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i need boyfriend help =/
okay so to start im 16, hes 17 (both juniors) and we live about 20-25 mins away from each other. therefore, we can't see each other during the week cause of school and sports. he barely ever texts me and im always the one to call him. im so tired of always being the one to make the first call/text but i feel like if i don't, he won't and our relationship will just die. and i also miss him soo much come the end of the week and i can't wait to see him. i've talked to him already and i told him that i like being called, he called like once after that then it just stopped. and i know he really cares about me because when we're together he shows it...just not when we're apart =[ i understand that he has school and sports but i do too and i still have time to talk to him..i just don't understand...any advice? thanks so much.
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Hi, i am 17 also and there could be alot of things on why hes not calling you, i hate to say it pry cheeting and to busy with whoever hes with to txt you or call you, or he just doesnt want to txt you and seem like a mush to call you he pry wants you to call him because he wants to feel special and idk i think its weird and hard to explain why hes not calling you hes pry just playing hard to get you know, guys do that alot i know at least 20 people that have BFs that dont call them but i think you should just not call him for a while and see if he calls you because if he really loves/likes you then he will call you eventually but if he dont then call him and talk to him and see whats going on why he doesnt call you and ask him if he still wants to be with you, or if your 17 you should have your lisence already shouldnt you, you could drive to wherever he is and go see him thats what i do because i have a BF that lives 20 miles from where i do and he dont have a car to come get me so i have to go get him, so i come over to his house and get him every weekend, and it works out fine and he txts me all the time and everything. well i hope i at least gave you some advice to help you if not im sorry im knew at this and trying to advance my advice..lol..:) well let me know if i could help anymore hope i helped some.
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some guys actually like not having to call their girlfriend or text them. guys are lazy, and thats just easier for them. but if you really want to test him, just dont call/text him for a while and if he doesnt call/text you, then text/call him after a few days. if he REALLY does care, and he notices your not calling him, he'll want to call you.
this is the reason why i dont call or text my boyfriend ever. im afraid he'll get too used to not having to put any effort in. i always make him call me first :) try it. its really not that hard to have to wait for a call. and you have plenty of stuff to keep you busy. good luck!
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