tisue down there

Q: i MIGHT be pregnant. like, if anything, id be about 1 or 2 weeks along. im not sure. but all day today whenever i would move weirdly, id get a sharp pain in my abdominal area. and earlier my boyfriend picked me up and swung me around and my body twisted and the pain went really sharp in my stomach. it hurt really bad, and it has ceased a little, but not stopped completely. could it have hurt the young fetus, or is this something else? like, am i having a miscarriage?

as i said, its too early to take a pregnancy test, but it is possible. ive been having a few symptoms. but this pain has not stopped. if im NOT pregnant, what could this be? the pain also happens when i press down on my stomach. if i barely apply any pressure on my stomach, it hurts badly. can someone answer my questions, please? thank you to anyone who answers.

Hi, I dont know much about your pains because im not a doctor i would like to become a nurse so i do a lot of fun research on all kinds of things so ill give you a website to look at about miscariges i always go to this website for research...hope it helps.

Heres the website below:

http://www.mydr.com.au/babies-pregnancy/miscarriage-overview

Q: i think i might be pregnant. i dont remember the exact date when i had sex, but it was earlier this month. but i think im already experiencing some symptoms. is it too early to be having symtoms? because my breasts are very tender at times, and they are growing. i havent been having lower back pains, but sometimes i am getting nauseous. and the most recent one is that today around 7 PM, (its now 11:09 PM) i started cramping really badly, like i was on my period. i put a pad on, thinking i may need it. but when i went to the bathroom a few hours later, there wasnt ANY blood. at all. but i was cramping REALLY badly, im still cramping a little, because i took some asprin and its wearing off.

(back to my question)

when is the earliest i could start getting symptoms, if i am pregnant. and what would the earliest symptoms be? and when would be a good time to go take a test? thanks.

Here is an atricle on your symptoms i got from the website i gave you is below. make sure you read it all and heres the website again if youd like to go visit the web page and get more information.

http://www.babyhopes.com/articles/pregnantperiod.html

Can you be pregnant and still have a period?
To start with, always remember that pregnancy and periods can never go along simultaneously. If you are indeed pregnant, technically, you cannot get your periods. Missing your period is actually the first sign of pregnancy. Bleeding in early pregnancy is a common occurrence, but this does not signal a true menstrual cycle. You must realize that the hormones that are active during pregnancy totally prevent ovulation. As we know, ovulation is the time in your cycle when the egg is released into the uterus and women experience menstrual bleeding. Since the egg in pregnant women is already fertilized, ovulation does not occur and hence no bleeding.

Early Pregnancy Bleeding
However, it is not uncommon to find that many women do report getting what seem like regular periods during early pregnancy. The bleeding that pregnant women complain about though is not truly a menstrual period. It can be called as early pregnancy bleeding. The perception of having a menstrual period (or more than one) in early pregnancy can confuse the due date and delay some pregnant women from seeking appropriate and timely medical care. In instances where a couple is unaware that they are expecting, it can be particularly emotionally challenging to find out about the pregnancy at the same time they are told that the bleeding might signal a problem.

It can be hard to calculate your date of delivery when you aren’t sure which period was the true last menses. A number of timing issues can help provide a ballpark estimate of when conception took place. Pay attention to these dates for help - when did you have unprotected intercourse, when did the pregnancy test turned positive (especially if there were some negative results before the positive one), and when you first noticed symptoms of pregnancy (such as breast tenderness or nausea). An ultrasound is the best technique to determine the baby’s due date if you are not sure about one or more of these dates.

Identifying the due date is quite important in prenatal care, since some tests, like the triple check, are standardized by the exact number of weeks of gestation. In addition, most couples as well as their practitioner want to have some idea of when to expect the baby. Here are some explanations for what may seem like regular menstrual flow when you are pregnant.

Implantation bleeding
Many mothers-to-be get a few days of bleeding right around the time that the early embryo is implanting into the wall of the uterus. Generally, this occurs five days after conception and may be confused with an early period. This implantation bleeding is normal and is not a sign of any problem with the pregnancy.

If you have irregular periods or have not kept track of your cycles, you can easily confuse this bleeding with a menstrual period. If it is counted as a menstrual period, this can lead to a mistakenly later due date. In reality the last period from which the due date should be calculated would be the one prior to the implantation bleeding.

Conceiving while using birth control pills
Studies have shown that women who get pregnant while on the Pill might also have intermittent bleeding. There can be a few episodes of this bleeding in these women before they can ascertain that they are pregnant. The calculation of the due date based on the last menstruation will most likely be inaccurate. In such women, it is advisable to go on for ultrasound to date a pregnancy.

Q: normally i don't like questions about guys but now i'm the one who's stuck between a rock and a hard place. this will probably be long & confusing & i'm sorry.

i'm 18/f.

i dated this guy [A] for 2 years. he's 19. we were each others everythings, first loves, etc. broke up once for a year, went back to each other, were completely perfect, wanted to live together, planned to get married, everything. and it wasn't just like teenage fantasy talk, we were dead ass serious. well about a month and a half ago we started having big problems, he totally changed with me, stopped showin emotion, suddenly there were other girls in the picture, and just really became an ass towards me and started doin things that he knew good & well would hurt and upset me. i tried to explain myself SO MANY times but it never got through, so we had a hard break up. i thought i was over it. enter guy [B] i've known him casually for about 4 years. he's turning 20 in a week. we were friends till about august then we started kinda talkin. at the end of september he got sent to chicago for the army and we lost contact so nothing happened. but then he got discharged bc of broken bones. he lives an hour and a half away from me and last weekend he asked me to come down to see him. everything was like normal again, he basically treated me like his girlfriend and asked me if i wanted to start talkin again because he does and that he got pretty jealous when he saw i was back with [A] after being broken up. the problem with him is that not only does he live an hour and a half away, but he doesn't really put forth effort to see me. when i'm with him, you can tell we like each other and it feels right with him, but he's only come to see me once where i live, every other time i go down there and we don't even really talk regularly. but i still can't help the fact that i like him. so guy [C]. he's 17. we met at the beach on spring break, and my group of friends and his hung out the ENTIRE time. and we were basically a couple on spring break and have been talkin ever since, so we've known each other two weeks but it feels like a lot longer. he lives 45 mins - an hour away from me and i've been down there to see him once and he's come up here both by himself and with his friends [to see me and my friends] about 5 times so far since we got home from the beach. we talk all the time and i can tell he really likes me and i do like him so we're talkin/datin. okkk well today my ex [A] came to visit me and ended up kissing me. THEN he sends me this recording via text msg of this song he wrote/played/sang for me whenever we were having probs and stuff right before we broke up, and it was soo sweet about how all he wants is another chance and he'll prove to me he'll make right, that this can't be the end and we can't be saying our goodbyes, please forgive me i'm just begging for one more chance.

so i'm stuck. [B] is most likely not the smartest choice & yet i still like him. [A].. well after we broke up i swore i was done, although he said he did want to eventually get back together in a few months or so down the road. the problem is he's working two jobs, i'm in school and i work, and i'm going to college 4 hours away in august. so i don't even know how we would work, but at the same time, he's my first love, and even though i've been saying i'm over it this whole time, after i got that super sweet message tonight, it kills me to think we might really be over and i'll hate it if this really is the end. at the same time though, i'm really starting to like [C] and i and everyone else can tell that he likes me and he does actually put forth the effort. but at the same time, i feel bad "dating" him when i have two other guys in the picture. i'm not neccessarily looking for a serious relationship any time soon bc [A] and i haven't been broken up even two months, but i feel this is such a mess already that i don't want it to get worse.

ugh, sorry for the length, but any tips? =/

Well first of all WOW that was alot to read it kinda hurt my eyes..lol..but anyways im 18 to and i have had that same problem except i didnt have to other guys in the picture but i think that you should stay with C he seems to be a good guy so far but my BF is like A that same way and im still with him but he doesnt treat me the way i want to be treated and it sucks he doesnt trust me and i cant even hang out with my friends because he thinks that im guna go party and get with another guy (i guess hes to protective or a jelouse kind of guy) but i hate it so if A is that way well pry not as bad as mine is but i would stick with C but i know how hard it can be to get over someone you really love its hard but maybe in the future is worth all the heart ache but i dont know but C seems like the guy i would go with if i could get over A then C is who id go with i wouldnt think about B jus cut him out of the picture especially if you guys have been friends for 4 years then you dont wanna ruin the friendship. well i hope i helped. But other than that i think that you should just let things fall into place, god will apoint you in the right way he does for me all the time. I pray and it seems to work for me.

Q: I definitely need someone's advice who knows what there talking about. I am on Yaz birth control I have been for about a year now, I went away with my friends this past weekend and forgot to take 2 of my pink pills. I am a sunday starter. I forgot the pill staurday of my second week and sunday beginning my third week. I woke up this morning and had my period which i was not suppose to get until next weekend. I took saturday and sundays pill today Monday April 20th. and then i took my monday pill at my normal time. But not what do i do? The website said to take until sunday then throw out the pack but does that mean i take it for a whole other week and then start a new pack? i am so confused and i need advice ASAP thank youu!

Hi, iam on birth control also but i dont take the pill because like me ill forget to take it so i got this birth control called the DEPO shot its a shot i get every 3 months and i never get periods i dont know anything bout birth control pills other than the people i know taking the pills until they are ready to have kids but then when they stop taking them so they can try to get pregnant they end up not being able to have babies later on in life so i think that if you cant remember to take the pills then get on the DEPO shot its more convienent for me and i dont ever get a period thats awsome. and sorry i didnt have any real advise for you about the pills so i thought id give you this advice. hope thats ok and good luck

Q: i just got my haircut and i hate it. the bangs are too short and the length is shorter than i wanted it. how long will it take the bangs to grow out and how long will it take the length to grow out can you estimate?!! is there anything i can do to make it grow faster. im wearing my hair up until it grows out!!!!!!

Hey i had that problem a while back when i got my hair cut at a place that ive never been before and i hated my hair cut so badly but thank god it grew back lol but after that i had a baby and i had to take prenatal vitamins and boy do they make your hair and nails grow so fastly so i would recomend that i dont think it would be bad to take them if your not pregnant i mean i still take them because i want my hair longer than it is but i still take them and im not sick or nething i feel great, so try that. Hope i helped

Q: so, I have this plain yellow t-shirt, and the thing is that it's slightly see through, so on the back you can see my bra.
I was just wondering whether I should wear a white or a yellow bra underneath it? I don't own a nude one...
So yes, which would be better?
Sorry for the weird question.

i have that same problem and all i do to fix it is wear a white muscle shirt under it i wear muscle shirts under all my shirts it keeps me from feeling naked..lol..idk why.
♥brown3y3z

Q: well, this has happened twice. I was doing the number two, lol. And after i was done, i wiped my rear and found some blood.. I'm only 17, and i dont know whats wrong.. Its freaking me out, especially because its happened twice. Please help!
Thanks..

Hi, this happens to me to i think but does it hurt when you go cuz when i go it hurts and there is blood after i whipe i think i need the stool softener thats on TV i think thats what you need if it hurts for you to go then it will make it more comfortable to go but other than that i think its normal and it pry depends on wat you eat. i hope i helped if it doesnt help then you should consult your doctor they have more experience

Q: Okay well my dad's pretty old and so gardening is like a big part of his life. Well this morning, he bought like a ton of soil for the garden/flowers and stuff and the huge pile was in front of our house and, well, I thought it was okay in my opinion for him to leave it there because he came around every often or so to scoops some in the wheel barrow and go back to the back yard and that people would be respectful these days but I was wrong.

What's WITH the kids these days? They're rude, gangly, disrespectful kids that cuss almost bad as a sailor and you'd think that they learn to respects other people’s stuff, but they DON'T!

My dad came inside and told me to get a band aid and there's this cut he got on his hand from a tool and he was ranting on about "those frocking kids" of how they took some and he chased them down the street and they threw it at other people’s house! They're like 12 and I'm 16 and I'm just so mad because it isn't that hard (unless they have a fetish with soil or something) because I respected other people's property when I was a kid and didn't even bother walking on their grass.

Like, I don't even know what to do. I get depressed easily and this just put me in a bad mood. What are parents even doing for kids these days?

I was just wondering on if you have any ideas that will make me feel better and any better ways to protect the yard the next time my dad works on it or to prevent any damage on our property from meddling kids? Oh because we have flowers in the front of the house and my dad fixed all the soil with it too so now the front has just empty rectangle pieces of fresh soil for flowers to grow and I don’t want the kids to jump on it, hork on it, etc (what am i saying? even kids are good! I mean BOYS).

thank you for reading this.

Hi, Im 16 to and I live in this small town, there are alot of little gangsters here well wannabe gangsters anyway and they like going around stealing stuff and spray painting there little "gang signs" everywhere and i hate it frankly it irratates the hell out of me and makes me wanna kill them literaly, but theres nothing i can do, so we got a big pitbull and let me tell you the pitbull keeps them away..lol..your dad pry doesnt think owning a pitbull will cure the problem because of all the horrable stories people say about the pitbull but our pitbull we got when it was just a little puppy, and hes the most cutest thing ever he wouldnt hurt a fly but when people come around during the night like how those little thugs run around at night getting in to things well they dont go around our house anymore, but other than that and servalence cameras theres not much you can do because because if you caught them on tape then you could report them to the police, enless you put bear traps on the ground to catch them but i think thats a little to the extreme..lol.. but yea like i said try getting a dog if not pitbull any dog will work as long as it knows how to bark
well good luck i hope everything works out ok. Karma is a beach and those little kids will get whats coming to them.

Q: i met this guy named chris at a kick-back. and he thought i was 18.. so like he started talking to me and stuff.. ad we ended up kissing.. but not having sex because im a virgin and i wasn't going to give it up to him. so when he found out i was 16 he was like tripping lol. cause he's a marine and hes going to be a cop in 2 years and what happened is illegal you know. i've been seeing him every saturday for 3 saturdays straight. cause we hang around with the same people.. the second time we hung out he talked to me but like it was whatever.. his friend told me that he liked me but that i was young.. i see older guys dating underage girls all the time.. but yeah and i saw him this past saturday cause we had a bonfire at the beach and it was cold so he hugged me and when we were saying bye he slightly touched my butt.. he didnt really grab it or anything though. but we do text a lot.. but i really want to be his girl-friend.. how do i pull that off?

HI, I did the same thing I was 16 and dating a 21 year old he was really sweet and stuff i never did anything with him because i was scared that i would get pregnant or some disease becuase i get scared like that and im really protective of myself but it was all good for a little while till one of my supposeble friends called the cops and said that he was raping me which wasnt true, and he ended up going to jail or prison or something i cant really remeber but anyway when he got out he had to move back home and he got his life ruined he cant get a job anywhr and he had to register as a sex offender how nice huh..lol..well anyway my point is, that you shouldnt date him until your at least 18 or 21 whenever your legal to do things, i dont know exactly what age that is, but just be his friend for now until your old enough that way his life doesnt get ruined because if hes in the marines thats a good job hes got and maybe when your older you guys could date and both be happy and he would make good money and support you, but theres nothing wrong with being friends till then you know? well i hope i made sense in this paragraph..lol..and i hope i helped you some.

Q:

Right now I'm really scared... So I hooked up with my friend on Friday, April 10th... I went down on him, and he didn't finish before I stopped.. I probably got a little pre-cum in my mouth if anything.

The next day or so.. I had a cold sore. It's April 14th now.. and its starting to heal... well almost all the way gone, but I also have soars on the top of my lips that I just noticed today.

Just two tiny little bumps though, and I have REALLY clear skin.. I never break out, I don't think it could have been anything I've eaten, because anything I've eaten has been things I've always eaten.

Could it be herpes? I mean, he's only been with one partner.. I'm not sure how many people she's been with though...

This was the second time we hooked up. The first time was about a month and a half ago, and we did the same things, just foreplay.. I went down on him, but he didn't finish before I stopped... And nothing ever happened after then, no break outs or anything... I don't know if I got any pre-cum in my mouth, I'm assuming some... but I really don't know..

Could this me herpes? I'm really scared.
Or is this just a coincidence...?

Please help.

Also, where can I get this checked out.. at a regular doctor's office?

Hi, I looked up herpes and here is wat i read:

Genital Herpes - CDC Fact Sheet

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What is genital herpes?
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What are the signs and symptoms of genital herpes?
What are the complications of genital herpes?
How is genital herpes diagnosed?
Is there a treatment for herpes?
How can herpes be prevented?
Where can I get more information?

Genital herpes is a sexually transmitted disease (STD) caused by the herpes simplex viruses type 1 (HSV-1) or type 2 (HSV-2). Most genital herpes is caused by HSV-2. Most individuals have no or only minimal signs or symptoms from HSV-1 or HSV-2 infection. When signs do occur, they typically appear as one or more blisters on or around the genitals or rectum. The blisters break, leaving tender ulcers (sores) that may take two to four weeks to heal the first time they occur. Typically, another outbreak can appear weeks or months after the first, but it almost always is less severe and shorter than the first outbreak. Although the infection can stay in the body indefinitely, the number of outbreaks tends to decrease over a period of years.

if you have little clear bubble things on the inside of your lips then dont worry about it just pop them because i have braces and i get little clear bubbles is wat i call them and all i do is pop them, but i dont know what your blisters look like so i couldnt tell you exactly but I think that you should get it checked and yea you just go to your regular doctor and have them check you out and they will tell you exactly. good luck i hope i helped.

heres a website with some information about herpes

http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/STDFact-herpes.htm

Q: So my friend thinks shes pregnant..
If she is.. she needs to get an abortion..
how much is that? and is there any other way of "killing" it
without like going to the doc for an abortion?

i feel so bad :[

there is no way.. like she cant keep the baby
its gonna ruin her life and her boyfriends life.
like seriously her parents will kick her out and his parents will kick my out too..
and she cant get planB because she has 0 money :[

Look i think abortions are really wrong, i am 17 and have a baby before when i first found out i was pregnant i was looking up abortions and how they kill them and let me say it was truely sad i couldnt believe how people could do things like that to an inosent baby, ill give you a website that tells how they kill babies before birth and its sad, so after i read that suff i totally changed my mind so i have my sweet beautiful baby boy and iam as happy as can be im still in school i have a sitter watching him and my life is not ruined and when people have abortions they feel very bad after they get this depression that is called postpartum depression kinda like what Brittany Spears had when she shaved her head and it is horable i had it after i had my baby and it made me wanna go crazy but thankfully i didnt, but there are other options to she could always give the baby up for adoption if she explained that to her parents im sure if she brought that subject up they would understand but it is a total blessing to have a baby in my life i couldnt be happier and i will be going to college even when i have a baby nothing is impossible, she could have a baby and still do what she wants to. but here is the website on abortions below

http://www.abortionfacts.com/literature/literature_9312ha.asp

Q: So i know the only safe sex is no sex. but me and my boyfriend have been dating and it's pretty serious. we both really want to do it, but i'm so paranoid about getting pregnant! even with a condom! any advice? I'm 15, i'm not ready to be a mom haha.

your right the only safe sex is no sex but i think that waiting for the right guy is way more worth it then getting pregnant with a guy that is going to leave you right after you guys have sex and think your 15, i am 17 and have a baby, i got pregnant when i was 16 and its hard work he takes alot of attention and takes up alot of my time (im not complaining) i love him so much, but i think that you should wait for the right guy because let me tell you my first time wasnt with the guy i wanted it to be and i ended up falling madley in love with him after cuz he was my first and i dont know what it is but when its your first time with someone then your emotions take control like you fall in love with him and when he breaks up with you it hurts badly and it takes along time to heal, and i finally healed but i wish i could have waited for the guy i have now it would have been worth the wait, so i hope you make a adult decision correctly, i know people that have had sex for the first time and got pregnant so just becareful i hope i helped some and i didnt mean to lecture you if i did, you should talk to your mother about sex especially if you have these feelings im sure she would be of more help to you because she has you.

Q: So yesterday (Sunday) my boyfriend and I were fooling around. Things got very heated, but there was no actual penetration. Both of us had our underwear off, however, but his penis only made contact with my vagina for a few seconds, when he was massaging my clit with it (not the actual hole). There was no precum at the moment, I had wiped it dry beforehand. I'm wondering if there could have possibly been any remanents on the head of his penis, and if there is any possible way they could have made their way into my actual vagina and gotten me pregnant. Like I said, there was no wetness, and he did not come. I'm just terrified. Please help!!

I believe in order for you to get pregnant he has to actually come alot inside of you because the sperms have to be able to swim up and find your egg that drops down when your on your period so if he didnt fully come inside you then its highly unlikely you would get pregnant because i have unprotected sex with my husband all the time and i make sure he doesnt come inside me but he has drips of cum on the tip of his penis and i havent got pregnant yet so i wouldnt worry to much about it look this stuff up on the net thats where i learn all my info, and if you get to worried about it theres nothing wrong with taking a pregnancy test just to make sure. I hope i helped :P

Q: So i am going through a point in my life where I'm starting to see and do things in new and completely different ways. I feel like an adult. I am making my own choices and decisions, and I am becoming independent. I am 17 years old. Although I know this is normal, and this is how people grow up, i feel as though I am truly alone, and responsible for my own future and my happiness. My parents are too old it seems, to understand or even try to. They are pretty much doing their own thing. My friends are always there to help me though of course, but sometimes i feel as though I need to get a strangers view on things. That's the whole point of this question i guess. I am feeling more alone everyday even though I am surrounded by people that love and care for me. my boyfriend doesn't get it, but i know he cares. same with my friends... I guess i just want an opinion about all this and how normal it is for my age, and if this has happened to any of you before, and how to deal with it or embrace it...
i guess i just feel confused about life's lessons. I've been learning so much lately its hard to make sense of all of it...

Hi, im 17 also, and i felt that way along time ago but i got over it at a certain point, its normal your growing up and your getting older and your starting to see that you dont need to be told what to do you want to make your own choices now and thats good but becareful about the choices you make ok, but i feel that way often, i feel like i dont need my parents and i cant wait to get out of my parents house and go to college already, so i think its normal but i would just ask your other friends if they feel the same way you do though they might not show it they pry feel the same way, so i would talk to your friends and open up to them, but im sure you will grow out of that stage its just another part of like. i hope i helped some.

Q: do yo love sex?
how big dick size did you have?
how many time you can cum?

no i dont love sex i dont see how people say its the greatest ever because i dont like it, and i dont pay attention to his size, sizes doesnt matter to me because its what is on the inside that matters and how he treats you and i dont know how girls cum.

Q: so, i had sex for the first time ever last month and i thought the person that i had it with would be with me forever.. but he broke up with me, and now we don't talk. do you think i was a booty call? it hurts cuz it was special to me, ya know? what do i do? i'm so heartbroken, i don't know what to do.

yea thats what i thought to im 17 and messed up badly in my past and shouldnt have sometimes i wish i could have saved myself for marrage but i was like 15 when i lost mine sadly and now i really regret it because i found a guy that truely loves me and tells me everyday he wants to marry me and we also have a kid together, but bak to your question know that not everyone is perfect ok and you made a mistake everyone does but dont blame yourself or feel ashamed cuz i did, and it really sucked, guys are jerks i dont know why they think taking advantage of a girl is cool because its not we get hurt more than they do and we have bounderies we want our first to be special who doesnt and they say they love you because they know your a virgin and they like it that way cuz your tight, but hun just forget about him and tell him that hes a jerk and he doesnt deserve a girl like you, your way better than him just keep your head up high and eventually you will find that very special person that will make you very happy like i did i havent forgotten my passed but when im with my BF everything just goes away you will find that someone it just takes time, and remember time heals all wounds:). I hope i helped you and im sorry you had to loose your virginity to a total jerk off.

your so much better than that.
x.o.x.o.

Q: i want to get a new foundation, im tanning for prom so i want one that will match my skin tone. i saw something from almay that you put on white and it matches with your skin tone, is it any good? or do you have anything to recommend to me? thankss

Hi, well if your gonna get some makeup to match your skin tone then go to sephora.com and go to the bare minerals thing and you can buy some that match they have a big big variety of makeup there and it works so good im like kinda white and i got the medium gold kind and it even blends in to my white skin you cant even tell that it dont match it made my skin look glowing its awsome i would o recoment them and the makeup is like 25.00 of 15.00 i cant really remember and the makeup keeps you from getting sunburnt and it lasts along time, well i hope i helps and when you go on the website you dont have to buy the whole set or nething you can jus go to sephora and look around that website and youll find it its a big long list with pictures of the makeup it really makes all blemishes and freckles go away like it says on tv i dont use anything else but that makeup now and you get free perfume samples to when u buy from the website so you can go glowing and smelling good..lol.. hope i helped some let me know how it turns out.

Q: 14/f

I've heard alot about lucid dreaming and I thought it was kinda cool lol. But it's kinda confusing. So what is it really? And how can you have it happen? I read stuff online but it didn't make complete sense to me. Thanks so much!

Hi, well There is nothing difficult to understand about the concept of lucid dreaming: lucid dreaming is simply dreaming while being aware you are dreaming. You can think of lucid dreaming as being conscious while dreaming. If, by chance, during a dream it suddenly dawns on you that you are dreaming, then you have experienced a lucid dream, regardless of whether you have been able to attain control of your dream. hope i helped some

Q: okay so to start im 16, hes 17 (both juniors) and we live about 20-25 mins away from each other. therefore, we can't see each other during the week cause of school and sports. he barely ever texts me and im always the one to call him. im so tired of always being the one to make the first call/text but i feel like if i don't, he won't and our relationship will just die. and i also miss him soo much come the end of the week and i can't wait to see him. i've talked to him already and i told him that i like being called, he called like once after that then it just stopped. and i know he really cares about me because when we're together he shows it...just not when we're apart =[ i understand that he has school and sports but i do too and i still have time to talk to him..i just don't understand...any advice? thanks so much.

Hi, i am 17 also and there could be alot of things on why hes not calling you, i hate to say it pry cheeting and to busy with whoever hes with to txt you or call you, or he just doesnt want to txt you and seem like a mush to call you he pry wants you to call him because he wants to feel special and idk i think its weird and hard to explain why hes not calling you hes pry just playing hard to get you know, guys do that alot i know at least 20 people that have BFs that dont call them but i think you should just not call him for a while and see if he calls you because if he really loves/likes you then he will call you eventually but if he dont then call him and talk to him and see whats going on why he doesnt call you and ask him if he still wants to be with you, or if your 17 you should have your lisence already shouldnt you, you could drive to wherever he is and go see him thats what i do because i have a BF that lives 20 miles from where i do and he dont have a car to come get me so i have to go get him, so i come over to his house and get him every weekend, and it works out fine and he txts me all the time and everything. well i hope i at least gave you some advice to help you if not im sorry im knew at this and trying to advance my advice..lol..:) well let me know if i could help anymore hope i helped some.

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