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Tell my ex?
I miss my ex (we broke up about 2 years ago)
we are 'just friends' but really, really good friends; we share everything. EXCEPT that i still have feelings for him. and very strong ones...
should i tell him? if so help me about when/where/how
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Duh...If you still have feelings for him you should tell him.
It should be weather youre scared or not. if scared you should call him on the phone. say i miss us together,i want us to be more than friends,and talk about THE GOOD THINGS that happened in your relationship back then.
If not scared you should go over his house or meet him somewhere. Tell him the things you would say on the phone.
Good luck! ;)
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if these feelings have stayed for two years then it's obviously a big deal. that means it's best if you tell him. and it will make you feel so much better just to let it out.
a way to do it is just ask him to hang out one day. maybe a place you guys had a special date at that could bring back some old sparks. and then just striaght up tell him. theres no right and wrong way to go about it as long as the truth comes out.
but a sentence starter would be i'm glad we're still close but i really miss us together. and say you might think this is weird cause it's been 2 years but it's true. and just see what he says.
hope everything works out.
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Honestly i would tell him. When your hanging out bring it up be like wow its crazy we were dating 2 years ago huh? and see his reaction if he acts like he misses you then straight up tell him that and i hope it goes well if not dont be mad at him because friendship is better than nothing hope i helped =]
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TELL HIM!! Whenever it feels right to you. You will know better then anyone when the right time is!! Good Luck!
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Hey there.
That's great that you two are good friends still. I don't think I could've ever stayed friends with one of my exes. I think that if you want to tell him, you should understand that he could deny you and say that he doesn't have feelings for you anymore. And, if we were to tell you that, could you still be good friends with him without things being awkward?
I agree that you should definitely tell him though. He may still have feelings for you, but is wondering if he should tell you or not. And, you really don't have much to lose, I doubt that it would make things completely awkward but I don't know the type of situation yall have.
You should definitely tell him face-to-face. Not over text messaging or Myspace. You'll be able to get his reaction to it, and see if he's surprised or if he's not surprised. Just tell him, "I have something to tell you, and I'm not sure how to say it, but.. I still have feelings for you." Come straight out with it, good luck!
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